Sociology Ch. 16 by Savannah Julius https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16 Unit 1 - Ch. 16: Marriage and Family en-us 2018-03-08 17:04:10 UTC 2018-03-13 13:53:23 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Ring.png Quizlet 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/239778284 https://quizlet.com/_4ixz0n ]]> 2018-03-08 17:05:03 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/239778284 cultural space 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006452 2018-03-09 03:51:23 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006452 What is a Family 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006461 polygamy
 - polygyny
--> Saudi Arabia (the Prophet Muhammad)
--> Warren Jeffs = leader of FLDS
 - polyandry

family v. household
 - nuclear family
 - extended family
 - family of orientation
 - family of procreation

amish = multi-generational [homes]]]> 2018-03-09 03:51:28 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006461 What is marriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006535 heterosexual? homosexual?

1/5 relationships begin online; 3/5 homosexual relationships begin online]]> 2018-03-09 03:52:11 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006535 Common Cultural Themes 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006646 2018-03-09 03:52:54 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006646 Mate Selection 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006724 endogamy v. exogamy and how they overlap

incest taboo

marrying through courtship or out of love]]> 2018-03-09 03:53:37 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006724 Descent 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006734 system of descent
 - bilienal
 - patrilineal
- matrilineal]]> 2018-03-09 03:53:43 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006734 Inheritance 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006792 bilineal passes property to males and females
... patrilineal to the males
.... matrilineal to the females (most rare)]]> 2018-03-09 03:54:06 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006792 Authority 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006990 patriarchy v. matriarchy v. egalitarian

egalitarian is not FULLY attained really

patriarchy runs through all societies]]> 2018-03-09 03:55:37 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240006990 Functionalist 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007076 how marriage and family contribute to well-being of society]]> 2018-03-09 03:56:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007076 Why the family is universal 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007108 1. economic production
2. socialization of children
3. take care of sick and elderly
4. recreation
5. sexual control
6. reproduction]]> 2018-03-09 03:56:49 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007108 Functions of Incest Taboo 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007214 incest taboo helps...
....families avoid role confusion
... socialize children
... encourage exogamy]]> 2018-03-09 03:57:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007214 Isolation and emotional overload 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007305 isolation of the nuclear family + crisis = affect spread over fewer people --> emotional overload

this can lead to abuse!]]> 2018-03-09 03:58:22 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007305 Conflict Perspective 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007399 conflict is a part of marriage (duh, there's intimacy)
 - power = source of conflict

women make most decisions in US household]]> 2018-03-09 03:58:59 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007399 Symbolic Interactionist 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007470 2018-03-09 03:59:35 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007470 Changes in Traditional Gender Orientations 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007492 housework and childcare originally women's work BUT a shift has occurred as more women work now

child rearing = raising children]]> 2018-03-09 03:59:45 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007492 Paid work and housework 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007551 women: less time on housework
men: more time on housework
both: less time on housework all together

?????]]> 2018-03-09 04:00:15 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007551 More Child Care 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007624 both gender parents spend more time with children (lives are more efficient --> tech)

however, this can lead to isolation and then emotional overload]]> 2018-03-09 04:00:55 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007624 Total Hours 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007710 men still dedicate more hours to family than and housework than before

*in comparison to women's shift]]> 2018-03-09 04:01:42 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007710 A Gendered Division of Labor 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007822
  • men are primary income earners
  • women are primary childcare and houseworkers
    • booooo):

    but: trend of stay-at-home dads
    ]]>     2018-03-09 04:02:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007822     Love and Courtship in Global Perspective 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007954 romantic love
    1. emotional feeling of sexual attraction
    2. cognitive by labeling feeling as "love"

    fear can produce romantic love]]>     2018-03-09 04:03:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240007954     Marriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008061 2018-03-09 04:04:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008061 Social channels of Love and Marriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008093 homogamy and propinquity
     - age, edu, social class, ethnicity, community, work
    - 93% of couples homogamy

    however there has been a rise in interracial marriage
     - more common to see black man and white woman, less vice versa]]>     2018-03-09 04:04:41 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008093     Childbirth 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008206 2018-03-09 04:05:48 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240008206 Ideal family size 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240257142 shift in number of children (declining) in 1970 because
    1. birth control pill
    2. sexual revolution
    3. women with long-term careers

