From that lesson, I have related it at myself as one day I will go the university which is far from my family. I need to know how to take care of myself and keep my dignity higher as a girl. I must try to not make my family embarrassed as if I am misbehave. For example, rosie had made her family feel embarrassed and chase her out. From that, I realized that family support is important for us to success. At the same time, I must not really to trust other people easily until I know who they are in real especially in relationship. I will make sure that, I keep study until success before getting to know other people. 
  
 Conclusion, in our life, we must remember that everything we have done started with our intention. If we keep remind our first intention in mind, we will make sure that everything will go as expected. We also must put our trust on ourself first before trust other people.

From that lesson we must be stronger than anyone because no one can helps beside it was you. It can be seen when Rosie need to be apart with her son without her will.. It can be apply to my life when I have a really big  issues that is coming to me . I need to be tough so I can slowly handle it and figure out the answer. I need to be bold and determine with myself so the others do not looked down on me again.

In the nutshell , we need to accept any challenges that come and try to beat it. If we were bold enough we can do anything without any doubt. I hope that people in the world can be tough in their hardest part in their life so there will less the cases of suicide. 

Based on the situation , I learnt that we should give our help to everyone surround us without judging their race , religion and even their skin colour . Despite Roslinda being secretive about her background but still they would love to help her rebuild the wooden shed . The small act kindness might change someone whole life . We should give our hand to people in need in order to build a community that full of peace and joy .

Everyone in this world are having their own hardhips and each of us are trying to face it . No matter what is your race , religion and skin colour you deserve a help in first place. In conclusion, we need to be kind and help each other and make the world a better place.

Firstly, I can help my friends who indeed just like how Rossie show her kindness by helping the villagers at the paddy fields and cook for them. Next, I can also help my parents doing the house chores to teach myself to be more kind. For example, Rossie’s son, Ismail also show his kindness through helping his mother washed the clothes, and dryed it under the coconut tree. Then, I will be a good listener for my friends who facing a hard time and I will try my best to give some advice to help them as a kind friend. We can put Asmah as a character that shows kindness when she was there for Rossie after arguing with Kamal. Rossie told her about what had happened between her and kamal to Asmah.

In conclusion, I will be kind to everyone to make them comfortable and respect me. It will help me going through my life with full of kindness and positive vibes. 

   With the arrangement,Rosie had many challenges in her life. After finding out that Rosie was pregnant, Kamal invited her to marry and told her father.Instead ,they did not get the blessing to get married because Kamal's father did not like Rosie, a village girl. So,Kamal’s family give some money to Rosie so she can feed her and the baby.She is able to raise her child without a husband because she knows that is her responsibility.She was abandoned by his own family and still able to live with his son very well. Thus she is a person who does not give up on his life despite the many challenges that have to go through.

      Sometimes, a mistake can make us become a strong person and determine to change our lives to be better than before.  Rosie is a perfect example, and we should always remember that whatever challenges came,we must face it.

        
          The thing that I learnt from this short story is to choose friend wisely. Rosie have a good life before she meet Kamal. Kamal is a manipulative friend. This can be shown when Kamal ask Rosie to do her assignment for him and manipulate her to sleep with him. And after she confirm that she pregnant with his child, Kamal do not bother to take responsibility since his father does not want him to marry Rosie.

        
  This can be relate to me since I have meet a lot of people that bring happiness and misfortune but with all the experience we learn from each person that stop by our life, we can be a better person. Rosie can be a good example, and we should always remember that every bad experience that happen to us always bring the good lesson. 

Based on the short story “The Misfortune of Roslinda Awang”,must choose the right person to become our friend is a reason that I learnt and it relate in my live.

In the story,.Roslinda is a careless person because she easily to make friend with a new guy in  her life.  For me,make a wrong choice about friends is a bad choice in my life.We should be careful about our surrounding especially with the new guy.Relate to the story,at last,Roslinda advise Asmah who is her good friend in the village to be careful and do not trust person easily.

