My brilliant padlet by LILLIAN PERRON

1- Assertive HARD (Honest)

941467_1 — 2024-09-26 18:59:19 UTC

Holly just found out that Lilly is ditching her and Athena and going with a different friend group to homecoming.

2 - Active Listening

951370 — 2024-09-26 19:04:40 UTC

Holly goes up to Athena at school and tells her about Lilly canceling for homecoming. Holly is devastated by Lillys betrayal and Athena listens closely to support her friend. The reason Holly is so upset is because Lilly has not told them about her new plans.

3- Fairness Perceptions

952149_1 — 2024-09-26 19:08:54 UTC

Lilly gets upset that Holly and Athena are talking bad about her behind her back. She is very upset that they are talking about her behind her back and knows that she hasn't done anything wrong to deserve this type of treatment from her friends.

4- Defensiveness

941467_1 — 2024-09-26 19:13:26 UTC

Holly is furious that Lilly did not tell her. The day before the news broke, Lilly talked about how excited she was to go to homecoming.

5 - Assertive HARD (Respectful)

951370 — 2024-09-26 19:13:44 UTC

After Holly vents about her feelings, Athena decided to go up to Lilly after school and figure out what her plan really was. Athena approached Lilly very respectfully and said, "Are you really changing plans, I just want to be sure because we have had these set for months."

6 - Scanning for threats

962643 — 2024-09-27 18:27:44 UTC

Amira then goes up to Lily and Athena and says, " Why are you guys concerned about Lily's plans it was never your business in the first place"

7 - Defensiveness

941467_1 — 2024-09-27 18:33:20 UTC

Holly is so angry at Lilly and she starts yelling at her! "You are so fake and I can't believe I was ever friends with you". Holly is also mad that this random girl is defending Lilly's wrongful actions.

8 - Bending the Fairness Situation

952149_1 — 2024-09-27 18:37:07 UTC

Lilly feels horrible for what she has done. She knew that what she was doing was wrong, but she still continued to betray her true friends anyways. "I'm so sorry for causing all this trouble, I really care about you guys and I want to make things right."

9 - Assertive (Appropriate)

951370 — 2024-09-27 18:39:09 UTC

Athena sees the guilt on Lilly face and decides to appropriately decrease the situation. "I think this is a big misunderstanding and instead of us having conflict why don't we all just go together."

10 - Assertive (Direct)

962643 — 2024-09-27 18:45:39 UTC

Amira says " I was not aware that Lily lied to your guys about her plans to homecoming.

and I'm sorry for causing trouble and yelling at you guys, can you forgive me? I think its a good idea to getting to know everyone!"

11 - Apology

941467_1 — 2024-09-27 18:50:03 UTC

Holly is apologizing to Lilly. "I am sorry for accusing you without knowing all the information. I think we should all go together as a group so nobody is left out".

12 - Apology

951370 — 2024-09-27 18:52:49 UTC

Athena sees the happy looks on everyone faces and decided to say, "I appreciate everyone's apology, I want to apologize myself about the chaos we had. I think that we need to use more communication in order to prevent fights like this. Lets go have fun at homecoming!!"