"So You Want to Talk About Race" Pre-Discussion Questions by Kristen Kelly https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq Before we discuss, answer the questions below. en-us 2021-04-08 12:33:07 UTC 2026-03-15 17:59:50 UTC hello@padlet.com insight https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395644560 2021-04-08 13:01:05 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395644560 Inquiry as to why race matters https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395647263 Also, why does it cause friction.]]> 2021-04-08 13:01:43 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395647263 tension https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395650232 2021-04-08 13:02:22 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395650232 Respect other's opinion https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395652625 2021-04-08 13:02:54 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395652625 It's ok to agree to disagree; do it respectfully! https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395656026 2021-04-08 13:03:41 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395656026 Ongoing dialogue https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395667298 2021-04-08 13:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395667298 This is not a personal fear but Disagreeing with the person instead of disagreeing with the idea/actions as to why race presents negativity among each other. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395678432 2021-04-08 13:08:07 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395678432 Deeper understanding of my colleagues' and students' points of view https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395763916 2021-04-08 13:25:28 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395763916 Don't monopolize the conversation, and respect that individuals have different lived experiences and come with best intentions https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395766265 2021-04-08 13:25:58 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395766265 That the discussions will devolve into airing personal grievances https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395780910 2021-04-08 13:28:59 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395780910 vickystankowski https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395967152 More connection and a possible way to share my own story and experience.

]]> 2021-04-08 14:05:50 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395967152 Comfort https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971260 Have more comfort around race discussions with a deeper understanding]]> 2021-04-08 14:06:36 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971260 An understanding and appreciation for others' perspectives and experiences. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971291 2021-04-08 14:06:36 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971291 To remain open minded and to listen even if you disagree with a point Oluo makes or with what a staff member shares. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971707 2021-04-08 14:06:41 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971707 These conversations are fluid and hard to have; do it anyway https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971713 2021-04-08 14:06:41 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395971713 Encourage different voices to speak. vickystankowski https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395972081 2021-04-08 14:06:45 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395972081 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973238 Being open to discussion even if it’s uncomfortable ]]> 2021-04-08 14:06:59 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973238 Be mindful of intersecting identities allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973710 2021-04-08 14:07:04 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973710 Respect ..being respectful of each other. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973905 2021-04-08 14:07:06 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395973905 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395974375 different perspectives]]> 2021-04-08 14:07:11 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395974375 A deeper knowledge on the perspectives of other https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975122 2021-04-08 14:07:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975122 It will all be for not. In one ear and out another. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975510 2021-04-08 14:07:23 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975510 vickystankowski https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975641 A fear I have is that we will only hear the same prominent voices. I want to hear everyone's thoughts and voice. ]]> 2021-04-08 14:07:25 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975641 A better understanding of the ideas presented https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975672 2021-04-08 14:07:25 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975672 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975754 none]]> 2021-04-08 14:07:26 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395975754 Understanding of racial identity, how it impacts our students and school, and how it intersects with other factors allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976224 2021-04-08 14:07:32 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976224 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976273 different view points]]> 2021-04-08 14:07:32 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976273 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976308 Aw]]> 2021-04-08 14:07:33 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395976308 ways in which everyone (as adults) can reflect on their own race, power, and privileges to identify how these factors flow into daily interactions with others. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395978113 2021-04-08 14:07:55 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395978113 Letting and encouraging everyone to speak and express their thoughts and opinions https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979120 2021-04-08 14:08:07 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979120 Being respectful of those who are not yet comfortable contributing to the conversation. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979707 2021-04-08 14:08:14 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979707 Allow others the space to communicate open and freely without bias or judgement https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979943 2021-04-08 14:08:17 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395979943 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395980102 be aware of ones own emotions and those around them]]> 2021-04-08 14:08:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395980102 Acknowledgement https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395981012 Recognize and acknowledge each other's feelings and viewpoints. You may not share them, but they are real and exist for that person. ]]> 2021-04-08 14:08:30 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395981012 https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395982845 that the truth hurts and some people might get emotionally hurt]]> 2021-04-08 14:08:44 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395982845 respect each other's POVs as they are coming from a place of good intent; everyone speaks once before anyone speaks twice; be mindful of the tone in which you speak so not to offend; come prepared to be uncomfortable - if everyone is comfortable, then are we discussing anything relevant? https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395984113 2021-04-08 14:08:57 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395984113 People will forget to discuss in a respectful way, make things personal instead of in a systemic sense, and make personal attacks allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395989946 2021-04-08 14:10:04 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395989946 Misunderstanding and Judgment https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395991249 In fear of being misinterpreted and judged, fear of not being heard, fear of being labeled unfairly. We all come from different backgrounds and experiences.]]> 2021-04-08 14:10:20 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395991249 People will forget that we all have various identities that shape our worldview and those identities are important and can also be marginalized allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395993014 2021-04-08 14:10:40 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395993014 the invalidating of others' lived experiences https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395994038 2021-04-08 14:10:52 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395994038 culture difference https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395995877 2021-04-08 14:11:15 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395995877 Allowing one speaker to finish before the next begins but being mindful of time https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395996272 2021-04-08 14:11:20 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395996272 The fact that privilege is REAL. Sometimes we don't know the power we hold or don't hold. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395997616 2021-04-08 14:11:35 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1395997616 Monitor your tone https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396006868 2021-04-08 14:13:12 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396006868 Definitely give people the benefit of doubt. We all bring our own experiences with us. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396007044 2021-04-08 14:13:14 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396007044 some one being offended https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396007844 2021-04-08 14:13:24 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396007844 Be conscious of other facets of identity such as class, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc. allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396008895 2021-04-08 14:13:35 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396008895 I hope to face some truth with staff. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396011275 2021-04-08 14:14:00 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396011275 People aren't going to push through their discomfort https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396013210 2021-04-08 14:14:20 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396013210 Don't assume when people are making you feel uncomfortable that it is a form of intimidation, but more so accountability. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396015454 2021-04-08 14:14:46 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396015454 That people may feel attacked and will shut down before getting anything out of the feedback. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396020348 2021-04-08 14:15:46 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396020348 That'll it won't be effective, and we'll be in the same space before the activity. https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396020674 2021-04-08 14:15:49 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396020674 Call in, do not call out allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396025613 2021-04-08 14:16:47 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396025613 That people will make it about arguments and attacks and not dialogue and discussion allyhurd https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396040233 2021-04-08 14:19:29 UTC https://padlet.com/kristen_kelly1/4bikj2otz41efrzq/wish/1396040233