https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w Think about a time you weren't as nice to someone as you should have been - What happened? Why did you do it? What were you dealing with at the time? What bothered you about what that person was doing? Would you act differently now? en-us 2020-09-08 22:01:17 UTC 2021-11-03 17:26:29 UTC hello@padlet.com hcpsdouglasan https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851790520 As usual, I was being super nice to people I didn't actually like, and I got myself into a really annoying situation. This girl I had became "friends" with was disrupting my alone time. I really didn't feel like talking that day, I just wanted to listen to my music and complete my assignment. So, I was kind of distant toward her and made it known that I didn't want to talk to her. I talked in a more monotone and "impatient" voice, and even though she took the hint, i felt bad afterward. I know that I hurt her feelings, because she seemed so excited to talk to me. If I could go back, I would just tell her upfront that I don't feel like talking today, and it's nothing against her, I just want to be alone for right now.]]> 2021-10-28 15:56:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851790520 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851794082 I was annoyed, a friend came up to me and starting playing some games, you know the usual, but I wasnt feeling it at that point. So I ended up just telling him to stop harshly, which I regret and I apologized at that point but I still feel pretty bad about it.]]> 2021-10-28 15:57:19 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851794082 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851801789 one time I weren't nice to my sister because i was sleepy and Ian been to sleep all day so she asking me for help but she was acting goofy and I wasn't in the mood to play around i just wanted to go to sleep. so i yelled at her and told her to get out my room and that she's being annoying but then i felt bad because she just got back from out of town and she looked sad and thought I wasn't happy to see her         ]]> 2021-10-28 15:59:52 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851801789 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851803601 I like to think I'm a nice person most of the time, but I'm not. When I was in seventh grade at track practice I overheard another girl talking about how she wanted to participate in the 1600s. I was one of the people who ran it and I didn't really want anyone added to my team. I also didn't like the girl, so I told her " you can't really run so don't join it. You wouldn't do a good job anyways." I could see the hurt on her face but I passed it off. People did the same to me so I could do it to them was my thought process. The next day I realized my fault, and told her to prove me wrong. She had a goal, and I discouraged her from achieving it because I didn't want her to. Which is pretty selfish]]> 2021-10-28 16:00:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851803601 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851804573 This kid was a known bully in my school. He started making fun of my best friend at the time so in their defense, I said many mean things back. I was dealing with following negative influences at the time. I always knew bullying was bad but I never realized that by doing what he did to my friend didn't make me any better than they were. I was bothered because, as I said, this person was a known bully in the school. They were always getting away with physical and verbal violence in the classroom and I had had enough of it. A lot of the other kids made fun of him too so I thought that it must not be that big of an issue especially since I had a "reason" for doing so. Now I would probably just talk to them or report them to a counselor. I don't condone bullying in the slightest but I know now when and when not to be involved in such matters. ]]> 2021-10-28 16:00:55 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851804573 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851804739 So I was looking through my room and noticed that my tv remote was missing. I started to look up and down my room and couldn't find. After I started to get irritated because I checked every corner and still couldn't find anything. Then I remembered that my little brother had it the day before me being me and anger I accused him of taking it. Moments later I found it sitting under the bed. I felt bad for accusing him. ]]> 2021-10-28 16:00:59 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851804739 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851805134 So as usual I wasnt being as nice as I should've been, so I felt pretty bad about it. I was yelling at someone I knew when I should've just been nice to them. I never apologized and I did feel kinda bad but it doesn't haunt me that much.]]> 2021-10-28 16:01:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851805134 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851809322 what had happened was i was in 7th grade and this girl who was my "friend" we were in P.E and she was bullying this boy and i got bullied as a child so i don't like that and i told her stop she popped off at me and i just snapped got heated yelled at her and i wanted to fight i know violence is never the answer but she had it coming it was the fact that she hit the boy and wouldn't hit me i felt bad so i defended him and i was very tiny so my best friend jazz pike me up and carried me to the bathroom and told me to calm down i was really snappy at the mouth because i didn't know how to control my mouth. I most definitely would've handled it better now by just ignoring what she had to say out her mouth instead of getting triggered so quickly and would've been able to control my anger ]]> 2021-10-28 16:02:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851809322 hcpsjohnsotd9 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851811794 I used to be very mean...and I was really nice to this one boy, but he kept acting rudely towards me, and no matter how hard I tried, he was always mean. Yes, I probably should've stopped talking to him, but I could tell he was pretty lonely. So one day, he just was a little mean, and I went off on him. I couldn't keep my cool that day. A couple of weeks after, he told me about the problems he go through, and I felt really bad because it wasn't really his fault, and I probably should've asked him about why he said those things to me, he just wasn't really in the best place at the time. Now, I make sure I'm not too harsh on anyone, because nobody knows what they go through.]]