https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy by: Andrew W. Julian en-us 2022-07-16 19:51:49 UTC 2022-07-18 01:01:16 UTC hello@padlet.com ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244594700 Growing up I was put into an environment with people who would show affection and make sure that my needs where met, and that I was never put into a neglectful situation. Due to that, I created a trusting bond with those people. ]]> 2022-07-16 20:34:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244594700 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244663249 Though I grew up in environment with people would help me and make sure my needs were met, I also was expected to do things on my own. Things such as clean up my toys after I was done playing, to wash my hands after playing outside, and etc. Due to this I created a trait of self-control or autonomy. ]]> 2022-07-17 03:42:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244663249 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244664394 When playing games with other kids I would always let someone take control and set the rules, whether that was because I was shy, scared, or didn't know what to say is a mystery. Due to this I definitely was developing on the guilt side more than the initiative. ]]> 2022-07-17 03:49:19 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244664394 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244665459 As a kid I was always described as smart or intelligent, and I still am described that way. So after being identified as the "smart one" it created a type of academic validation, such as I needed good grades to be seen or I just need some type of good job or congratulations, but it always helped be stride to do better and achieve success. Due to this I lean more on the industry side.]]> 2022-07-17 03:54:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244665459 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244917628 As a kid growing up seeing everyone in middle school in "relationships" or guys dating girls it always made me feel out of place. Due to my attraction always being towards men instead of women, I didn't fully come to the realization that I was gay until about 7th or 8th grade, but in the time I didn't know I was always worried about my sexuality. People around me would always use the word gay in harmful manner, or make fun of gay people. Even people such as my parents would make me worry, asking question like "Do you have a girlfriend yet" or "Do you find any girls cute." It always felt like I was being held to standard that I couldn't bring myself to come to terms with. Now as I'm older though I'm very comfortable with who I am, and the worries of being gay have seemed to almost disappear. ]]> 2022-07-18 00:11:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244917628 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244925281 I believe myself to be more on the isolated side of things, I'm still pretty young. I would like to focus more on my school and my future instead of a relationship. I have thought about relationships though, and I feel as if I were to meet a person that felt right for me that I wouldn't say no. It's just not a top priority for me as of right now. ]]> 2022-07-18 00:23:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244925281 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244951264 Though I haven't yet made it to my adulthood yet, I still believe that the way I treated others is considered caring and positive. I also strive and try to accomplish things not only that make a better person but as well as help the people around me make better choices. I feel as of right now, I lean more on the generativity side of things. ]]> 2022-07-18 00:56:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244951264 ajulian22 https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244954167 I feel as if I keep the same attitude towards things and strive to always do better, or aim higher, or anything of that sort that I would lean on the integrity side more. I feel as if you know that death is coming upon you, and you think back on your life and can only think of good or positive things than accepting death can be easier. As of right now I feel as if I have done a lot more good than I have done bad, so when I do come to the end of my life than I'm sure accepting death will be not as bad as some might describe it to be.]]> 2022-07-18 01:00:53 UTC https://padlet.com/ajulian22/8uns8w5w8fdwtjdy/wish/2244954167