https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki Respond to the following discussion questions, providing specific examples that connect to yourself, personal experiences, and/or class concepts. en-us 2020-12-11 14:12:07 UTC 2020-12-15 14:56:16 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016256566 One thing that I believe strongly about, in terms of any relationship is respect. Respect is important to build a healthy and equal relationship.  In any relationship, I would want the other to respect me and care about what I have to say. If they did not respect me, then that would be a toxic relationship.]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:03 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016256566 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016256863 I feel strongly about the emotions 'Anger', because is there isn't slight possessiveness and jealousy or small fights a relationship isn't complete or pure]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016256863 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016257375 One thing I believe in, in terms of having a relationship is that, the people that are in a relationship shouldn't lie to each other if its something important and cheating on another person is unacceptable. Also people should only be in a relationship if they truly love each other and not just using one another for personal benefits. They must also treat each other very well and not end in an abusive relationship]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016257375 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016257463 One value I strongly believe in in terms of relationships would be happiness. If a person isn't happy in that relationship then that person shouldn't stay in  it. It goes for friendships, romantic relationships, marriage etc. In order to make relationships work a person needs to be happy and willing to put that effort. Everything should go naturally in a relationship, nothing should be forced. Mutual decisions should be made and both people should be happy.]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016257463 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016258073 One thing I believe in when it comes to relationships is that you need to know the person for a good amount of time before you get into a romantic relationship. Sometimes not knowing the person and then suddenly getting into a relationship can cause problems in the future and you’ll find yourself troubled since you didn't know that the person your with was actually like that. I have experienced something like that, when I was a sophomore I decided to romantically be in a relationship with someone but didn't spend my time getting to know them. Later on in the relationship everything was going downhill and I saw a side of them I didn't know about. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:22 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016258073 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016258180 I dont think cheating is acceptable.If your wanna be with other people while your with anyone why act like your gonna commit when you know your intentions]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016258180 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016260079 I strongly believe in keeping a healthy balance. I feel like it is often assumed that when in a relationship, you are only obliged to one person but that's not true. Spending time away from that person for sometime can only help ignite the spark.]]> 2020-12-14 15:16:46 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016260079 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016265004 One thing I feel strongly about in terms of relationships is loyalty and respect. If you are not loyal to any of your friends or partners, then you do not deserve them and if they are not loyal to you then they do not deserve you. If you do not respect the people you have a relationship with, then you cannot truly understand them and respect their own decisions, if you know the motive behind it. 

]]> 2020-12-14 15:17:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016265004 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016281267 My values are based on what I believe in i know my past realtionship(even since if i was young)had lots of issues and the past also affects my values now. communicated is important and cheating and lying can affect a relationship in a negative way.I would want honesty and commitment.]]> 2020-12-14 15:20:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016281267 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016281863 Something that shapes my values about relationships is my family and also my religion. In our culture arranged marriage is really common and my parents are also arranged marriage which means that they have no idea of what each person is like before they got married. This obviously did lead to a lot of arguments and fights and also wanting to separate. Another value that I stated was religion, in our religion you’re not supposed to date someone or be in a romantic relationship at all. My parents found out about my relationship with someone and immediately brought up our religion and how I'm disobeying our beliefs. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:20:59 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016281863 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282351 I feel like my values on relationships is based on what I would want my relationship with a girl to end up like. I feel like my values ended up from my family since pretty sure in the past when I was a kid, my parents fought with each other and I don't want that to happen for me and my girlfriend (If I ever get one)]]> 2020-12-14 15:21:05 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282351 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282484 Personally, culture or family does not play a crucial role in my values of relationships. My values are based upon my own personal experiences. Knowing that I personally like spending time with my all my friends and families instead of being obliged to just one person makes me feel strongly for the need to have healthy boundaries and healthy space. I feel as if becoming too dependent on one another will only lead to unnecessary stress and tension.]]