Help! by Aris Winger https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc How easy is it to ask for help en-us 2022-06-22 20:09:40 UTC 2025-11-15 09:42:17 UTC hello@padlet.com why u always lyinnnn https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169343 2022-06-22 20:41:28 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169343 wish I knew https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169348 2022-06-22 20:41:28 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169348 idk if i actually need it or not </3 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169358 2022-06-22 20:41:30 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169358 to hide the pain. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169359 2022-06-22 20:41:30 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169359 People are nice https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169363 2022-06-22 20:41:31 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169363 i have a lot of ways to reach out to people that CAN help (discord, emails, etc) https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169379 2022-06-22 20:41:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169379 Why are YOU lying?? https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169386 2022-06-22 20:41:34 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169386 I know that others may need help as well https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169393 2022-06-22 20:41:35 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169393 for giggles https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169402 2022-06-22 20:41:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169402 i have not asked for help before and it went terribly https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169416 2022-06-22 20:41:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169416 To “look” smart https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169452 2022-06-22 20:41:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169452 only easy when i have no other options https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169459 2022-06-22 20:41:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169459 no https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169463 2022-06-22 20:41:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169463 I'm desperate https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169466 2022-06-22 20:41:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169466 I've never needed help with anything in my life *sweats nervously* https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169478 2022-06-22 20:41:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169478 sometimes i feel like im not smart enough if i need help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169498 2022-06-22 20:41:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169498 dis me https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169516 2022-06-22 20:41:52 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169516 It is some people's job to help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169536 2022-06-22 20:41:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169536 it shows how much i've grown https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169550 2022-06-22 20:41:58 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169550 Resources are available https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169556 2022-06-22 20:41:59 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169556 because people usually never say no https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169570 2022-06-22 20:42:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169570 it's going to be harder to go through whatever it is without asking for help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169589 2022-06-22 20:42:03 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169589 I sometimes feel like i need it but I struggle a little first https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169603 2022-06-22 20:42:06 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169603 relatable https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169612 2022-06-22 20:42:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169612 (its not) until im at the edge https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169616 2022-06-22 20:42:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169616 why would I ask for help if I dont need it https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169630 2022-06-22 20:42:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169630 there are so many people that have expressed they are willing to help at CMU https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169641 2022-06-22 20:42:12 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169641 NGL I try to handle it all myself until i get stressed… https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169656 2022-06-22 20:42:15 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169656 I usually thug it out but if I need it I'll ask. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169684 2022-06-22 20:42:20 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169684 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169706 embarrassment ]]> 2022-06-22 20:42:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169706 literally a few days ago via email https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169712 2022-06-22 20:42:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169712 I love to struggle First before reaching out. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169731 2022-06-22 20:42:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169731 I'm too used to pretending that I'm okay when I'm really not https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169751 2022-06-22 20:42:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169751 elementary school https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169773 2022-06-22 20:42:36 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169773 when I was In cal https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169777 2022-06-22 20:42:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169777 because i've been in three years of intense dbt to help with acknowledging when i need help, and reaching out. it's sh*t and sucks a lot of the time but it will help in the long run, even if you don't think you need it. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169800 2022-06-22 20:42:42 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169800 when i know faces and i'm not shy, I know i would get the support i need https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169805 2022-06-22 20:42:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169805 math hl https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169810 2022-06-22 20:42:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169810 me https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169811 2022-06-22 20:42:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169811 talking to people is scary https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169818 2022-06-22 20:42:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169818 nah nah im getting ahead of my future alcohol addiction now https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169824 2022-06-22 20:42:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169824 Preschool https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169843 2022-06-22 20:42:48 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169843 it's easy when i know the person https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169920 2022-06-22 20:43:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169920 Nah! I have my limits. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169948 2022-06-22 20:43:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169948 this was my mentality before but i always ended up in bigger messes https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169960 2022-06-22 20:43:06 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169960 because i feel like im annoying https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169970 2022-06-22 20:43:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169970 when i didnt understand basic grammar https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169998 2022-06-22 20:43:11 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228169998 I didn’t think that I needed help at first, but then things got more difficult, and i thought it was my fault or that i was incompetent https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170022 2022-06-22 20:43:14 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170022 Literally on graduation day bc I didn't know how to put everything on https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170029 2022-06-22 20:43:15 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170029 if it's for school it's easy to ask when i know i'll be able to understand the work more and i know they are good at explaining https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170043 2022-06-22 20:43:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170043 Always try to do as much research as possible by myself before asking for help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170086 2022-06-22 20:43:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170086 an hour ago about a question about health insurance https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170109 2022-06-22 20:43:28 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170109 Uhhh Last Day of Class. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170132 2022-06-22 20:43:31 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170132 not lying https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170150 2022-06-22 20:43:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170150 for ap calc and active physics https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170171 2022-06-22 20:43:36 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170171 The other day cause I was about to fail gym LMAOOO https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170178 2022-06-22 20:43:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170178 studying for my exams https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170187 2022-06-22 20:43:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170187 last time i was in school, i didn't, and it screwed me up for years. so definitely changing that for my time at cmu https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170194 2022-06-22 20:43:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170194 a few hours ago https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170231 2022-06-22 20:43:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170231 because imposter syndrome is a bitch. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170267 2022-06-22 20:43:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170267 Trying to get my transcript one more time (still haven’t seen it) https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170287 2022-06-22 20:43:54 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170287 Probably like everyday lol https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170309 2022-06-22 20:43:57 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170309 Few weeks ago https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170338 2022-06-22 20:44:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170338 first day of pre-k https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170372 2022-06-22 20:44:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170372 we all need help sometimes (most of the time) https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170457 2022-06-22 20:44:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170457 Uhhh...Are you accusing me without proof? https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170465 2022-06-22 20:44:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170465 Not sure if the things I need help with are actually things that can be fixed https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170498 2022-06-22 20:44:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170498 I was 12 and humiliated by my teacher //uwu// https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170513 2022-06-22 20:44:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170513 I feel like people are there to help me https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170533 2022-06-22 20:44:28 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170533 can someone please help me get $1000 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170605 2022-06-22 20:44:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170605 it's not https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170753 2022-06-22 20:45:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170753 emails feel so formal for some reason so i feel nervous about sending them https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170773 2022-06-22 20:45:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228170773 when I realize it's not supposed to be this hard https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171068 2022-06-22 20:45:48 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171068 I realized that I can't just do everything by myself and that asking for help is way more beneficial and relieving than struggling alone https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171473 2022-06-22 20:46:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171473 some educators don't bother helping when you ask or demean you if you do https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171720 2022-06-22 20:47:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/6c4bivvypt86i4uc/wish/2228171720