⅔ Why do parents use harsh parenting? Give 5 reasons by Yaser Birjas https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3 Parenting Workshop en-us 2023-01-08 16:47:12 UTC 2023-01-21 04:19:05 UTC hello@padlet.com Video games https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451699749 Phones
Chores
Grades
Laziness]]> 2023-01-21 04:12:58 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451699749 Why do parents use harsh parenting? https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700043 1. Lack of patience 
2. Trying to be protective/ maybe that's what they were taught 
3. Their own insecurities
4. Lack of knowledge
5. Stressed out in your life and tend to project that onto the kids. ]]> 2023-01-21 04:14:23 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700043 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700159 - parents frustrated with other things
- that's how they grew up
- less effort
- because kids don't listen
- kids easy target to control ]]> 2023-01-21 04:14:56 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700159 Reason for harsh parenting https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700168 Being over protective
High expectations
Fear of failure
Economic reasons
Desperation]]> 2023-01-21 04:14:58 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700168 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700172 1. Repeated generational cycle
2. Wanting the best for them makes us act irrationally
3. Frustration
4. Fear
5. Overstimulated and frustrated 
6. Exhausted and stressed 
7. Comparing kids causes great stress
8. Not meeting our expectations. 
9. The mirror. (Seeing ourselves in our kids)
10. Immigrant families have a fear of losing our kids 
11. Wanting them to be perfect. ]]> 2023-01-21 04:14:59 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700172 Lack of calmness https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700185 Lack of emotional intelligence 
Aways right 

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:03 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700185 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700199 - it’s easier to be harsh to resolve the issue at hand 
- that’s the way we were taught 
- external stress and pressures 
- frustrated and angry on child behavior
- higher expectations 
- lack of education on parenting ]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:06 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700199 But Why? ndpv67pb2c https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700222 1. work-to-home emotional conversion
2. Loss of control
3. Sense of responsibility 
4. High stakes
5. To discipline ]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:13 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700222 gain respect https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700223 control the situation
not listening 

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:13 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700223 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700229 1. Learned from their parents
2. Want to be in control
3. Lack of tools to do better
4. Not understanding age appropriate parenting
5. Kids don't listen and gets frustrating

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:14 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700229 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700230 Because they are raised that way, cultural justification, lack of parenting skills, generation trama, lack of knowledge, emotional immaturity ]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:15 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700230 Astaghfirrulah https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700232 People use harsh parenting because they may have been raised in a harsh environment as that's how their culture is.]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:15 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700232 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700237 When kids don’t listen
It’s the easy way out
When the parent feels they can’t communicate with children they resort to harshness
Lack of patience 
When the parent is not emotionally stable ]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:16 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700237 The why? https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700445 - To gain control 
- unconsciously due to being under pressure  
- reflection of parent harsh up bringing 
- Not aware of consequences 
- Sign of weakness

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:29 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700445 Because they don’t listen https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700466 We don’t have family support
Out of frustration
No tools to deal w it
Generational trauma
Easier and faster
List of pressure on us]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:34 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700466 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700468 To exert control 
Having come from a background of harsh parenting themselves 
Unable to control our reactions when dealing with our kids 
Enforcing what you were raised with/ not staying current with the times

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:35 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700468 Scared about them https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700513 Bad parenting experience 
Responsibility 

]]> 2023-01-21 04:15:46 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700513 https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700653 lack of self control

to push them to be better

to make them stronger

its “worked” for generations]]> 2023-01-21 04:16:26 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/HarshParenting3/wish/2451700653