https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried Only one group representative is required to respond in the wall. Make sure to include the matric numbers of everybody in the group. en-us 2018-10-17 11:57:30 UTC 2026-03-22 19:45:47 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/296343520 Anis Afifa]]> 2018-10-24 09:34:44 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/296343520 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/296348974 ANIS AFIFA NORBASUDI 1628208
ANIS AFIFI NORBASUDI 1624208
ZULAIKA JALALUDIN 1625688
SITI MALISSA YAAKOB 1624856

From our opinion, it is important for our friend to reflect and ponder whether she is happy with current relationship she has with. After analyzing the pros and cons, then only she has to decide whether to open up another space for her family's choice. But, it is also important for our friend to examine the family's choice whether he is good enough or not. compatibility is the key. 

However, the ultimate way is always to ask Allah through istikharah prayer since He knows what is best for His believer.]]> 2018-10-24 09:57:47 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/296348974 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/297016056 In our opinion, on todays era, the mismatch weddings are not so relevant. As we can see, some parents want to marry his/her daughter with their choice even though his/her child already have their own partner. This issues may lead to unhappy marriage because they don't love and understand each other. In addition, difficulties may occur in terms of responsible as a life partner. Some of them cannot coop with the problem and will choose divoce as the best problem solving. Apart from that, if their daughter or son has someone that they love, they might or prone to involve in a unhealthy relationship where they don't care about their marriage and focus on their lover more. Then, how can they fulfil their responsibility toward islam to produce more muslims descendent. So, it is better for that person to choose their own partner because we are the one who will stay and face whatever thing come later together with our partner.

Nurul Atikah binti Mohd Asri 1625764
Nurul Jannah binti Mohd Al Khairi 1621512
Norshabirah binti Shafizan 1620216
Nur Izzati binti Zakaria1620972]]> 2018-10-25 15:41:36 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/297016056 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/297738444 Justification
In our opinions, parents should never be allowed to decide who their children marry. That tradition is an ancient one. No parent gets to decide who makes their child happy. In this generation children are breaking more and more away from their parents and it's for good reason. By the times, parents are trying to push ancient beliefs and practices on their children with no regard as to how the children feel. Thus, children should be free to do what they want to do in with the life and married whom they want to married. They should put on trust that they have raised their child properly to choose the right partner for the rest of their life.

Ways
Reflect him/herself do he/she loves the spouse choosen by their family. If not, telling the truth and be embrace to tell the reason. By the time, forgive and seek answer and guidance through istikharah prayer. Because Allah knows the best for His believer.

Muhammad Hamdan Bin Ramli (1616615)
Mohamad Farid Ikhwan Bin Hamamudin (1611947)
Mohamad Haikal Bin Mohamad Azhar (1626675)
Fitri Nurhakim Bin Mohd Shah (1624475)]]> 2018-10-28 11:37:30 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/297738444 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/298524569 He or she should :
1. Try to discuss about the good sides of the one that he/she wanted to marry to his/her parents
2. Negotiate and find a win-win situation so that none of the parties will feel offended by the decision made
3. Convince parents to accept who he/she as he/she is
4. Do solat istikharah to get guidance from Allah

*GUAVA*
Nur Fasehah bt Supardi 1625562
Nur Shuhada bt Shuib 1626364
Arisha Auji bt Kamarudin 1724092
Nur Azlinda bt Azman 1718142]]> 2018-10-30 14:26:22 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/298524569 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306707711 If she is a virgin, the father has a right to choose her partner]]> 2018-11-21 12:16:56 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306707711 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306707799 2018-11-21 12:17:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306707799 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306708608 1. Firstly, he needs to figure out why his parents dislike his partner. They must have valid reasons why they dislike.
2. It would be nice if his parents can provide the reasons, so that he will be able to convince his parents that he really likes her.
3. The parent should know that their decision not the best result for their children. Maybe the person that chosen by their children is the most appropriate for their future.
4. Don't take any side. Do his/her best to negotiate, understand or at least respect their disagreement. If his/her has to turndown someone's demand, be clear that it doesn't mean that you don't love them.

Muhammad Norfirdaus bin Ab Razak 1612897
Safwan bin md sharit 1612455
Muhammad Iman Bin Sa'don 1616689
Muhammad Faris Asyraf bin Khalid 1611123]]> 2018-11-21 12:20:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306708608 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306720552
Anis Suraya 1625788
Aida Samad  162 2610
Mahirah  Zainuddin 1624274
Nur khairyatul munira bt khairi 1624482  

Its depend on the reason why her parents not allow her to marry with her chosen husband to be.If the reason is because the man she want to marry is not rich, not handsome, then she must not agree with her parents.If the man that her parents want her to marry with is because he is much better than the man she want want to marry, because of he is more religious then she must follow her parents decision.At the end, the parents knows what's good for their children. Other than that,Parents should not be involved in choosing their children's partner in terms of love and marriage. Actually, love is more of pleasure and attractions. Once, the parents are there to help their children to choose whom they have to marry, there will be the mistakes because the parents do not know the internal feeling of their children. Parents should not be involved truly in their children's marriage.]]> 2018-11-21 13:05:55 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306720552 https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306725605 Sofea Adira
Asma
Fatin Afiqah
Dalilah

1.Try to discuss with parents why they against the idea to marry with someone she likes, and why she should marry with parents’ choice

2. Parents should bring their daughter to meet the man they choose to observe and know each other. Same goes for parents to meet their daughter's choice.

3. Both parties should take time to decide what is the best decision to make such as Solat Istikharah

4. If the girl already discuss with her parents but still cannot convinced them, she should just follow what her parents wants. There's probably hikmah behind it.]]> 2018-11-21 13:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/fairuztalib/getmarried/wish/306725605