However,our mistakes make us to become the strong person to face the music in the future.We must make ourselves in the positive vibes.Roslinda is the good example,even Ismail had been took by Kamal,she knew that her son live will be better than before.

In this story I found that Rosie is such a careless woman. Because she do not think wisely and easily think Kamal is a good friend to be with. We can see this when they started to be close and do everything together. Until at last Kamal started to take chances to do bad things to her. From this , I can learn that how big is the impact when I not choose my friend wisely. Especially this year is my first sem in the university. So I must be aware about this for not doing the same mistake like Rosie.

In our lives ,  we must know that everyone is not perfect and everyone made a mistake. Sometimes the mistake that happened can turn us into a better person when we always try to learn from it day by day.

One lesson that I learned from this story is we have choose friend wisely. It is because friends will influence us either good or bad things. We spend our time more with friends than our family .So ,with have a good friends ,they will always advise us to do a good thing otherwise having a bad friend will influence us with bad thing or worse ruin our life . ROSIE HAS CHOSEN THE WRONG PERON TO BE HER FRIEND, AND AT THE END, SHE WAS BETRAYED AND THAT DESTROY HER LIFE. Plus, we all believe friends are the person that we can trust besides our family .

In conclusion , everyone in this world should have at least a friend to be our company when we are sad or to have fun together but we really need to be careful because sometimes people never shows their true colour until they want to. For me ,Rosie is the best example even she made a mistake by choose a wrong friend but after that she continues to live with her son happily.

One lesson that I have learnt from the story is we should be careful on who we put our trust on. In this story, Rosalinda trusted Kamal so much which lead her to be manipulated by him without her even realizing that she had been used by him all the time. One day, she accepted Kamal’s offer to spend the night with him which resulted to her pregnancy. She was very naive for believing that Kamal would take care of her but he ended up leaving her alone and at the end, he took her child away from her and leave her with her miserable life. I could relate this lesson with my life because we will never know what intention that someone had when they tried to be closer to us and even someone who is dear to us could betray us without we even notice and it would end us in sorrow and regret.

In my opinion, trusting people mean that we are having complete faith on them and we have the mindset of being safe with them because we know that they are reliable and will be loyal to us. With that being said, we are sure that they would never turn their back on us and betray us which conclude that a trust need to be earned, not given. Hence, we should never trust people easily because  it might bring more harm than good.

The lesson that i learnt from this story is we must always remember to protect our own and family’s dignity wherever we are and stick to our main point in learning. For example, Roslinda did not fully committed in her studies in college and follow Kamal order even she knows that it is out of learning process. She neglect her dignity for someone who not sure to marry her.

This lesson can be related in my life because when i further my studies i meet lot of people and many types of them. Some are good and some are not. That is why i should always stick to my main objective which is to study,not to flirt in university. I have to take care of my family’s dignity and always remember their advise. In conclusion,  defend yourself from any bad influence by always remember family and objective in life. Do not let people take easy on us.

 One lesson that I can learnt from the story titled “The misfortune of Roslinda Awang” is we cannot easily trust people that we just met.

 Roslinda just know Kamal when her first-year degree in university. She takes a risk to be friends with Kamal and date him even though she doesn’t know Kamal very well. Roslinda falling in love with Kamal and trust him easily because Kamal have a good look and he came from a wealthy family. 

  We can be friend with anyone we want but we cannot trust them too much. We don’t know what other people thinks about us. Whether they have bad intentions towards us or not. Roslinda should reject Kamal invitation to spend one night with him because she has to realize that Kamal is a stranger that she just knows and meet. I can relate this lesson in my life when it comes about friends which is, I cannot tell them my secret easily because I know they can expose it anytime, they want. I have to learn from mistake that Roslinda did and always remind myself about it. 