    correlation between larger families and church-goers!]]>     2018-03-09 17:00:21 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240257142     Marital satisfaction 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240257823 marital satisfaction decreases after first baby (baby = stress), but increases back up again after second kid
     - 1st baby = unbalance
    • diad to triad
     - satisfaction peaks when children between 6 and 12 and again when they leave adolescence
    ]]>     2018-03-09 17:01:25 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240257823     Child Rearing 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240258674 2018-03-09 17:03:04 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240258674 Married couples and single mothers 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240258776 if married --> mom is at work, then the kids are with dad or at daycare

    if single --> mom is at work, then the kids are with relatives
    - fictive fin]]>     2018-03-09 17:03:17 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240258776     Day care 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240259266 1/6 to 1/7 children in day care

    poor day care if...
    ... no early childhood background
    ... high children-staff ratio
    ... open all hours?]]>     2018-03-09 17:04:07 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240259266     Nannies 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240259796 upper mid class to high class have nannies
    • issues of jealousy
      • conflict

    ]]>     2018-03-09 17:05:10 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240259796     Social Class 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240260123 MELVIN KOHN
    working class parents believe kids are wildflowers and develop naturally
    - concern on conformity
    - more likely to use physical punishment

    mid-upper class parents believe kids are garden flowers and need nurturing
    - concern on curiosity and self expression
    - less likely to use physical punishment]]>     2018-03-09 17:05:44 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/240260123     Family Transitions 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196399 2018-03-13 03:47:30 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196399 Transitional adulthood and not-so-empty nest 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196425 children in US leave home LATE
     - 18% of 25-29 year olds return home = boomerang children
            - 11% of those have children

    when does adulthood begin??]]>     2018-03-13 03:47:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196425     Widowhood 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196751 number of women widows is greater than number of men widows
    • women outlive men
    • women usually marry older

    widowhood effect
    ]]>     2018-03-13 03:49:34 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196751     African American Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196867 found in the SOCIAL CLASS not race

    • Upper class - preserve bloodline; legacy
    • Middle class - achievement and responsibility
    • Lower class - fictive kin… cope by relying on relatives and neighbors; divorce is common

    family in poverty...
     - headed by single mother
          - fictive kin
    - grandparents act as parents
          - marriage squeeze
    ]]>     2018-03-13 03:50:29 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196867     Latino Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196983 families differ by country of origin

    more likely to be headed by married couple than divorced couple

    machismo]]>     2018-03-13 03:51:12 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241196983     Asian American Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197065 usually both parents in the households
     - high edu
     - high income

    again... differ by country of origin
    i.e. Japan and Confucian values (obligation)]]>     2018-03-13 03:51:46 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197065     Native American Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197172 either follow tradition or assimilate

    important in culture to respect elders
     - grandparents teach and discipline the kids]]>     2018-03-13 03:52:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197172     One-Parent Families (68%) 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197432 increase in number of one-parent families
     - increase in divorce
    - single women taking longer to get married]]>     2018-03-13 03:53:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197432     Couples Without Children 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197490 DINKS = Dual Income, No KidS
     - 1/5 married couples don't have kids
     - the more edu a women has, the less likely she will have kids

    reasons for child-free couples
    - more edu and careers for women
    - increase in contraception
    - abortion can be legal
    - children are expensive!]]>     2018-03-13 03:53:42 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197490     Blended Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197662 two divorced people remarry and join their families
    - many step brothers and sisters and mothers and fathers]]>     2018-03-13 03:55:01 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197662     Gay and Lesbian Families 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197765 same problems as a homosexual relationship (duh)
     - just a stigma
    - and discrimination.... ):]]>     2018-03-13 03:55:31 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197765     Adoption by gay and lesbian couples 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197896 controversial if there are kids from previous marriage

    gay couples want kids for the same reason straight couples do.... WOW who woulda thunk]]>     2018-03-13 03:56:21 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241197896     Changing Timetable of Family Life: Marriage and Childbirth 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198029 age for first-married couples in still increase (huge increase from sexual revolution in 70s)

    postpone marriage and postpone children.... 
    WHY? cohabitation]]>     2018-03-13 03:57:16 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198029     Cohabitation 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198150 most remarkable trend 
     - rise in its acceptance (not living in sin anymore)
    between 1/2 to 2/3 couples cohabit]]>     2018-03-13 03:58:09 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198150     Cohabitation and marriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198196 main difference = commitment]]> 2018-03-13 03:58:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198196 After cohabitation 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198238 40% marry, 27% break up, 1/3 remain cohabiting