> 2021-10-28 16:03:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851811794 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851812711 I time I was not nice is when I was at my auntie house and we went to a family function and I was already mad so when we got there I didn't talk or speak to nobody. So I had calmed down and my cousin had said some I don't like and made me even ore mad and I got and threw him across the room. When I calmed down I apologized to people because I felt kinda bad afterwards ]]> 2021-10-28 16:04:05 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851812711 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851812928 My old bestfriend and I had got into an argument because I realized how much effort I has putting into helping her with her mental health and she wasn't putting any effort in to help herself and I just got tired of it because while helping her I was stressing myself out and had already had so much going on myself and was just letting all my problems pile up because I was so worried about her... during the argument I definitely said some hurtful things and I'm not saying it was right but I was hurt. If I could go back and change what I did I would change the things I said to her I should've been more understanding and willing to listen.]]> 2021-10-28 16:04:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851812928 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851817279 I'm sure this happens with others who have siblings but it happens occasionally with me since my little brothers are very stubborn and don't listen to instructions. I was in my room in an okay mood settling in/changing after getting back from school and my littlest 7-year-old brother barged into my room trying to tell me and show me he made some nice art of me and show of to me that he made all of our beds. But, I was very mad at him because he almost walked in on me, so I shouted at him to get out and immediately felt guilty about it since he looked pretty discouraged and I knew he meant no harm but I'd had to tell him many times before about not barging into my room and it wasn't the 1st time he's done it. I felt really bad because I knew he just wanted to show that he did something nice for me yet I shouted at him to get out. It bothered me that he barged in while I was changing so I didnt kow how to approach him and still let him know that I appreciated what he did and that he shoudlnt be too discouraged, just that it wasn't the right time to tell me.]]> 2021-10-28 16:05:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851817279 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851822708 2021-10-28 16:07:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851822708 hcps_brownjl17 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851835687 During the summer I was going through a depressive time in my life and it was one of those days where I wanted to stay to myself. My friend noticed I was quieter than usual and started pushing me to tell her what was wrong but I was uncomfortable with telling her what I was going through as I struggle with expressing myself. I lashed out on her even though I knew she was only worried about me. We're still friends but sometimes I regret how I acted towards her in that moment. ]]> 2021-10-28 16:12:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1851835687 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865280399 i was at the bus ramp and some kid i dont know said i didnt dress nice and "still didnt have drip" and i was already not in a good mood from something that happened earlier and i cussed him out and walked away, he had done it once before but that time i wasnt already mad so i didnt take it to heart,i shouldve just took it as a friendly joke instead of taking it to heart and getting mad over it]]> 2021-11-03 16:43:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865280399 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865285467 it was yesterday afternoon i was making a sandwich my older brother can into kitchen and started splashing water on me and i did the same thing and he tried to throw a bottle at me and i tried to throw a ginger ali bottle at him but at the last second the bottle ended up hitting my dog jake in the face i didnt mean to hit my dog i meant to hit my brother cause he makes me mad to the point i wanna punch him in the face]]> 2021-11-03 16:45:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865285467 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865286334 i was at home alone coming from school and i had an attitude within what happened at school i wanted to be alone but soon after my cousins came over being reckless, and i got even more angry and i threw a shoe at her and it hit her in her stomach and she got really upset, and i felt so bad i feel like instead of me throwing the shoe i should have just told them to get out in the nicest way possible and that i wanted to be alone ]]> 2021-11-03 16:46:02 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865286334 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865287462 one time I wasn't as nice as I should have been was when my little sister tried to tell me how her day was. I just came from school and I was very tired. I just came from practice and didn't eat anything all day. when I