the whole inclines to define success in a very single/narrow way. But this generate great mental pressure to young people and significantly limit the possibility of our future. Suicide rate increase 。。。% in recent x years. However, the society does not pay enough attention to this issue. So this figure is still continuously increasing. 

In china, we have college entrance examinations, in Japan, we have …, in malysia，we have in Hong Kong we have  DSE. And even we sucessfully enter the college, we are measured /evaluated by GPA. How about after graduation, we are still forced to strive for a decent，high-salary and stable job, like doctor and lawyer. Similar rankings also exist for，for example， the most powerful CEOs，the most-cited academics. The impression they give is always the same： a successful life should be rich and with high-socio status.

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1. Gov investment：put more resources to education to attract more teacher

    Why：Finland has.. teacher, quality，small class；compared china，big，less，bad quality. good points？more invidualistic，take more care，less pay attention on grades, but the person and learning itself. Result：finland 1st academic performance.  while china；wellness top five, HK, CHINA 79. Education is the way out.

2. Gov propoganda

    1）key opinion leader ：connectedness，fitness，diversity

3. University course design：wellness course, Sports course

4. University counseling：find someone to talk to

5. Forward Looking：change from this generations，be a good parent.

According to Maslow’s theory, people have hierarchy of needs. Only the five pillars of needs all be satisfied, people can be said to be in the total wellbeing and get away with pressure. But when we look at the five pillars, we think that although committing suicide or personal pressure seem to be personal issue, it is very significant and necessary to find solutions in helps of others. Above the two basic needs, it is need of belonging. Chasing personal success is totally fine, but we would be lonely if we fight alone or only fight for ourselves. When we try new things, explore new ways, pursuing our dreams, we are thirst for support of our family, the encouragement and even resources from our friends. And we need the whole community respect our choice, don’t stereotype or prejudice us by our portfolio or dreams.For self-esteem, we need the society，especially people in the frontier to embrace diversity definition of success. We can pursue achievements in more fields. And finally, we need the college，tutors, teachers to guide us know more about inner self. Find who we are and where our passion lies in. And we need the government to listen to our voices, promote our ideas and put more resources to education. It is not also helpful improve academic performance and mental wellbeing.