I can relate it to my life is that I need to pay back all the sacrifices that my mother doing to me since my early age.For example, I must do my best for my university life.To make things clear ,I must plan my timetable for study and doing all the chores at UITM Kuala Pilah very well.I must stuggle a lot harder than my school life because my a university life and timetables may be a lot busy than before.Later on,I can complete all my homework and assignment that gave from the lectures before the deadline.I know all my hardwork and responsibility that all will paid off at my graduation for my diploma .

In addition,we never know happen in our future life.So,for normal human being,we must doing our best for everything and everytime that we do so that we can get our best thing in my university life.At least,we don’t need to felt disappointed when we not succeed well in life because we trying our best to pay all my mother sacrifices for me. 

       The lesson that i learn from this story is we should take good care of ourself to avoid us from being easily manipulate by others. For example in this story we can see that Rosie is a kind person that get easily manipulated by Kamal. For example Kamal always manipulate Rosie to do his assigment and wash his cloth. Kamal also invited Rosie to spend one night with him and saying that he willl be responsible if anything happens by promising to marry her. But Kamal not marry her and Rosie lost in his trap

In conclusion, it can related to our life when some women that has a bad past  is easily getting manipulated by other guy just because in the name of love and perfect in our eyes. So that we  should choose a good friend to became our friends. Some time we think our friend is a best and good friend  but not at all.  So here, we must be careful to choose our friend wisely to make sure that we will not regret in future and get a bad past .

                 In my opinion,trusting someone too much will bring more harm than good especially for the strangers. They may have arrage a trap to see our failures.For a better upcoming days, we must put family first because they are the one who will lend their hand whenever we are in tough life.

             

One of the lessons that I have relate to is that we should always choose our friend wisely. In the story ,Roslinda or better known as Rosie met Kamal and they have gotten closer after that day when Kamal offered to send her home. They started to spend a lot of time together. Kamal then started to manipulate her to do his assignment and wash his clothes for him and being her innocent self, she complied. One day, Kamal persuaded her to spend the night with him and lastly Rosie complied even though she knew it was wrong and that ended up with her getting pregnant and being humiliated by the villagers in her village. 

As a young girl myself, this story serves as a reminder and a lesson for me to learn that I should always be careful with people and to always choose my friend wisely. We will never know how bad the consequences will be just because of the foolish decision we made. Therefore, we should always remind ourselves that bad decisions will always come with bad consequences and we should always consider our action. 

                From this story,I have learnt that having an unswerving principle is very crucial in our life as it is a method to help us to stay focused to achieve our goals whether it is in a short term or long term.From the story,Roslinda was so blinded by love and Kamal’s charm that made her forgot the foremost reason on why her father sent her to town so that she can study and live a better life.Having a firm principle is not only to achieve our targets,it is also to prevent us from making a horrendous life changing decisions.It also helps us to choose a better option in whatever situation that needs our rational thinking.This principle is relatable in my life in so many ways and one of them is these principles I am holding can help me to study,work harder and prevent me from doing unbeneficial things.

 
To wrap this all up,we must think wisely before making any choices.The choices we made can make us live happily with rich family and highest position in our occupation but the choices we made can also make us live in poverty or worst that we cannot even imagine.Last but not least,be careful in every steps we make because it can affect our life in a good or bad way.

   From the lesson is we need to think first if we want to do anything.Don’t be like Kamaruddin and Roslinda.They do not think what is effect if the do the wrong thing like pregnant before marriage.That is also the wrong thing if kamaruddin say that he would marry with Roslinda.Lastly they do not married because of Kamaruddin’s father do not allow because of Roslinda is a villager.Kamaruddin from wealthy family,so that his father don’t want Roslinda  as a daughter-in-law because to maintain dignity.Kamaruddin left Roslinda but he give money.Kamaruddin choose his family than Roslinda.Roslinda left alone because of her choice after her parent mad at her.

   In the conclusion,me as a student,I will think first before do something because I don’t want my parents upset with me.I will also choose the right friend ,so that they can always give me some advice if I do the wrong thing.So we should think first before do something and ask an opinion with our friend.So that we always far from bad thing.

