The video is about confidence, which does not come easy to everyone. The speaker recalled how she used to be a girl who lacked confidence until someone demonstrated what confidence was to her. A lack of confidence drags us down from the bottom and drags us up from the top. Without confidence, we become imprisoned. According to her message, building confidence involves three things: permission, community, and curiosity. Permission gives birth to confidence by observing it in others and letting others act as role models. Following that, the community nourishes it, providing the ideal setting in which to try to be confident repeatedly. Finally, curiosity validates it - Curiosity invites others to take ownership of their own learning while they are already vulnerable.

My favorite part of this video is when she explained about how awful she was at handling some of the large events, as well as her confrontation with her manager. I admire the manager's attitude; instead of condemning her for her blunders, she simply inquired, 'What was your intention?' I hope more people were like the manager. The question, according to the speaker, urged her to learn from her mistakes rather than destroying her fragile confidence. That left an impact on me because I did opposite. My delicate confidence was shattered when I made a mistake in one of my practical lessons during my diploma years. My instructor criticized me harshly in front of everyone, she even grabbed me by my collar and the moment completely traumatizes me. It still bring tears to my eyes whenever it flashes in my mind. I'm still punishing myself to this day for being so weak. However, the speaker stated that 'confidence requires permission to exist.' I believe I need to let things go and allow myself to regain my confidence back. I will try my best.