stages of parenting by Claire Johnston

Marriage/childbearing stage

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:05:38 UTC

Adjusting to married life and preparing for pregnancy. Establishing the foundation for a happy life together and possibly with children.

Childbearing

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:08:16 UTC

Adjusting to the changes an infant brings to the household. Additionally getting used to the changes in dynamic between parents as roles are established through the child.

Pre-school aged children

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:10:05 UTC

Getting used to the needs of a young child and helping them socialize with other kids and learn about life outside of the house. This stage can be exhausted due to hyper young kids so parents also need to adjust accordingly.

School-aged children

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:11:46 UTC

Helping your child fit into their school community while encouraging their academic endevours.

Teenage children

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:14:51 UTC

Becoming used to seeing the children less and giving them more freedom while also setting boundaries and keeping responsibility.

Launching stage

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:17:10 UTC

"launching" the kids into adulthood. This can include them leaving for college or work. It is important to maintain a place where the kids can return in case of trouble.

Middle-aged parents

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:19:03 UTC

With the lack of kids, the parents now need to refocus on their relationship. Also work on creating ties with grandchildren and other extended family.

Aging family members

johnstonclaire — 2024-02-21 21:20:22 UTC

Coping with death possibly of partner or other older family members. Becoming retired and arranging assets and will.