https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh Made with a warm hug en-us 2017-12-28 16:18:48 UTC 2025-10-15 16:52:08 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221159308 RCC LOVES YOU ]]> 2018-01-13 03:13:31 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221159308 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161692 last year one of my friends he’s a guy btw slapped my butt and all his friends laughed I still talk to him but it’s haopened again I feel like I can no longer get close to him because I’m nervous of what he will do if we are alone ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:06 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161692 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161696 2018-01-13 04:46:07 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161696 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161698 Earlier even year, a boy in my grade, who I was friendly with at the time, asked me to go see a movie with him. I had some sort of conflict anyway, but I kept getting sketchy vibes from him so I said no. By the next morning, he had turned a whole group of people against me that i thought weren't my friends, all because i wouldn't go to a movie. I later found out that he only asked me out in the first place because he heard that i would be easy and he just wanted to get into a girl's pants. I also later found out that he lost his virginity because a girl raped him while he was under the influence and since then he only cared about sex and drugs.]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:11 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161698 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161699 this summer, i went to a social justice leadership camp where we had a large discussion about sexual assault. there, i heard stories that broke my heart. i heard a story of a girl who was assaulted on a school bus while she was sleeping. she woke up to his hands in her pants. there were many many more stories, but that was one that impacted me the most. i had never felt so emotionally numb than i did after that conversation. i was thankful that it had never happened to me, but then i thought. i had hooked up with a boy over the summer and he took advantage of me and i felt like i was being used. i also think back to everytime i was catcalled in the hallway or touched without my permission. i say #metoo]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:15 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161699 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161700 Last fall, the day after the election (junior year) I was walking into the girls bathroom and this senior guy told me that I was sexy for a Jewish girl and he tried to follow me into the bathroom to assault me. He didn’t make it in, luckily. He was expelled early next week.]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:15 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161700 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161703 My boyfriend at the time always pushed me to do things i didn’t want to do and i was scared he would end things if i didn’t ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:17 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161703 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161705 same person over and over, I said yes once, but I did not say yes to anything else he did. we are friends today]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:20 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161705 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161708 i was at a bbyo convention and this boy kept grabbing me to grind on him. i said no multiple times and he legit grabbed me and i couldn’t go. it was gross and scary ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:24 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161708 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161711 My harassment wasn't physical. It was at school, from a boy 2 years younger and half my size! I was one of the only girls in the class and the only one in our group. He undermined me disregarded everything I said, called me stupid and all around disrespected me. He influenced the other boys in the group to ignore me and make fun at what I said. He targeted me because I made him nervous. When I called him out for his rude names and all around sexism he laughed in my chest, because he wasn't tall enough to reach my face :/. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:29 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161711 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161712 my bestfriends dad raped her and 3 other girls, while I was not there this had a huge impact on my everyday life. This is just one of the many stories I have. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:29 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161712 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161713 i was sexually assaulted twice and raped once. the first time i was sexually assaulted was freshman year. i was coerced into sending buses to a boy who i had no business sending nudes to. a few months later, he told me he would share them with whoever he could find if i didn't do stuff with him. i was shaking through it all. the second time was when i had a boyfriend. i was at a gathering and there was alcohol involved, and i was alone in a room with this guy and i don't know who made the first move, but i was not in the right state of mind to be engaging in a hook up. i asked him in the morning if we hooked up and he said no until two weeks later the guilt got to him. he admitted to fingering me after he realized i was passed out. i am just now coming to terms that i got raped. this was two weeks ago. it was by my boyfriend on new years. i was blacked out and was told in the morning what had happened. he told me he thought it was okay to keep going even though he was trying to keep me awake through it all. i dont know whether or not i would've consented in the moment, but i feel so violated knowing this happened and i cant even remember it. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:31 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161713 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161718 This is a story of two of my friends. This past summer at camp, we overheard two boys talking about raping two girls in my cabin. We all a wanted to believe that they were joking but they kept making jokes. Thankfully nothing else happened but to this day it is still a topic my friends and I dont talk about. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161718 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161730 Once a like and my friends were asking some cute boys to hangout. They said yes and we went over to their house. All the boys and girls were just hanging out and one of the boys moved closer . He kept touching me and doing things I wasn’t comfortable with. I keep staying stop and moving away his hands but he wouldn’t stop.I told my friends I wanted to go but they weren’t getting the message , they were having fun with other boys and not worrying about me . I was scared and felt some even the someone was closer to me than anyone ever has been . I wanted to cry but I didn’t want him to think I was a “prude” . I wasn’t comfortable with what was happening and it was clear to him. I kept saying please stop please stop and he wouldn’t . I wanted to scream and cry and run away and die in a hole . I haven’t talked about what’s he’s done to anyone . He thinks it’s a joke. It’s not . I will never forget that night even though he probably has because it wasn’t a big deal to him .people have been through much worse but that is traumatizing and makes you never want to get near a boy again. #metoo]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161730 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161733 I don’t have a specific story, but when other boys will come up to me and slap my butt or touch me in ways I don’t want to be touched. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:06 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161733 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161739 okay so i had a friend who worked was a mcdonald’s when she wasn’t1]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:19 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161739 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161746 in eighth grade, i was at my first BBYO convention and had embarrassingly made out who with a boy during the dance (sorry advisors) and during lives, the boy tried to go further with me without asking me if he could do so. i didn't know what to do and i felt so violated. my safe place and my favorite place was ruined by this boy pressing me to do something i didn't 
want to do (i didn't). #metoo]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:27 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161746 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161750 One of my close childhood friends recently was taken from her single dad. It was discovered that she was beaten and possibly sexually abused throughout childhood. By the time I figured out, we were at separate schools. So as a friend of a victim I will support anyone who needs it. ]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:41 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161750 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161754 3 months ago 2 of my ex friends told me i needed to give head for the first time and they told the guy I would to. I regret it so much and every day I think about how he used me and how uncomfortable I am around him and he always makes jokes about it.]]> 2018-01-13 04:47:57 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161754 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161759 My at the time boyfriend texted me asking to do something I was not comfortable with at his house next weekend. And I said no which he respected. The next time I was at his house it was fine until he forced me into what we agreed upon not doing. I tried to say no but he wouldn’t listen. I felt violated and NOT respected. This is why he is my ex.]]> 2018-01-13 04:48:04 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161759 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161780 #metoo for my mom ]]> 2018-01-13 04:48:37 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161780 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161781 i said i would make out with him but when we hung out, let’s just say, we ended up going farther than i wanted to. he wasn’t purposly “raping” me but it didn’t feel right and i still wish i hadn’t made the decisions i did so i say me too]]> 2018-01-13 04:48:41 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161781 https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161798 Throughout third and fourth grade one of the older boys at Hebrew school would always grab, pinch, and slap my butt no matter how many times I told him to stop]]> 2018-01-13 04:49:26 UTC https://padlet.com/slcnsiah/6srs2j5dt1qh/wish/221161798