I have learned from the story that we must trust nobody except ourselves. As we can see in this story Kamal made a promise to marry Rosie after finished their study but he never made it because Kamal’s father would never approved her as a part of their family. Then, Rosie need to take care Ismail on her own and she made a hard decision to take away Ismail to her village so they can live in peace. Until suddenly Kamal made an appearance in the village and took Ismail by forced. Rosie was very lonely after then since she was too poor to hire a lawyer.

In conclusion, making a promise is hard, but to fulfil the promise is harder. We must take this story as a lesson for us so we can create a brighter future and make our parent proud of us. Stop letting other people take advantage of your kindness and start to focus on our learning in university.

    At the end of the story titled "The misfortune of Roslinda Awang",I have learn one lesson from the story.The lesson is do not trust other people easily.I realise that I should apply the lesson in my life.

    One day,I will leave home to continue my life journey.The more I explore the world,the more type of people I will meet and not all of them can be trust.In that story,Roslinda just easily trust Kamal because she loved him and let Kamal used her.At the end,Kamal leave her and made her life miserable.These matters cause her to feel heart broken and depress.Not all of people that we meet can be trust.They will not show their true colours during the first meet.We cannot know their true intentions when they come to us.If I do trust them easily,I can be heartbroken and I did not want that thing to happen.

      The conclusion is,if I did not want to be hurt by others,I must not trust them too easily.I can live a happy life without being used and manipulated by other people but not all people are untrustworthy.I must choose the right people to give muly trust.

 

I have learned that we must trust nobody except ourselves. As we can see in this story Kamal made a promise to marry Rosie after finished their study but he never made it because Kamal’s father would never approved her as a part of their family. Then, Rosie need to take care Ismail on her own and she made a hard decision to take away Ismail to her village so they can live in peace. Until suddenly Kamal made an appearance in the village and took Ismail by forced. Rosie was very lonely after then since she was too poor to hire a lawyer.

 

In conclusion, making a promise is hard, but to fulfil the promise is harder. We must take this story as a lesson for us so we can create a brighter future and make our parent proud of us. Stop letting other people take advantage of your kindness and start to focus on our learning as a student.

        As we know before this Rosie trusts Kamaruddin very well,when he said that he will marry her .But when something bad happened ,they crossed the line.Rosie had positive on pregnancy test,she told Kamaruddin about that.On that time ,Rosie hated the decision that Kamaruddin have made even she already knew that kamaruddin will follow the orders by his father which is they cannot get married together just because of degree differences between them.Rosie regretted because she trusted on his promised to take a responsible for his baby.

        In conclusion, we must be careful on what we do and always remember to take care ourselves.This short story really reflect my life since I am girl,as a girl we should protect our dignity.Do not be easily swayed with unrealistic sweet words.Rosie is a perfect example when she fell on Kamaruddin words.Lastly, love yourself before you love others

In this situation, the lesson that I learn is don't be a naive girl.Roslinda is a girl who is quick to believe in man, it happen when Kamal persuade her to accompany him just for one night and Roslinda agree. It happened because she think that Kamal will keep his promise.This lesson can be relate in my life where I have to becareful  with men who love to give sweet words and always have limits every time I want to make friends with new people.

A misfortune that come into our life sometime can be a something positive to our next journey and become a new spirit in our life but all the thing that we do, we need to always remember the risk that we will facing after what we did in our life or to our surrounding.

I relate this to my life, before we made a  decision  either important or not. We need to think wise and cautiously  about the impact  of  decisionin.In addition to have a happy  surrounding and being love by others.This is because there are often many ways of solving a given problem. Some solutions to a problem can be quite obvious. Others require careful deliberation to arrive at. Once a list of possible solutions or courses of action has been arrived at, then one selects the solution that best addresses the given problem.Lastly,think before act.