SJE | The Mask You Live In by https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks The Mask You Live In is a document that discusses the complexity of masculinity for boys past and present. Take a moment to review with your group and respond to the questions below based on your viewing of the film excerpts and your role as an SJE change agent. Note: Use the (+) to add your voice and perspective. en-us 2021-11-11 05:02:18 UTC 2021-11-12 00:30:05 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-uploads.storage.googleapis.com/650694153/949e3f00a790bbcd511bb258c9185321/San_Jose_Earthquakes_emblem.jpeg strong, tough, aggressive https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885313663 2021-11-12 00:02:11 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885313663 elementary school, TV https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885314180 2021-11-12 00:02:35 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885314180 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885315714 parents]]> 2021-11-12 00:03:48 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885315714 kindergarten - my teacher stopped me from playing with blocks everyday because I was a girl amyaugust https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885316976 2021-11-12 00:04:49 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885316976 strong, compassionate, determined, entrusting https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885317384 2021-11-12 00:05:05 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885317384 akilahcarterfrancique1 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885320561 I learned in elementary school what sports girls and boys could play to include the intensity of play. ]]> 2021-11-12 00:07:26 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885320561 through observation https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322354 2021-11-12 00:08:45 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322354 delicate, precious, nurturing https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322666 2021-11-12 00:08:59 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322666 nurturing, emotional https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322696 2021-11-12 00:09:00 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322696 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322957 Assertiveness and assured as opposed to vulnerable and open. 

]]> 2021-11-12 00:09:10 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885322957 Older Brothers, as Early as I can remember https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323000 2021-11-12 00:09:12 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323000 Hard, tough, buff https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323090 2021-11-12 00:09:16 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323090 In a church setting. Very much within the typical nuclear family dynamic https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323307 2021-11-12 00:09:24 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323307 smart, strong, confident, leader amyaugust https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323755 2021-11-12 00:09:43 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323755 Strong, relentless https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323846 2021-11-12 00:09:46 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885323846 Caring, supportive https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885324253 2021-11-12 00:10:04 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885324253 don't remember specifically learning about masculinity. notice a lot of separation in gender as you get close to and go through puberty. https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885324498 2021-11-12 00:10:14 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885324498 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885325233 college - sociology classes
through older siblings 
coed sports 

]]> 2021-11-12 00:10:40 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885325233 My dad's role in my family, bread winner and very tough man, didn't share feelings. A model of machismo in a Hispanic family https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885325374 2021-11-12 00:10:47 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885325374 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885330861 Beer, BBQ and Broads]]> 2021-11-12 00:14:28 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885330861 The girls academy was pay to play whereas the boys academy is not. The girls academy was disbanded too. I believe this was decided at the US Soccer level, both on the cost and the termination of the program. https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885332592 2021-11-12 00:15:30 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885332592 https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885356960 focus on balance. Encourage diversifying out of just one hobby/ one sport/ one position. Embrace reaching goals through different means ]]> 2021-11-12 00:28:59 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885356960 I played football through high school, and there was plenty of hazing, name calling, tough love, etc, just like the video https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885359051 2021-11-12 00:30:05 UTC https://padlet.com/akilahcarterfrancique1/SJE2021_Masks/wish/1885359051