https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r Think of the best ways to respond/flag to Elyse's abuse scenario en-us 2021-09-20 11:47:25 UTC 2021-09-23 10:41:55 UTC hello@padlet.com mmannocchi https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762205132 ADD YOUR THOUGHTS HERE]]> 2021-09-23 06:56:53 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762205132 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762212451 Let's Help Elyse!!!]]> 2021-09-23 07:00:48 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762212451 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225115 If the situation is too extreme and it gets too hard on Elyse, it may be a good idea to inform the parents and consider changing schools.]]> 2021-09-23 07:06:59 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225115 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225457 Contact Polizia Postale]]> 2021-09-23 07:07:09 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225457 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225518 2021-09-23 07:07:11 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225518 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225661 Report inappropriate behaviours ]]> 2021-09-23 07:07:15 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762225661 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762226389 Its unproductive to blame Elise for an action she believed she was doing in confidentiality. It steers away from the real conversation of talking about the predator, and their negative actions as for what it is: a crime.]]> 2021-09-23 07:07:23 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762226389 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762227689 2021-09-23 07:08:00 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762227689 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762227990
I would talk to Elyse and convince her to get help from the authorities, but if this is against her will, it would be wrong to pressure her. She should be given the support she needs ]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:09 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762227990 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228412 Talk to her and see what she wants to do about it. If she doesn't want to report it, don't make her but make sure she is aware of the different options available to her.]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:20 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228412 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228780 Report it to the school and ask them if they can act in order to stop this. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:30 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228780 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228963 Extortion and Blackmail is illegal.
Owning or distributing child 🤬 is illegal, regardless of one’s own age and relationship with the individual (in most scenarios, the grey areas are near non existent).

If you have sexual pictures of an individual that was underage at the time of the photo, it does not matter if they consented to the picture and sent it to you themselves, nor your own age, it is still child 🤬 and is illegal, and you can be prosecuted for it.

In many places, individuals can be registered as sex offenders regardless of their age.]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:35 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762228963 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229225 As soon as the picture was shared with the school, it would be better to flag the situation to the psychologist or school councillors.]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:43 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229225 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229476 she shouldn't wait to make her situation bigger therefore she should have contacted the police or spoke with someone she trusts for example a family member or a friend. 


]]> 2021-09-23 07:08:50 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229476 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229812 Talking to the girl in private to help her emotionally and also talking to other students/friends so that she doesn’t get bullied.]]> 2021-09-23 07:09:00 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762229812 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762230818 although she said not to tell anybody, the right thing to do would be to tell someone who can deal with this situation better

]]> 2021-09-23 07:09:30 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762230818 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231010 First off never show any nude parts while face timing someone, it's obvious people will screenshot, however, if you do and you're later threatened via chat immediately screenshot the chat as proof and report to an adult or authorities.  ]]> 2021-09-23 07:09:36 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231010 mmannocchi https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231080 Elyse should directly flag the situation to either an authority or someone they trust to receive additional support ]]> 2021-09-23 07:09:38 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231080 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231453 Recommend that she talk to someone who can help her process this emotionally by referring to a trusted individual (e.g friend or psychologist) ]]> 2021-09-23 07:09:49 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231453 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231576 2021-09-23 07:09:52 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762231576 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762232494 In a situation like this, if the victim begins to feel judged by her peers who are already in possession of the photos, the situation could become even worse and lead Elyse do to something dangerous. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:10:20 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762232494 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762232539 As her friend, I would personally support her in her decisions and help her problem-solve in the situation. This depending on her choice of whether she should refer to child protective services, or if she prefers to leave the situation as it is. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:10:22 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762232539 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762233358 Depending on the situation and elements that should be considered, in order for the issue to be handled in a delicate manner, it may be unwise to consult the authorities directly as it may reveal to be a traumatising process for the victim, full of testimonials on a topic they might not be comfortable dealing with.]]> 2021-09-23 07:10:46 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762233358 gsalini1 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762234177 Elyse is the victim in this situation, she did nothing wrong a part maybe from trusting the wrong person. The best option would be for her to talk to an adult and flag the situation. If the situation got worse and became cyberbully she could also contact the postal police to make the pictures be taken down from the instagram page. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:11:08 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762234177 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762234573 We would first talk to Elyse to understand how she would like the situation to be handled. If Elyse would not want to report the situation we would convince her and discuss the dangers of this situation. We would also tell her to talk to the psychologist and we would support her because the situation could have long-lasting emotional damage. However, it is important to remember that Elyse may not want to escalate the situation further because it could cause even more trauma. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:11:20 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762234573 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762235009 Tell a teacher that you trust. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:11:33 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762235009 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762236568 Tell your parents because it is hard to tell the friend's parents and the parents can talk about it. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:12:18 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762236568 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762237245 It's important to remember that this can not only happen with boys, but also within friend groups and social circles. So it is necessary for everyone to know that you should not post pictures or even take pictures without the consent of the subject. This means you are being appropriate with everyone and nurturing a safe and comforting environment for anyone.]]> 2021-09-23 07:12:37 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762237245 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762237429 Report to the authorities right away. Call the police!]]> 2021-09-23 07:12:42 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762237429 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762238403 Elyse should report this to the school and authorities as soon as the image is released. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:13:05 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762238403 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762238519 Block from all technology. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:13:08 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762238519 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762241069 The power dynamic in a sexual can be extremely delicate, therefore a victim of abuse can very often feel ashamed. It important to make them feel comfortable an always let them know that they have people of authority that can handle the situation with the maximum discretion and sensitivity while keeping them mentally, emotionally and physically safe ]]> 2021-09-23 07:14:27 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762241069 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762248286 She should have confided in a friend with whose help she should have reported to school. Together they should have worked to report to the police and prosecute the guy.]]> 2021-09-23 07:17:14 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762248286 jherman48 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762253209 It's worth remembering that predators can take advantage of a lack of self-esteem. So someone telling you about all your good qualities could be someone very supportive or it could be someone to be wary of.]]> 2021-09-23 07:19:34 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762253209 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762254368 A secret’s a secret. I would keep my mouth shut, and try to advise her to tell someone so he gets what he deserves & doesn’t do it to anyone ever again. ]]> 2021-09-23 07:20:07 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762254368 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762262783 confronting the boy isn't going to do anything - go straight to safeguarding, so they can expel him.]]> 2021-09-23 07:24:25 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762262783 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762263148 Within this particular situation, I would personally not report it. The reason behind this is because I do not beieve it to be my place, I would try to attempt to make her be motivated to want to speak up. On the other hand, if she were to be suicidal or it was truly affecting her life, I would private speak up to make sure that not only for others to be protected in the future, but also to make sure she will be able to live a free and happy life.]]> 2021-09-23 07:24:35 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762263148 akhamzayev https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762263528 very easy ]]> 2021-09-23 07:24:47 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762263528 https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762268427 he took a screenshot without her consent and distributed child 🤬.]]> 2021-09-23 07:27:21 UTC https://padlet.com/mmannocchi/85topvo0mi43mi5r/wish/1762268427