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      <pubDate>2018-05-20 12:52:28 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>I&#39;m not good at my math and physics. My mother and I are very afraid about my grades. I tried many ways to learn them before, but I just can&#39;t make it well. What can I do to improve my grades?</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<blockquote>According to your description, I could understand your situation and the eager you have toward your grades. I suggest you to work REALLY hard.<br>I used to have low grades, but I was determined to change my situation. I studied for all the long without relaxation and distraction. As a result, I got extremely good grades that semester. If you did that in my way, you would be successful with no doubts.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-20 12:54:38 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I don want to attend IELTS test!</strong></div><blockquote>You can find something you like, for example, I play basketball with my classmates after school or play mobile phones on weekends. If you didn't attend IELTS, you would not get a higher education. Besides, you can choose other exams to attend, such as TOFEL, SAT. Thirdly, Gaokao is a good chance for you if you want to enter domestic universities.&nbsp;</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-20 13:02:00 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I want to get higher grades! What can I do?!<br></strong> You raised such question which means you have not given up your school work! :D From my point of view, you have to pay more attention to your courses, and have more practice after classes. Many people have the same problem with you. They spend too much time in reading novels. If they use less time on reading those kinds of novel, such as those written by An Zhixiao, they will get higher grades. I don't know if you spend a lot of time in studying, but I'sure getting more practice IS useful. There is a true story. A girl who didn't have good grades before HFLS entrance test realized that she was not a genius before the exam. She went to library everyday. Later she succeeded in entering HFLS.<br>I believe that you will also get better grades if you are really hard-working!</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-20 13:06:57 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I can't passed IELTS test. What can I do?</strong></div><blockquote>Personally, I suggest that you should consider your mentality and timetable. They way you ask this question means that you have already worked hard enough, but the result is not desirable. Thus, there must be other elements taht lead to failure. To begin with, adjusting your attitude towards IELTS is quite necessary. Do not be too anxious about the result or think too much about unrealistic possibilities If you pushed yourself too hard, you would be distracted. What is more, reasonable timetable is good for you to prepare the IELTS. For example, having a 15-minute break after paying 40-minute attention sounds practical and helpful. Maybe you should make a general plan while you are dealing with IELTS.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 00:54:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I like playing basketball, which means it will occupy a lot of my time. What can I do?</strong></div><blockquote>I think that if you want to play basketball and also don't want to waste time, you should have a balance between these two things. I was a very fanatical badminton player when I was at mid-school. I played badminton four times per week. But soon I realized that it was not a good lifestyle because I have no time for study. So I made a plan to help myself away from badminton. I think it will also help you.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 01:08:34 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>There are a lot of things I wish to improve. However, I lack time and vigor to improve them all. I think I have to sacrifice a lot of my time if I want to make improvements, or just maintain my grades. I can't stand it! I will become a machine if I spend all my time on studying!</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>You have to make a balance. As you said you will be a machine if you spend all your time on study, you can just do something. You can also have some schedules and plans everyday.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 01:16:54 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>How should I face my little sisters, they are too many and they always want to play with me when I was at home.</strong></div><blockquote>I have never faced its situation before, but I have a cousin. When he was little, he asked me to play with him every day. I like playing with kids, so I don't have similar problem. if I were you, I might make a plan with them -- what time you can play with them and what time you need to do your own things. If they can't obey the rules, you will never play with them anymore.</blockquote><div><br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 01:21:19 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>For some reason, my friend and I broke up. I really want to know how his life is. What should I say to him? We haven't talked for three years.</strong></div><blockquote>I think time can cure everything. If he still has conflicts with you, I think you could forget him because he is actually too bad-tempered. I've met similar issues before. I argued with a boy for a semester, but recently when I chatted with him we became best friends again.</blockquote><div><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 06:38:53 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I want to see Nine Percent's concert in the future. What can I do?</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>You can save your money from now on. Because the tickets for that concert must be fairly high. Second, today if you wanted to go to their concert very much, you should have a good grade.&nbsp; For example, when my mother was a young child she wanted to see the concert of Zhang Xueyou and she saved her money for a couple of months and studied so hard that my grandmother allowed her to join the concert.<br>I hope my advice will help you and wish you can see the concert very soon!</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 06:42:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I miss my friends so much. However, they are studying in USA.<br></strong><br></div><blockquote>This is a very common occurrence. You need to look at it with optimism, instead of pessimism. There are several ways for you to fix this problem.<br>First if you really missed them, you could call them or email them. This is a very simple way for you and your friends to get in touch. I have a very close friend who moved to Beijing with her family in third grade. Although we live far, we still keep talking on the phone and never became estranged.<br>What's more, qq and Wechat are really good apps. You can visit their life through video chat. You can even see what happened on him or her after he or she went to abroad. <br>Last but not least, find a time when you are all free to get together. This is more effective than any other ways.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 06:48:11 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>If I lose all my hope, what should I do?