Nonverbal communication is fluid and fast, universal, confusing, and contextual. It can add to or replace verbal communication and can be intentional or unintentional. Nonverbal communication communicates feelings and attitudes, and people tend to believe nonverbal messages more than verbal ones.

Through this LU I have learned about nonverbal communication. I have learned something new about understanding nonverbal communications code. For example, eye contact. Since the visual sense is dominant for most people, eye contact is an especially important type of nonverbal communication. The way you look at someone can communicate many things, including interest, affection, hostility, or attraction. Eye contact is also important in maintaining the flow of conversation and gauging the other person’s interest and response. I don't know if it's a nonverbal communication code, it looks interesting when it's known as a kind of code. I will apply what I have learned through LU this time to my life. For example, I will use eye contact first if I want to talk to someone so that the person will feel more focused on the conversation that I will convey. Learning in Lu is very interesting and it is something that we do in our daily lives, especially about this nonverbal communication code. by knowing all this he has given me the knowledge of the principles of nonverbal communication. I will learn more about this verbal communication code so that it can be used while in the workplace to interact with clients or colleagues.

Thirdly, suspend that we suspend our judgement briefly. Listen carefully first before we judge. There also have the listening process which is mindfulness and then physically receiving messages and then selecting and organizing material. After that, interpreting communication then responding and the last remembering. There have many benefits of effective listening. Which is improves relations and also can avoid conflict then improves understanding.

Through Lu, I learned about listening and the importance of listening. Through this listening, we can get information by being mindful, controlling obstacles, asking questions, use aids to recall and organize information. I am interested in the topic this time about listening. This is because a lot of information can be understood based on this topic. For example, through listening, we will get many benefits as well which can avoid a conflict. With this, it will not affect our daily life with the people around us. Apart from that, I will also use what I have learned in my life by making the best use of the listening function and not abusing it. This is because if we do not listen clearly or focus on what others want to convey, it will cause us to lose information and cause conflict among family, colleagues or friends. For example, A conveys important information to B but B ignores it and is less focused on the information conveyed. It will cause the delivery of incorrect information to the party C.Therefore, I think this part of listening is also very important in our interaction with others. In conclusion, I think this listening can be beneficial to our future where it can be applied as a good attitude by always focusing on what other parties want to convey while working so as not to accumulate wrong information.

Then, influence the attitudes and behaviour of others and also form contacts and maintain relationships. There have many advantages of interpersonal relationships which is can gain self-knowledge and self-esteem and enhance physical and emotional health. Besides that, it also can maximize pleasures and minimize pains. If there have advantages, they also will have disadvantages. Which is increases obligations and prevent from developing other relationships or abandoning other relationships. After that, being scared of possibilities then also can hurt your feelings. There have 6 stages of model relationship which is contact, involvement, intimacy, deterioration, repair and dissolution.
Besides that, there are also have 4 types of interpersonal relationships. Which are family, friends, love and the workplace. Through the LU we get to know Friendship is a term used to indicate cooperative and supportive behaviour between two or more people. In this sense, the term points to a relationship that involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. After that, love is a feeling characterized by closeness, caring, intimacy, passion, and commitment. Love is an interpersonal relationship developed, maintained, and sometimes destroyed by communication. So, communication skills can enhance a love relationship. The family includes the children, relatives, and assorted significant others surrounding a primary relationship. A primary relationship denotes the two relationships between the two principal parties. Communication patterns of nuclear families apply to all forms of families. Lastly, for the workplace relationship, there have mentoring relationships. Crucial for rising in a hierarchy and developing skills and also can be online too.

Through this Lu, I feel very excited about the topic this time. This is because I know that love has many types, namely Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania and Agape. In addition, each type of love has a different meaning and is very dancing to learn. Love and communication can Increase self-disclosure. Then can self-disclosure means making the self known to others, letting others know what you think, feel, and want.
Besides that, self-disclosure can also create a trusting environment that is conducive to promoting long-term relationships. I will take advantage of what I have learned with friendship needs, which is to know more about what a friendship wants. For example, I can support my friend no matter what job he or she chooses in the future. This can further strengthen the friendship between me and my friends. The knowledge I found starting this LU, was able to give me about the importance of such a relationship in our lives. This is because it can make us successful in the future because of the support of friends, family, colleagues and our life partners.