FG 1: Vignette 2: Donna by Cassie Withey-Rila https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u Donna is a cisgender woman, scrolling through her social media feed. She sees a crowdfunding campaign for gender affirming care. Continue the story by clicking the + below a question and typing what you think will happen next. More questions will be added as the story goes on. en-us 2021-12-17 01:21:21 UTC 2022-10-11 05:25:30 UTC hello@padlet.com If Donna is generally a nice person/aware the gender binary is silly/has disposable income whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213062 Oh that's a shame this person has to fundraise for a health cost. Let's click this link and see if I relate to the story enough to spend money on it]]> 2021-12-19 04:24:20 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213062 If Donna saw this on Twitter, from say, a mutual who she interacts with a lot who is trying to get people to donate, she may click on the link and do so. Then Tweet about it. https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213118 2021-12-19 04:24:30 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213118 Points for clicking whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213991 - aware of gender issues
- aware of access issues
- compassionate toward trans people
- personal stake if she knows the person whose campaign it is or knows people who know them 
- potential social capital for donating/sharing especially if friends are already donating/sharing
- genuinely wants to/enjoys helping people]]> 2021-12-19 04:26:54 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955213991 May be thinking that it's Demonstrating Good Allyship to donate (which can then be used as a defense when accused of transphobia elsewhere). Not to say that it's a conscious decision to donate to make it a shield, just, like, the self-image thing of thinking you're a great ally because you gave money to a stranger (when that takes very little engagement with the complex sides of trans issues) https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214096 2021-12-19 04:27:11 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214096 Judging whether the person "needs it" (maybe unconscious bias as well as conscious forms; unconscious bias will be written off as "bad vibes" etc) https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214734 2021-12-19 04:29:08 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214734 If she hasn't come across many trans people, she may be confused by the terminology used e.g. what is top surgery https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214959 2021-12-19 04:29:48 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955214959 Points against clicking whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215133 - unaddressed/internalised biases/transphobia 
- the internet keeps asking me for money
- scrolling for its own sake, sees post but doesn't take in enough info to engage further 
- sad this person isn't getting what they need, reluctant to click for further details]]> 2021-12-19 04:30:21 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215133 how tragic we all are https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215213 2021-12-19 04:30:37 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215213 HOPEFULLY oh wow the health system is really doing people a disservice here whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215344 2021-12-19 04:31:05 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215344 why is the trans community so lazy? why can't we earn the money to cover these things ourselves? (spoiler alert: our median income is half of cis people's (Counting Ourselves)) https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215601 2021-12-19 04:31:55 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215601 May feel pity, gratitude that she herself doesn't have to deal with these issues, may be skeptical about how much people are raising 'surely it can't be that much...' https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215664 2021-12-19 04:32:04 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215664 Feeling sad that she can't help all of us, and it sucks that we're put through this https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215808 2021-12-19 04:32:32 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955215808 how inspirational we are (bonus inspo porn points if they're disabled lolsob) https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216101 2021-12-19 04:33:23 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216101 yes -- positive self image for her if she believes she's progressive, plus social capital if her friends etc. are pro-trans https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216154 2021-12-19 04:33:30 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216154 Some degree of empathy/sympathy whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216221 hopefully, even if just "that must be difficult" ]]> 2021-12-19 04:33:41 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216221 money-grabbing whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216343 2021-12-19 04:34:04 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216343 hopefully if she's invested enough to click and read she'll be invested enough to donate whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216552 2021-12-19 04:34:40 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216552 Donna might not have disposable income to donate, so may choose to just share instead. https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216903 2021-12-19 04:35:43 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955216903 Maybe Donna has a kid who is trans; she knows the difficulties and therefore gives $50 to every campaign she sees! https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955217118 2021-12-19 04:36:24 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955217118 without more info on Donna's background the range of possible reactions/actions my brain gives goes from indifference to pity to empathy to kindness whinapomana https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955218531 2021-12-19 04:40:41 UTC https://padlet.com/cwitheyrila/8j8edafxcd4w9o2u/wish/1955218531