> 2020-12-14 15:21:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282484 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282883 I think that our family and also the friends who have been around for a very long time, so our values shape how we express our anger in relationships. For example, if my family is violent, I would be violent with the partner, if my family talks more, I would try and talk it out. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:21:11 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016282883 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016283986 My family shapes my values about relationships. Growing up, no adults listened to the kids. They would always dismiss us and make us feel not equal. I did not feel respected or even cared for. This is why respect is very important to me, because I do not want to feel the same way again.]]> 2020-12-14 15:21:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016283986 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016288138 My family, culture and friendships shape my value about relationships. I have been growing up my whole life among them and it allowed me to learn a lot from them. My perceptions and views have been influenced by my upbringing, my environment, the people around me. I learnt that communication is very important and that communicating can lead to less problems in a relationship.]]> 2020-12-14 15:22:11 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016288138 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016292133 My beliefs are usually shaped by my friends and my parents. My parents try to show me good morals, and my friends are very respectable people. Having good people around you and my friends and family teaching me the right way to make others feel happy, is a very positive experience. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:22:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016292133 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016351131 I value commitment.Most teenagers agreed.Most questions were like to tell the other person which is valuing friendship and loyalty Which people did agree with.It shows teens value friendship and loyalty still which is good. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:34:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016351131 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016351886 After analyzing the 4 relationship scenarios, I feel that my responses says that I believe that truth is very important in relationships and that staying loyal to one person is the most important thing. I think most teenagers would agree with me because in relationships, you should tell the truth to the person your in a relationship with since otherwise the relationship might end up bad and staying loyal to that person is important because who would accept the person they are dating to be kissing or dating another person.]]> 2020-12-14 15:34:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016351886 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016364641 My responses say that I value honesty. After looking at the group results, I can conclude that most teenagers would agree with me. If I were cheated on, then I would want to know about it and most teenagers would too. This is why honesty is very important.]]> 2020-12-14 15:36:57 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016364641 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016364965 After analyzing the 4 relationship scenarios my responses about my values and beliefs say that I would want my partner to be honest and tell me the truth about everything. I think most teenagers would agree with me because a lot of people value honesty and loyalty. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:37:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016364965 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016365103 After analyzing the 4 relationship scenarios I believe that we should always pick the one who is loyal to you, and I also believe that we should always put friends before girlfriends/boyfriends. I think that most teenagers will not agree with this because they forgive and forget too easily, and forget about friends when their in a relationship. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:37:02 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016365103 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016365380 Based on the responses, I believe that most teenagers do value friendship a lot. You choose friends based on the values that you have, and if they are similar to yourself then you can have a fun time and a person that respects you and that you respect as well. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:37:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016365380 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016366049 After analyzing the 4 relationship scenarios, I can say that I truly value honesty and trust. I feel as if lying is just wrong and will lead to someone getting hurt.]]> 2020-12-14 15:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016366049 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016366308 I believe in honesty and loyalty. In a successful and healthy relationship, these two factors play a very important role. Most teenagers would agree with me because people want to be treated the way they treat others. What's wrong is wrong and what's right is right. ]]> 2020-12-14 15:37:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1016366308 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020173943 2020-12-15 14:50:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020173943 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020175822 I believe in honesty when being in a relationship and the ability to stay loyal. If you can't do that then stay single and don't complain that you are. I believe most teenagers would agree because i feel like most teenagers have toxic or unhealthy relationships where theres problems because they are not mature enough.

]]> 2020-12-15 14:50:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020175822 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020189689 I believe in loyalty strongly. I believe in it because that's the only way to maintain a healthy relationship. Very few relationships continue after someone cheats.]]> 2020-12-15 14:53:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020189689 https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020197398 My beliefs come from friends and family who have had unsuccessful relationships due to loyalty. ]]> 2020-12-15 14:55:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jchunhealthed/47dwzxfg77cfgwki/wish/1020197398