Help! by Aris Winger https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z How easy it for you to ask for assistance? en-us 2023-06-27 02:33:10 UTC 2023-06-28 15:50:46 UTC hello@padlet.com yeah...I just can't ask for help...I figure it out https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445541 2023-06-28 15:43:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445541 my teachers have always helped me if I need it https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445545 2023-06-28 15:43:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445545 Teachers tend to be nice https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445615 2023-06-28 15:43:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445615 Asking for help is healthy. No one is perfect https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445621 2023-06-28 15:43:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445621 at the end of the day, these people are here to help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445645 2023-06-28 15:43:52 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445645 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445680 idk i just don't ]]> 2023-06-28 15:43:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445680 I sometimes feel that way. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445683 2023-06-28 15:43:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445683 I don’t like giving the impression that I don’t know what I’m doing https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445684 2023-06-28 15:43:57 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445684 I have had positive experiences with teachers and peers throughout my life. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445699 2023-06-28 15:43:58 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445699 I grew up with this mindset https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445774 2023-06-28 15:44:09 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445774 i don't like to feel dumb https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445801 2023-06-28 15:44:12 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445801 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445805 no one will remember what i ask and it will only benefit me]]> 2023-06-28 15:44:12 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445805 I haven't had too many bad experiences getting the help I need. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445814 2023-06-28 15:44:14 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445814 by asking other people i trust https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445819 2023-06-28 15:44:14 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445819 I feel this way the vast majority of the time that I want to ask a question. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445845 2023-06-28 15:44:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445845 I don't want to bother people, and I feel even small favors can be a bother to them https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445848 2023-06-28 15:44:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445848 my teachers believe that if one person has a question about something, then someone else is gonna have the same question https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445896 2023-06-28 15:44:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445896 Yes, but the fear of judgment sinks in. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445908 2023-06-28 15:44:26 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445908 A professors job is to teach their students. Being wrong at times is good https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445932 2023-06-28 15:44:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445932 I don't know what I need help on, I usually understand concepts quickly but when I don't, I'm not sure where to start so I try to figure it out from scratch https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445936 2023-06-28 15:44:30 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445936 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445943 because everyone says that im soo independent to do so]]> 2023-06-28 15:44:31 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445943 The teacher is there to help us learn https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445949 2023-06-28 15:44:32 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445949 im not comfortable with the people in the class https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445953 2023-06-28 15:44:32 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445953 I feel like it's a sign of weakness also I don't want people to look at me as vulnerable https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445959 2023-06-28 15:44:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445959 I feel that I need to do things independently https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445967 2023-06-28 15:44:34 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445967 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445981 people can be pretentious or be quite passive agressive at times]]> 2023-06-28 15:44:35 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634445981 Yeah im normally like this https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446019 2023-06-28 15:44:40 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446019 I do not want to bother others or look dumb. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446022 2023-06-28 15:44:41 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446022 In some situations I feel like I've been forced to learn more because I refused to ask for help & had to teach myself... but it comes at many costs https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446067 2023-06-28 15:44:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446067 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446077 im too independent ]]> 2023-06-28 15:44:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446077 On my own. It's hard to get out of this mindset but lately I've been making a lot of progress reaching out when I need to. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446179 2023-06-28 15:44:54 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446179 spending hours understanding something is less efficient than asking a classmate that can explain it concisely https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446203 2023-06-28 15:44:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446203 Asking questions is important in order to succeed in all aspects and walks of life. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446280 2023-06-28 15:44:58 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446280 it depends on what I need help on but in certain areas I feel like I need to be self-sufficient and figure it out myself https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446306 2023-06-28 15:45:01 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446306 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446325 Learning only happens by being determined to succeed and okay with failing. Failing with a growth mindset = asking for help = learning! ]]> 2023-06-28 15:45:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446325 I do not have a hard time asking for help but if that person can not help me I would ask my math teacher bc he is super helpful https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446360 2023-06-28 15:45:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446360 I normally just turn to people like hank green on youtube https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446361 2023-06-28 15:45:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446361 I rlly think it depends - some teachers tell students to ask questions but then punish them for doing so (ex: "I have explained this topic last time, how do you not get it?") https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446407 2023-06-28 15:45:14 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446407 the opinions of others https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446474 2023-06-28 15:45:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446474 I want to exhaust all my options and I don't really want to seem weak or stupid https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446477 2023-06-28 15:45:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446477 I know that is the role for teachers; thus, for me to ask questions is the principle to becoming a student. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446488 2023-06-28 15:45:24 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446488 If I zone out and have a question, I don't want it to be a question that the teacher already answered https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446526 2023-06-28 15:45:31 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446526 I feel like it shows that I'm weak if nobody else is asking for help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446597 2023-06-28 15:45:40 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446597 I feel like I should already know something even if it isn't my fault that I don't. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446599 2023-06-28 15:45:40 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446599 You can never do anything in life alone it is important to ask for help from people you love https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446602 2023-06-28 15:45:41 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446602 I realized if I want to get into a T10 college I have to ask for help for my college essays https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446636 2023-06-28 15:45:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446636 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446655 Sometimes it can be embarrassing ]]> 2023-06-28 15:45:47 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446655 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446667 Asking for help makes it easier for everyone and worry of judgement will only hold us back. Embarrassment is a shackle that we should all let go !]]> 2023-06-28 15:45:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446667 Learning happens best when realizing your own mistakes and improving off of them, and this is easiest with others inputs https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446675 2023-06-28 15:45:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446675 Clear any miscommunication that may have occurred when learning the material https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446822 2023-06-28 15:46:11 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446822 Yep - I'm not perfect https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446857 2023-06-28 15:46:16 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446857 If you are nervous to ask a teacher for help ask students who you trust and I am there for anyone who needs help no judgement https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446986 2023-06-28 15:46:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634446986 Afraid to be asking too much, don't want to be seen as pushy and a liability https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447062 2023-06-28 15:46:34 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447062 Will there be office hours? https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447077 2023-06-28 15:46:36 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447077 since I was a kid, I've been taught not to ask for help bc it's a sign of weakness https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447087 2023-06-28 15:46:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447087 Asking for help is the most important thing to do. No one is an expert at everything and humanity wouldn't have progressed if we didn't collaborate and lean on each other's strengths. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447125 2023-06-28 15:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447125 Asking questions is crucial https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447141 2023-06-28 15:46:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447141 i used to be a person who tried to figure it out on my own until i started doing things wrong because i was missing information and then getting in trouble for not asking first https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447172 2023-06-28 15:46:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447172 I'm nervous that I will fall behind because I'm too independent to ask for help https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447231 2023-06-28 15:46:58 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447231 I feel like as long as the environment is positive I won't have a problem asking for help. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447254 2023-06-28 15:47:02 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447254 Asking questions is similar to an iron chain that links our passion with a particular subject. https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447429 2023-06-28 15:47:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447429 Makes me feel inferior https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447827 2023-06-28 15:48:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/5ni2b63ufa59y0z/wish/2634447827