    1/4 children born to cohabiting parents]]>     2018-03-13 03:58:49 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198238     Health benefits of cohabitation 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198326 men who cohabit live longer than men who don't]]> 2018-03-13 03:59:29 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198326 Does cohabitation make marriage stronger 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198361 inconclusive]]> 2018-03-13 03:59:50 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198361 Sandwich/Skipped Generation and Elder Care 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198389 people between 40 and 55 years old now in charge of taking care of their children and their own, aging parents]]> 2018-03-13 04:00:04 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198389 Ways of Measuring Divorce 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198472 is NOT 50%

    60,000,000 married couples and 1,000,000 couples get divorced per year

    Reduce risk of divorce
    • Edu, religion, if parents are not divorced, wait to marry, having baby after marriage, over $25,000 per year
    ]]>     2018-03-13 04:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198472     Divorce and Interremarriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198556 people who marry outside of ethnic group could have a higher divorce rate
     - more conflict if exogamy

    weakest couples (exogamy)
    • black men, white women
    • latino and white
    strongest couples
    • white men, black women
    • asian and white
    ]]>     2018-03-13 04:01:30 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198556     Children of Divorce 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198727 2018-03-13 04:02:59 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198727 Emotional Problems 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198762 more likely to divorce in the future themselves]]> 2018-03-13 04:03:15 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198762 What helps children adjust to divorce? 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198790  - close to both parents
     - parents don't undermine each other
     - consitent routine
    - 3rd figure]]>     2018-03-13 04:03:32 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198790     Perpetuating divorce 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198892 trust issues]]> 2018-03-13 04:03:59 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198892 Grandchildren of Divorce 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198926 divorce effects across generations
    - like a cycle]]>     2018-03-13 04:04:15 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198926     Fathers' Contact with Children After Divorce 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198966
    most children of divorce are with mom

    most often you see frequent contact or minimal contact

    less often you see decreasing contact over time or increasing contact over time

    serial fatherhood]]>     2018-03-13 04:04:42 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241198966     Ex-Spouses 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199056 many exes stay in contact because KIDS

    continuities]]>     2018-03-13 04:05:28 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199056     Remarriage 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199109 1/4 married couples are on their second marriage (or third or fourth...)

    divorced people are more likely to marry other divorced people]]>     2018-03-13 04:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199109     Dark Side of Family Life 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199196 2018-03-13 04:06:43 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199196 Spouse battery 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199210 women start fights just as much as men
    --> gender equality for initiating violence

    women are just physically weaker

    How women get out of abusive relationships
    1. Positive self concept
    2. Financial means
    3. Connection/support of family and friends
    4. Broke from traditional value
    ]]>     2018-03-13 04:06:49 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199210     Child abuse 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199310 2mil reports, 3 mil children
    750,000 of those reports found substantial]]>     2018-03-13 04:07:37 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199310     Marital or Intimacy rape 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199362 rape CAN happen even if married or cohabiting

    less likely to be reported]]>     2018-03-13 04:08:05 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199362     Incest 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199420 more common in socially isolated families
    most common between two siblings and if its the older brother and younger sister]]>     2018-03-13 04:08:22 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199420     Bright Side of Family Life: Successful Marriages 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199503 3/5 americans are satisfied with marriage

    to be happy you must...
    1. get along with in-laws
    2. enjoy same leisure activities
    3. agree on $$$$]]>     2018-03-13 04:09:10 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199503     Symbolic Interactionism and Misuse of Stats 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199680 cannot apply [divorce] stats to an individual

    growth mindset, my friend]]>     2018-03-13 04:10:24 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199680     it's not going anywhere 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199792 marriage is in every society and will be for a very long time
    --> it's vital to welfare!]]>     2018-03-13 04:11:16 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241199792     if parent gets independence at work, the the parent will give its child independence at home 8juliuss https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241200304 child rearing depends on the occupation of the parents]]> 2018-03-13 04:15:25 UTC https://padlet.com/8juliuss/sociology16/wish/241200304