</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>To be honest, it is not just something easy to lose. Think about the beauty of life. Be brave and embrace the success and happiness. Even if you did you should remind yourself of the responsibilities that you should take. When there is no hope for you, you live for your duty. Furthermore, always remember: the sun may be covered by clouds, but it is still there. There seemed to be no hope in the concentration camps, but there Jews who survived them.</blockquote><div><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 06:48:11 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>For me, English is too difficult. I can't remember the grammar and I hope I can improve my English but when I start studying it, I can't calm down and I can't remember anything.<br></strong><br></div><blockquote>Well, this situation is very common. Nobody likes to do things that are too difficult for them. But English is an important tool which is completely related to our daily life, so if we want to live like foreign people, we need to be very good at English. In fact, our choice to enter this program leads to a situation which we are facing right now.  We must have good command of English before we go to college.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 07:13:56 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I am afraid that I can't pass IELTS, and also I started to be concerned about my grades.&nbsp; What can I do to survive in our Austrian program?I'm regretting not choosing class 1.</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>Is do you have plenty of time to past IELTS test and it's not difficult for you to achieve this goal. Calm down. You'll survive.<br>It just seems meaningless to regret about those choices you've made before. Instead, try to live in this moment because if you don't, this right moment when you are hesitating whether those choices which have been made are right or not, you are destroying the moment which may lead to another regret. So keep going, because it will be a great memory of yours. If you try your best to enjoy the present you won't, at least, regret about doing nothing but hesitating.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:11:50 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>It seems that everyone else is your enemy. You have the opposite point with most people. It's very painful to find that you are different from others. What will you do?</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>You use "it seems" which means you're not very sure with your situation. Maybe others don't think so. You can change positions with others. Things you worry about may be nothing in other people's eyes. So don't worry to much. Your classmates are very friendly. If you met these kinds of questions again. You should tell yourself I've done nothing wrong and everyone is my friend. Open your mind to everyone! Don't be afraid!</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:17:45 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>How to be a confident person?<br></strong><br></div><blockquote>Setting some goals which are not very difficult to achieve and writing down these goals on a paper. If you cross them out of the paper you would become more confident.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:24:10 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>A friend of mine was recently disappointed in love. So can you tell her how to get out of the shadow of lovelorn?</strong></div><blockquote>My suggestion is that please tell your friend that don't pay much attention to that thing and try to find what she is keen on. As time goes on, if she can find what she loves to do or someone  better than the man who hurt her, she will get out of the shadow.</blockquote><div><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:25:34 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>I think studying is really boring and I always can&#39;t control myself from doing the things besieds studying. So the question that I want to ask is how to be a person who really likes studying without stop.</title>
         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><br></div><blockquote>The reason why you think studying is boring is that something else distracts your attention. So leave them far away and find someone to supervise you or study with you. If you tried this method for period of time, your scores would be raised and you will find something interesting in study.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:29:36 UTC</pubDate>
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         <author>ablecyt</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I can't to do everything immediately. For example I always write my TED paper a day before I need to give others the speech. What can I do to change this bad habit?</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>Well actually the way to solve that is very easy.<br>First and the most important, tell yourself you MUST do it immediately. If you try that, you might feel it's much easier. And then you can find someone to supervise you. For example you can ask your mother to remind you of what you you usually don't want to do immediately. Also you can keep a notebook. But the most important thing is to change yourself.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:34:03 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I hardly have improvements for myself. Life is meaningless because I seem to be doing nothing.<br></strong><br></div><blockquote>First and very happy to catch your question. I want to say that things are actually not the same with what you think. You have the similar dilemma with my, the reason of which may be that we both lack self-confidence. You think you are not improving but in fact you are accumulating wealth of experience, and that has a lot of things to do with your brilliant progress in any time in the future. So if I were you I would just trust myself and keep going on. Don't stop.<br>You can also develop your interests in many different aspects, such as music.  That will make your life more interesting and you won't think i meaningless.</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:39:10 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong>I'm not good at everything. I can't be the best at anything, whether games, art , or sports. I'm confused&nbsp; and I am always the loser who is not the best in single one aspect. <br>To be honest, I'm bad at everything. I want to improve myself. but it is too hard and I'm so stressful.</strong><br><br></div><blockquote>I'm sorry to hear your problem. However I think being POSITIVE it's a key element for everybody. You don't have to compare yourself with others all the time. Sometimes find your improvements or strengths, because one cannot be perfect nor can he be bad at everything. You are absolutely NOT a loser at all just because you didn't find your goods. In my perspective, you have the best ability of tolerance, endurance and patience in your class, which will be very useful for your future job, I believe. In many cases, if I were you, I would get mad or lose my temper but you really did a good job and make a model for me.<br>Being bad at several things is quite common for everyone. Remember to be positive. To say the least, common fame is seldom to blame. Being the best one in some aspects sometimes cannot bring good, isn't it?</blockquote>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2018-05-21 14:58:25 UTC</pubDate>
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