SOCIAL MEDIA & GADGET CAN LEADS TO DIVORCE by Nurezatul Najihah https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce Salam & hi peeps! Do you know that social media and gadget is one of the biggest factor of divorce among couples? It's okay if you don't know, we'll tell you. Take a look on this! en-us 2018-09-22 15:43:23 UTC 2023-12-03 23:59:26 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-uploads.storage.googleapis.com/313218501/3c110c2676243144b5edcef6c0a120ff/01_2.jpg Social Media & Gadget Become a Divorce Factor. nurezatulnajihah00 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284647878 The trend of using electronic gadgets and social media is likely to be the cause of divorce, a family expert said.

Psychologist and Dean of Faculty of Education, University of Malaya, Assoc Prof Dr Mariani Mohd Nor said applications like WhatsApp could be a platform for young couples to express anger when dealing with domestic conflicts.

"Whenever one gets angry, then sends a message in WhatsApp for example, it can generate different voices and aspirations, then the negative perception of the receiver is in opposition to the actual sender's message," he said.

He was commenting on a news report that the rate of divorce among Muslims in Malaysia has worsened with more than 274,000 divorced couples in the past six years.

The Statistics of the Malaysian Shariah Judiciary Department also showed 38,035 divorces over the period January to August last year with an average of 156 Muslim couples divorced each day.

Mariani said that in these sophisticated times, the use of WhatsApp can also lead to fraudulent acts that the usual introduction of men and women through social media applications can lead to friendly relationships to forget the limits of socialization.

"The use of social media such as Facebook and Instagram can also lead to bad relationships between spouses as each may not maintain the sensitivity of their relationships by uploading their inappropriate statuses and pictures, for other people's gaze," he said.

National Defense University Counseling Psychologist, Associate Professor Dr Mohamed Fadzil Che Din described the divorce involving 156 cases daily and was very important and obliged to enlighten all parties, especially for couples who wanted to get married on the importance of maintaining household harmony.]]> 2018-09-22 16:03:40 UTC https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284647878 THE EFFECT OF DIVORCE CAUSE BY SOCIAL MEDIA AND GADGET izzatinazri2000 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284689181 When a marriage couple got divorced, it can affect several aspect of their life. Here we stated some effect of divorce.

To children : 
Lets say if the marriage couple have children, so when they got divorced this will give huge effect on them.  Children who face a situation where their parents divorced will have low self esteem as they felt they were the cause of the divorce. They blamed themselves for what had happen to their parent. As a result,  they will be in depress and tend to avoid socializing with their friends.  

To Spouse : Divorced couple caused by social media and gadget  will be a trauma  to marry again as they lost their trust on their partner form their past marriage. Also they will aggrieved as they cannot accepted that their marriage had ruin only by simple cause that is gadget.

To Society :  When a society knew the caused of the the divorce, they will judged the divorced couple negatively. These may lead to collapse of the society as they lost the spirit of togetherness.
 
]]> 2018-09-23 02:15:25 UTC https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284689181 ONE OF THE CASES IN MALAYSIA HAS BEEN PROVEN; najlasofia10 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284690386 Based on the article, it can conclude that social media and gadgets give a bad impact to the users when it is overuse or misleading. We, as the society should be aware with this. It might looks like a small matter but you might get surprised, this might be a starter point for someone to make an excuse to divorce their spouse. ]]> 2018-09-23 02:39:35 UTC https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284690386 ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF CASE IN MALAYSIA najlasofia10 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284691226 Here's another one where was the husband asked for divorce with his wife because his mother-in-law always posted about politics on WhatsApp to mock on him. This shows that the third-party could be a reason for the partner to most likely to get divorce]]> 2018-09-23 02:55:55 UTC https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284691226 EXAMPLE CASE THAT HAPPEN IN MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF SOCIAL MEDIA alishanur1612 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284696139 This news show about dissociation that occurred due to 'reunion'. Normally the meeting in the 'reunion' session leads to further communication in social media and gadgets. For example the medium used is Whatsapp, Wechat, and Facebook. 

According to a study conducted by the Lembaga Penduduk dan Pembangunan Keluarga Negara (LPPKN), 11.8 percent of the men surveyed divorced because the wife was cheating. Among women, 20.5 percent admitted their divorce due to cheating in the husband.


]]> 2018-09-23 04:37:00 UTC https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284696139 DISADVANTAGES SOCIAL MEDIA TO MARRIED COUPLE AND FAMILY Syfqahiliyes08 https://padlet.com/nurezatulnajihah00/Social_Media_And_Gadget_Can_Lead_To_Divorce/wish/284722737 The Dangers of Social Media on Relationships

Social media may not always be used in positive ways. Understanding the pitfalls can help you be aware of the potential dangers of social media on today’s relationships. Darren Adamson, PhD, , LMFT, Chair of the Department of Marriage and Family Sciences at Northcentral University, lays out three potential dangers facing couples:

  1. Social media serves as a distraction from focusing on the interactions that nurture relationships. “Social media use can become compulsive,” explains Adamson, “making it difficult to manage the amount of time spent on it.” In fact, according to a study cited by PsychCentral, American college students describe abstaining from social media the same way they describe drug and alcohol withdrawal—cravings, anxiety, feeling jittery.
     
  2. People share their best lives on social media, so couples sometimes compare their mundane lives with other’s exciting lives, which can create destructive comparisons. “This can lead to discouragement with one’s primary relationship,” says Adamson. “That discouragement can lead to conflict, fear, unrealistic expectations—why can’t you be like the partner portrayed in the social media posts?—or an overall discontentment with the relationship.”
     
  3. There is the potential for another relationship that looks so much better than the primary relationship. “This can lead to extra-couple relationships that ultimately destroy the primary relationship,” warns Adamson.
Guidelines for Maintaining a Healthy Balance Between Social Media and Relationships

As evidenced by couples who do use social media to their advantage, it is possible to have healthy relationships and be actively involved in social media. In fact, a 2013 study in Social Psychological and Personality Science found that people who share information about their relationship on Facebook were comfortable in their relationship. However, Adamson points out that setting guidelines on how to effectively use social media can mean the difference between a healthy use of social media in a relationship, and taking it into the danger zone.

  1. Don’t use social media as a negative point of comparison for your relationship. “If you feel compelled to make comparisons involving your relationship,” explains Adamson, “compare where your relationship is today with what it was like a year ago—or five or ten years ago for those in a long-term relationship. Let the results of the comparison prompt changes in behavior that can build your relationship.
     
  2. Spend time nurturing your relationship. “Do things that create closeness in your relationship,” encourages Adamson, “and do them regularly without distraction.” This means leaving the cell phone at home—out of sight and out of mind. The distraction factor is one of the biggest challenges with social media. According to a study by Scientific American, the presence of a cell phone can be detrimental to interpersonal relationships.
     
  3. Do not maintain a separate social media life. “Share your social media world with your partner,” Adamson encourages.
Social media is a part of our modern society, but there are also dangers in social media if couples let it get out of control. As Adamson points out, you must keep in mind that social media is exactly what the name implies—media. “It is not a separate and distinct world,” Adamson maintains. “It does not sustain relationships, because it is based on virtual reality that, by its nature, is not able to support the activities required to make a relationship work.” That is up to you as individuals, and it still requires old-fashioned hard work.


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