Women & Femmes- How does/do Individual Oppression/ Microaggressions show up for us? by https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j Please list the examples of microaggressions that impact you and your community. These might be the actions people take, the words people say, the assumptions that are made or the messages you receive. Only write on the pages of the groups that you belong to. en-us 2021-06-28 13:20:37 UTC 2021-06-28 19:48:22 UTC hello@padlet.com men speaking over me irisjacob https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628363977 2021-06-28 13:21:45 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628363977 Men assuming I don't have what it takes to "lead" the team because I don't have their same character traits https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628796542 2021-06-28 18:33:57 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628796542 https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628799619 White men as "deciders," control over strategy; women as implementers]]> 2021-06-28 18:36:25 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628799619 Men in leadership positions asking for feedback but not considering that feedback in the final decision. Feels like it is only to check the box saying that an opportunity for input existed but...not really. https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628805978 2021-06-28 18:42:08 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628805978 Attire https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628806258 "Oh. don't you know if you dress that way <male decision maker> will side with you?"]]> 2021-06-28 18:42:25 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628806258 sgayoso https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628824216 Our organization places value based on title rather than productivity and contribution to the team. It’s a page directly from the patriarchy playbook. ]]> 2021-06-28 18:59:08 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628824216 https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628827354 We should be grateful for all the flexibility, etc and therefore less ambitious about raises/promotions ]]> 2021-06-28 19:02:18 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628827354 being expected to be pleasant and accommodating https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628832980 2021-06-28 19:07:58 UTC https://padlet.com/irisjacob/6m9w8voetf0hrt2j/wish/1628832980