My grand wall by Maddy Mimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007 Made with whimsy en-us 2018-11-06 18:15:48 UTC 2026-01-14 12:12:22 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Shakinghands.png Communication maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302202852 the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else.]]> 2018-11-08 17:26:56 UTC https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302202852 Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302203724 The four horsemen of the apocalypse are communication styles that can hurt or end a relationship.
Gottman’s four horsemen of the apocalypse are criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt.
]]> 2018-11-08 17:28:13 UTC https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302203724 Criticism maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302204744 A complaint that is taken to the next level.
Criticism involves blaming, attacking someone’s character or insulting someone.
]]> 2018-11-08 17:29:37 UTC https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302204744 Defensiveness maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302205562 Defensiveness is a response to criticism; a way to protect ourselves from criticism.
Defensiveness involves making excuses, deflecting blame or avoiding responsibility all together.
]]> 2018-11-08 17:30:47 UTC https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302205562 Stonewalling maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302206063 Stonewalling is when someone completely disengages from the conflict.
Someone who is stone walling usually feels emotionally overwhelmed. They usually look away, not respond, or completely leave the room.
]]> 2018-11-08 17:31:32 UTC https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302206063 Contempt maddymimnaugh https://padlet.com/maddymimnaugh/5tn6ridul007/wish/302211304 Contempt is when a person uses mockery, sarcasm, or hostile humor to make someone feel inferior.
•Respect for one another has dissipated at this point of the argument.
Gottman says contempt is the most crucial in determining whether a relationship will survive.
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