Abusive relationship by felipe alves

Psychological abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-03 22:54:54 UTC

In it, it is common for the victim to feel that they have stopped being themselves and to also apologize for a mistake they did not make. This is a type of abuse that can happen explicitly or quite subtly, which makes it difficult to perceive and causes confusion in those who are experiencing it. This happens because manipulations are often disguised as affection, care and concern.

Physical abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-03 23:06:56 UTC

Punches, slaps, kicks, use of objects to hurt, burns, cuts and restriction of movement. Physical abuse can occur in different contexts, such as domestic, relationships, institutions and care situations. It is often part of a larger pattern of control and domination by the aggressor over the victim.

Sexual abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-03 23:11:04 UTC

Sexual abuse does not only happen when there is rape. Feeling forced to do something you don't want to do through blackmail, threats, physical force, manipulation and lies is also an indication of this violence.

When there is sexual abuse in a relationship, the victim does things against their will to please their partner or to avoid conflict, arguments or the partner becoming violent. In many cases, this pressure to satisfy the abuser causes him to refuse to accept and insist a lot until the woman ends up giving in.

Financial abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-03 23:17:12 UTC

This type of abuse is one of the main reasons for the high number of violence against women, as, without their own income, they are manipulated, humiliated, controlled and even physically and sexually assaulted.

Abuse can start subtly, when your partner controls you with gifts and money, leaving you dependent on that action.

Moral abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-04 10:26:20 UTC

If the man is accusing the woman of infidelity, making moral judgments about her conduct, making false criticisms, exposing her private life, degrading the woman through insults that attack her character, devaluing the victim for her way of dressing. It is moral abuse

Rape

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-04 10:30:40 UTC

Using data from IBGE and the Ministry of Health, it was possible to calculate that 822 thousand cases of sexual violence were recorded across the country each year.

Which means that every minute, two women are raped in Brazil.

Institutional abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-04 10:36:24 UTC

- Police or legal systems not taking reports of violence seriously.

- Workplace policies that tolerate harassment or discrimination.

- Healthcare systems that ignore the needs of female patients.

Consequently resulting in the perpetuation of abuse, lack of justice, and reinforcement of gender disparities in various societal sectors.

Feminicide

2024-07-04 10:46:10 UTC

In Brazil there are 10,600 records of feminicide in 9 years

Every 15 hours, a woman is a victim of feminicide in the country, says research

Crimes were committed by partners and ex-partners in 72.70% of cases

In 38.12% of crimes, the killer was armed with bladed weapons and, in 23.75%, with firearms

Cultural abuse

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-07-04 10:46:28 UTC

- Forced marriage, often of minors.

- Female genital mutilation (FGM).

- Honor killings, where family members kill a woman perceived to have brought shame to the family.

It leads to physical harm, psychological trauma, suppression of women's rights, and perpetuation of gender inequality.

Consequences

falvestoledodacruz — 2024-08-01 01:37:07 UTC

An abusive relationship can have devastating consequences for a woman, affecting her physical, emotional, and mental health, as well as her social and economic life. Physically, she may suffer severe injuries and chronic health problems. Emotionally, she may experience low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Social isolation and economic dependence are common, making it difficult to leave the relationship and affecting her work performance.

In the long term, these women may struggle to form new relationships and continue to deal with mental health issues. Children are also affected, developing emotional and behavioral problems and being at risk of repeating patterns of violence in the future.

Resources available for women suffering from abuse

2024-08-01 01:39:09 UTC

— Call 180: The women's helpline offers help and information about women's rights and reports violence to the authorities. [Call 180](https://www.gov.br/mdh/pt-br/assuntos/violencia/ligue-180)

— Specialized Police Stations for Women's Assistance (DEAMs): Police stations for handling cases of violence against women, where complaints can be filed and help obtained. [DEAMs in Brazil](https://www.gov.br/mdh/pt-br/assuntos/politicas-para-mulheres/deams)

— Women's Reference Centers (CRAM): Provide mental, legal, and social support for women in situations of violence. [CRAMs Information](https://www.gov.br/mdh/pt-br/assuntos/politicas-para-mulheres/centros-de-referencia)

— Casa da Mulher Brasileira: A place that brings together many services for the care and support of women victims of violence, including mental, legal, health, and social help. [Casa da Mulher Brasileira](https://www.gov.br/mdh/pt-br/assuntos/politicas-para-mulheres/casa-da-mulher-brasileira)

— Public Defender's Offices: Provide free legal help for women needing legal support in situations of violence. [Defensoria Pública](https://www.dpu.def.br/)

— Public Ministry: Can be contacted to take legal action and ensure the protection of the woman victim of violence. [Ministério Público](http://www.mpf.mp.br/)

Warning signs for women in danger

2024-08-01 01:52:01 UTC

— Signal for Help: The "Signal for Help" is a discreet gesture for women in abusive situations to ask for help. Raise your hand with the palm facing forward, tuck your thumb into your palm, and close your fingers over your thumb.

— Changes in Behavior: Sudden changes, like avoiding people or pulling away from friends and family.

— Physical Injuries: Frequent bruises, cuts, or other injuries, especially if the reasons for them seem unclear or hard to believe.

— Fear and Anxiety: Visible signs of fear or anxiety, especially around a specific person.

— Excessive Control: A partner or family member has too much control, like limiting money, daily activities, or forcing isolation.

— Escape Behavior: Trying to leave home or a situation quickly or in secret.

— Limited Communication: Can't communicate freely, like always using a phone under watch or having little contact with friends and family.