https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d EX ANIMO en-us 2017-02-25 23:10:38 UTC 2024-01-15 20:38:42 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Removelove.png cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156212918 Infant-Toddler:Trust vs. Mistrust / Autonomy vs. Shame: My birthday/Father's Day :)
Birth order...I am the last born and the only girl...yes, I am a daddy's girl and yes, I felt trust and protection (especially from my dad). According to Erikson, the feelings of trust I had were because of the love and positive attention I received from my parents.  (as cited in Wong et al., 2015). Also, my grandparents had come from Italy to meet me and brother.  My grandmother potty trained me in three days. According to Erikson, I did well because my grandmother had non-judgmental approach with me. As a toddler I was constantly on the move. In fact, one night, they heard grinding from my mouth. It was the glass I had found in the backyard. I had no cuts...I'd like to say it was a miracle. ]]> 2017-02-25 23:14:24 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156212918 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213716 Adolescence - Identity vs. Role Confusion: High School Graduation then college. At this stage, I embraced my ethnicity. I stopped using my nickname (Rina) and had people call me Caterina. I joined the Italian club and began to study Italian. I went on to become an Italian teacher.  I finally embraced being Italian by speaking it in public and more with my family. ]]> 2017-02-25 23:43:53 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213716 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213757 Preschool - Initiative vs. Guilt: I was 6 when my grandparents came back from Italy. They kept my mother busy while I was gaining more confidence. My grandparents were an extension of my parents. Through them I was allowed to express myself more fully without being judged. Because they allowed me to take initiatives without judgements, I became an even more independent individual. ]]> 2017-02-25 23:45:49 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213757 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213966 Adulthood: A Relationship that made me look at options I had not seriously considered previously; devoting totally to another.]]> 2017-02-25 23:56:11 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156213966 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214216 Young Adulthood:
Depression...Where is my life going???
I quit my job at an international company and went back to education. I also went back to church and began counseling, both on a weekly basis. ]]> 2017-02-26 00:07:02 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214216 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214309 Mid-Adulthood: MSU Counseling Program. Another mid-life change....but certainly not a crisis! :) 
I decided to change careers because I found that teaching no longer allows "giving" aspect that it once did.]]> 2017-02-26 00:12:14 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214309 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214567 2017-02-26 00:24:57 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214567 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214660 2017-02-26 00:30:00 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156214660 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156215085 2017-02-26 00:47:41 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/156215085 cviscomi04 https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/166655040 Middle school was when I excelled at sports. I was a good student but didn't really have my heart into my education like I did basketball. I didn't like boys...yet so I was concentrated getting better at what I liked. However, I no longer had the support that my grandparents had given me. They had gone back to Italy when I was about 10. By the time I was 13, my energy had sunken because I was not encouraged by my parents. My grandparents did a better job of encouraging my industrial attitude than my parents did. Because of this I am convinced that had they not returned to Italy, I would not have suffered from certain insecurities; i.e. body image, capabilities in basketball, etc. ]]> 2017-04-18 00:48:22 UTC https://padlet.com/cviscomi04/4jdyhdzl5p8d/wish/166655040