got home SHE CAME. she keep talking none stop about everything that happened that day. I got mad and screamed at her to get out. she was mad at me for a while]]> 2021-11-03 16:46:26 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865287462 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865288054 I was babysitting my god brother and I was sleepy and he kept crying so I had to get up feed him and stuff and I was annoyed because I was sleepy then we were sitting on the couch and he was tryna stand up and grabbed my shoulder and his nails scratched me and I kind of pushed him off me and he started crying and I felt bad and started hugging him]]> 2021-11-03 16:46:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865288054 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865288149 a time i wasn't nice i was having a bad weekend and my baby sister was just trying to be around me and wanted me to play with her and i was sitting there just not sayin anything type ignoring her and she was just trying to be around me and i made her get out my room and she was upset she started crying after that i had felt bad cause she didn't do anything to cause me to be upset but it was my fault i had let people ruin my weekend and so i type took it out on her when she didn't do anything so i had told her sorry and ended up playing with her and watched tv with her]]> 2021-11-03 16:46:41 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865288149 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865289125 when i was in school two or three years ago i was in class and it was me and a group of my friends and this kid said something and we i didn't really like it so we started making fun of the kid and cracking jokes. I was unnesaseraly being mean and made him feel bad about himself just to look cool and impress people that i didn't need too]]> 2021-11-03 16:47:03 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865289125 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865289218
 ]]> 2021-11-03 16:47:05 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865289218 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865294093 I remember the time when I was sitting down and minding my own business and I was saving some snacks that time I always hide snacks from my siblings so I was hungry and I thought about saving them snacks I never did it but I was just thinking about it then my little sister said that she wanted my snacks that I had saved I told her it was my other sister that ate it so then she started to cry and then she saying I want snack I told her it's gone and my little brother found out I ate it all how I deal with it is that they never ever gave anything after that I felt bad but then again I didn't ]]> 2021-11-03 16:48:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865294093 hcpsjeffriemt https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295223 When I was babysitting the baby kept crying for my candy and I gave her one piece than she cried for another I'm like stop crying for stuff that's not yours mind you she is 6 yrs old she don't need to keep crying if she don't get her way if she always being bad so I yelled at her and I felt soo bad after because she started crying like I hurt her feelings I will not yell at baby no more specially if I don't know them like that to know if they sensitive or not]]> 2021-11-03 16:49:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295223 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295528 one night i came home and my sister was in my bed so i went downstairs and got some water and poured it on her because i told her that if i caught her sleeping in my bed again i would pour water on her so that's what i did ]]> 2021-11-03 16:49:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295528 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295963 one day when i came home from school my mom had to go to work late so i had to babysit her for the whole day i had a long day at school i did nothing but tests and i was tired and irritated so when i get there she starts crying and asking for things and doing things she isnt supossed to do because she knew mom wasnt home so i had to stay behind her and make sure she wasnt doing anything she wasnt supposed to be doing and i was getting really irritated and i was being mean to her ]]> 2021-11-03 16:49:34 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865295963 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865298739 This was like a year or two ago, me and my brother had got into a serious argument over something so dumb and he was trying to show off for his friends and we said some hurtful things to each other and some things we said should of been said and I felt really bad about what I told him I should of not said it but I said it because when he said something hurtful to me it made me so upset so I said something about his kid that he didn't like and we didn't talk for months but everybody was mad at me it mad me feel bad but he had stared it and said hurtful things to me but didn't anybody care.]]> 2021-11-03 16:50:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865298739 https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865395250 So.. I have honestly had a lot of moments when I was not kind to someone and that's just how I am and I don't like it either so I will do one that was more recent. I think it was sometime earlier this week when my little brother (who is 6 years old by the way) was bothering me as he normally does but it was a bit worse than usual because he was hyper and that pushed me over my limit since I get agitated very quickly I pushed him away because what he was doing was that I was laying down on my side on the bed and he kept rolling on me and kicking me and I pushed him which caused him to hit his head which made me feel guilty because he's just a kid and is bored]]> 2021-11-03 17:26:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ecknapp1/5o7eb5tzi33g944w/wish/1865395250