https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0 How do you develop your relationship? How can I actively help my guru and seek out the things they need? How can I have a more active role in my relationship? en-us 2021-09-28 03:08:19 UTC 2025-10-26 15:54:35 UTC hello@padlet.com kshirsagara3 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777812384

How can I develop my relationship with my Guru-ee? 

How can I actively help my Guru-ee and seek out the things they need? 

How can I have a more active role in my relationship?

]]> 2021-09-29 12:27:07 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777812384 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777814199 1. Ask them about their passions, hobbies and what they like to do. Also inquire about how school is going for them?

2.  Ask them what they need and how they are keeping organized.

3. Check up with them regularly. Maybe share some of my first experiences and struggles in middle school.]]> 2021-09-29 12:27:47 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777814199 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818003 Keeping in consistent contact helps keep us updated on the progress of our mentees.]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:10 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818003 welinga2 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818394 1. Be open and honest, share past experiences that could help them. Spend time with them and treat them like an equal (not just someone you're helping out).

2. Set meetings and talk to them not just about academics.

3. Share your ideas and thoughts, set aside time to help them and make sure you are invested in the best interest of the Guruee]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:17 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818394 goyalp2 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818614 - I would try to find some common ground between us like interests, passions, hobbies, and build our relationship on top of that. 
- Initiate conversations on campus and let them know about different opportunities related to their interests
- Constantly meet with them online and on campus and keep asking them if they have any questions. ]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:21 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818614 hetem https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818779 1. Get know as much about them as they are comfortable sharing with me and find things we have in common and find a common ground that we can both relate to.
2. Make them feel comfortable sharing their issues with me and then guiding them to the best place they can receive help.
3. Keeping contact with them outside Guru sessions]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:24 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777818779 dubek7 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819092 1. Asking lots of questions, and getting to know them better. ]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:31 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819092 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819231 1. One key aspect of building relationships is trust.

2. I can actively help my guru-ee by asking straightforward questions regarding what activities they engage in, and ask them if they need help in any of those activities.

3. I can reach out to them on a set basis, and if they reach out to me, I can respond supportively. ]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:34 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819231 nener2 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819632 How can I develop my relationship with my Guru-ee?
  By talking to them frequently and being generally supportive and open. Informality may also be useful. Discuss personal lives with them too.
How can I actively help my Guru-ee and seek out the things they need? 
  Doing some of the legwork - emailing or asking the right people, etc. Also by giving advice on how they can go about doing things.
How can I have a more active role in my relationship?
 By making sure that you consistently communicate with your guru-ee

]]> 2021-09-29 12:29:43 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777819632 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777820554 - Ask them questions and learn what they need help with and want to know
- Be approachable and honest

- Brainstorm areas that we struggled in when we were in their situation
- Come up solutions 

- Meet and keep in communication, personalise for their needs ]]> 2021-09-29 12:30:06 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777820554 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777821244 1. Identify common interests to connect with them. 
3. Keep in touch with them outside of the meetings. This can be through email. 

]]> 2021-09-29 12:30:24 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777821244 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777825422 One way to develop a relationship with my guru-ee is to understand what makes them who they are (their interests, hobbies). Also, talking about how they're coping with school, specifically their mental health. It's important to find common ground so that we can relate to one another so finding common interests is important. Lastly, I would check up with them regularly.]]> 2021-09-29 12:32:02 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777825422 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777825700 Using appropriate level of words and explanation considering the guru-ee's level in certain areas of academics]]> 2021-09-29 12:32:08 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777825700 singha2_16 https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777828487 1. I can actively check in on them and make an effort to build a reltionship

2. I can email/check in on them consistently.

3. By being the one who reaches out because its more my responsibility than theirs to reach out.]]> 2021-09-29 12:33:13 UTC https://padlet.com/duber9/599uzg3v4gjwvxp0/wish/1777828487