https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1 Anonymous participation to further my PHG222 work. en-us 2021-12-09 21:05:52 UTC 2022-01-17 11:42:20 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939196283 I have been continuously harassed by a work colleague for more than 3 years ]]> 2021-12-09 21:43:44 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939196283 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939309673 2021-12-09 23:47:18 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939309673 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939311113 At the age of 16, I was taken advantage from an ex when I was a virgin, and nobody believed me. ]]> 2021-12-09 23:48:47 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939311113 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939324727 My ‘friends’ and ex Made a fake account on social media, talking to me for months without me knowing and then manipulated me to giving them explicit images of myself. After they did so they used the photos to threaten me and shared them around anyway. ]]> 2021-12-10 00:03:44 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939324727 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939380517 I was asked constantly to send explicit images of myself when i was 16/17 by a man who was over 20 and was sending me explicit images of himself to me without me wanting them]]> 2021-12-10 00:46:46 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1939380517 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1945661575 I met this boy online, I was 13. We talked day and night. We were great friends, we talked on group chats with his girlfriend and other friends it was a right laugh. 
Only thing he didn't like was face time but didn't mind ringing on the phone. We used to snap chat at school so I knew he was legit. 

Three years go by and I've fallen in love with this boy that I've never met. We were in a loving relationship and helped each other through our GCSEs. 

We also used to have phone sex and we used to send pictures to each other. I couldn't wait until I was old enough to travel to meet him. 

I still spoke to his ex girlfriend that I had previously met online, we were good friends and always there for each other. 

Until one day at school, she sent me a picture of her pointing her finger at the school computer screen - I thought nothing of it. But I logged her hand in my memory. 

2 days go by and him and me end up in a fight, he sent a picture of him swearing down on the Bible with his hand to a promise. 
I recognised the hand and then it all clicked - it was her. 

The whole 4 years it took me to realise.. It was never a he, it was her. She was gay and too scared to come out and hid behind a screen the whole time. I was devastated and ofcourse had a lot of questions. I'd never felt so used, betrayed, vulnerable and disgusted in all my life. I was physically sick which turned to mentally ill. 

I was in love with a girl.. I've never got over it and it's been 10+ years later. 

I feel sorry for her, but she never once thought of the consequences of how I felt of what she did to me.  
I was abused by a child my own age. ]]> 2021-12-13 22:03:01 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1945661575 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949113614 I was in a club with my friend and we were constantly getting followed by this 40yr old man and he kept grabbing our bums so we kept moving. Later when we were walking out he wiped under our dresses on our vagina and then moved to our bums again. He done it to my friend first as she was infront and then me. It made me so tense it was so uncomfortable.]]> 2021-12-15 10:58:40 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949113614 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949117899 When I was on holiday I had went to the toilet and came out as the same time as one of the waiters came out of the males toilets. He stopped me and asked me when I was going home I answered with tomorrow he then grabbed my arm really tightly I asked him to let me go and he wouldn’t he then was pulling me closer and tried kissing me I said no stop I have a boyfriend let me go. He continued to try and get to my neck etc I kept bending and moving out the way and shouting to let me go and saying no. He still had hold of my arm and I was still shouting to leave me alone and people walking past didn’t do anything. This really made me panic I ended up getting away in the end.]]> 2021-12-15 11:01:47 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949117899 https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949121589 I hate when boys refer to you as objects by what they say. For example a boy came up to me telling me he was going to put a deposit on me. It made me feel so small and objectified. ]]> 2021-12-15 11:04:34 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1949121589 bh72yg https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1995694917 Since the age of 11 I have had men catcalling me and making inappropriate remarks about my body. My year seven teacher had to teach me to carry my keys in a fist.]]> 2022-01-17 11:40:58 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1995694917 bh72yg https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1995696895 My friend was spiked at a party when I was in secondary school and I had to spend the night with her in hospital.]]> 2022-01-17 11:42:20 UTC https://padlet.com/bh72yg/5jlh9bm3qa6wxcn1/wish/1995696895