Darious & Amber Life Plan by Darious Smith

Questions To Ask God.

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-01-31 21:23:21 UTC

What good would come out of our marriage?
What is our purpose for being together?
Is it healthier to get married now or later?

Questions

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-02-01 16:39:10 UTC

as much as we can have off our plate we need to by the time we get married.

who are you as an individual?

who do you want to be as a wife?

how do you handle stress?

are you spiritually in the place you need to be?

Are you naturally in the place you need to be?

we will be on our own once we get married.

*what is gong to support whats right in your heart

*will you both have the personal support to support what is right in your heart?

*how do you handle crisis?

*do you have stable faith to be able to believe for what is not happening?

where are we with our ability to support what we heard?

*you must be positioned to be able to have what is right for you both.

*Timing Is Critical

*God positioned them to start out with a healthy relationship not pressure, stress, personal development, or relationship. that isn't healthy for a marriage.

Questions

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-02-01 17:14:28 UTC

would it hurt your relationship to wait if need be?

its not always about money, but about positioning, and timing.

*you must have the personal development to be married!

*whats the vision, personal spiritual, and relationship?

minimis as much unnecessary stress before getting married.

*even if you need to learn a new skill, think about how you can you bring income into the house?

*when financial or personal pressure hits

*what can you do to support the family without stepping out of the will of God?

Great couples don't last all the time if your not equipped yet.

*if you don't finish school you need to learn a skill or trayed in order to make money if you don't finish school before getting married.

self businesses that need a degree.

If you want to get married you must do these things to get there.

Questions

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-02-01 17:22:50 UTC

how are we going to make money?

what if i get pregnant?

deal with every issues that could rise up personally spiritually.

*what if we get pregnant off the bat?

can we spiritually, financially, personally, relationship wise handle it?

You want to be ready.

*you want to say, im in a position to do this, i can do this. you don;t want to be caught off gaurd.

*were not talking about things being perfect but things being secure, if you want the marriage to be healthy and you don't want to be fighting.

GET A GOOD PLAN!!!!!

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-02-01 17:26:51 UTC

Questions

sexy_daddy_bear — 2016-02-01 17:27:28 UTC

* not having personal development can sabotage everything else.

how can you make money?

what if your parents can't help you?

what if you run out of money?

what if nobody can help you?

*when hard times come weather personal or finacial if not handled well it can ruin a marriage.

Make sure your prepared. It a life style.

We don't have to start out in poverty. Council is important!

Don't follow that generations example!

*Whatever advice you get weigh it against weather or not it will support the health of your marriage.

*what type of recipe will this be? we must completely support one another in all that is important.

*What can we do in order to support one another?

*what can we do in our pair time to build one another up?