https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s What surprised you? Have you seen this in your life with someone you know? Will you do anything different in dating because of one of these facts? What could be done to make sure you aren't a victim of this statistic? en-us 2021-06-02 04:41:16 UTC 2025-08-04 03:26:07 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f60d.png 1810514 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580298480 I didn't know that you had to pay for divorce so this surprised me.

]]> 2021-06-02 17:45:18 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580298480 1810514 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580301602 I agree with this because not everything in a relationship is about buying gifts or spending money. ]]> 2021-06-02 17:46:20 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580301602 179328 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580301758 I did not know you had to pay to get divorced.]]> 2021-06-02 17:46:24 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580301758 1824314 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580302136 Wow that's a lot of money just to get divorced. ]]> 2021-06-02 17:46:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580302136 181680 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580302938 Wow! I didn't know you had to pay that much to get a divorce. I'm shocked.]]> 2021-06-02 17:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580302938 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303268 2021-06-02 17:46:52 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303268 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303713 2021-06-02 17:47:00 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303713 1808772 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303766 I was not surprise at all because getting marry at 18 is too young. I thought the percentage rate would be higher.]]> 2021-06-02 17:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303766 179828 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303779 2021-06-02 17:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580303779 179328 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580304682 Relationship is not all about things bought it is about honesty, trust, and communication.]]> 2021-06-02 17:47:20 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580304682 1810731 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580305160 I'm not surprised by this because young people are emotional and irrational with their decisions. I can avoid becoming part of this statistic by avoiding marriage early on in a relationship]]> 2021-06-02 17:47:30 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580305160 1810514 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580305972 Of course these things go into consideration when planing a marriage because if you disagree with your person's idea of having children or not and lets say you are from different religions that clash, that won't end up well.]]> 2021-06-02 17:47:43 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580305972 1866821 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307403 This was surprising to me because I didn't know getting divorced cost that much.]]> 2021-06-02 17:48:13 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307403 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307504 2021-06-02 17:48:15 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307504 1813531 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307632 This is not something I am shocked about since they are very young to be together at age 18 they still haven't fully matured mentally; therefore leading to a higher rate of divorce.]]> 2021-06-02 17:48:18 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580307632 1810731 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580308660 What surprised me is that a very large portion of 3rd marriages end up in divorce. I would've expected that by the 3rd marriage they've would've found out how to make a relationship work ]]> 2021-06-02 17:48:41 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580308660 1818241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580308662 I don't really know anyone that got married in less than a year of knowing the other person. Myself, I was always going to wait more than a year. I didn't know about this fact and it's pretty interesting.]]> 2021-06-02 17:48:41 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580308662 179828 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580310472 2021-06-02 17:49:20 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580310472 179328 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580311574 2021-06-02 17:49:42 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580311574 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580311796 2021-06-02 17:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580311796 1828233 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580312600 2021-06-02 17:49:54 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580312600 1810731 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580313684 This is another key factor into why you must think long and hard before entering into a marriage ]]> 2021-06-02 17:50:18 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580313684 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580314102 Not surprised, at 18 you're still trying to figure things out and getting married at that age isn't a good thing]]> 2021-06-02 17:50:27 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580314102 179828 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580314574 2021-06-02 17:50:38 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580314574 1813531 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580316147 This surprised me because I didn't know the main cause of divorce financial problems, I didn't have situations like those around me there were always other personal situations but no one I've met had divorced for lack of money. I feel like having different perspective of how you view politics shouldn't be as big as an effect as it is since we all got different perspectives in life.]]> 2021-06-02 17:51:12 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580316147 179703 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580316677 This is really surprising, I would have thought it was much lower, as it costs more than some cars.]]> 2021-06-02 17:51:23 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580316677 181680 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580318783 I know someone that got married at 18 and they got a divorce 7 months later so i'm not surprised.]]> 2021-06-02 17:52:08 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580318783 1808772 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580320028 2021-06-02 17:52:34 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580320028 1818241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580323400 This is really helpful and true. I will for sure keep this fact in mind for my life.]]> 2021-06-02 17:53:39 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580323400 1818241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580332347 This is really surprising to me. I thought that the rate would go down but it just keeps going up]]> 2021-06-02 17:56:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580332347 1864741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580334243 I agree my friend’s parents married at a young age and they did end up having a divorce.]]> 2021-06-02 17:57:07 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580334243 1824314 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580337179 I agree, these are great topics to talk about because it is important to know the person well so the relationship can last. ]]> 2021-06-02 17:58:08 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580337179 1864741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580337721 I’m not surprised because 2020 was a stressful year for everyone.]]> 2021-06-02 17:58:20 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580337721 1864741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580340715 I didn’t even know that a divorce had a cost and it’s not cheap at all.]]> 2021-06-02 17:59:15 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580340715 1808772 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580341337 I was surprise that the percentage kept increasing each time. I didn't know that almost 50% of marriages will end in divorce or separation.]]> 2021-06-02 17:59:28 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580341337 1828233 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580341894 2021-06-02 17:59:39 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580341894 1828233 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580344842 2021-06-02 18:00:35 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580344842 1833642 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580344876 2020 was a year where alot of people lost there jobs that means no money that means no bills paid that means no home]]> 2021-06-02 18:00:36 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580344876 1813531 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580348210 Money should never be spent foolishly, it is something that needs to be talked about with the partner first before anything once you are together with someone. If they were to spend money while you both agreed to save up for furniture for instance it will affect the trust in the relationship and make it harder for you to trust the partner you are with. ]]> 2021-06-02 18:01:48 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580348210 181680 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580351609 Yes I agree. I will definitely keep this fact in mind.]]> 2021-06-02 18:03:02 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580351609 179703 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580364532 In addition to these, each person should make their life goals and ambitions clear so that each person understand why the other may deviate from their values.]]> 2021-06-02 18:07:33 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580364532 1824314 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580370341 I agree happiness can't be bought with money. ]]> 2021-06-02 18:09:28 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580370341 1796771 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580415635 This took me by surprise because I would've thought the numbers would be reversed.]]> 2021-06-02 18:25:47 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580415635 1796771 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580421443 I knew it cost money to get a divorce but I didn't think it would be that much money so I'm a little surprised by that.]]> 2021-06-02 18:27:57 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580421443 1796771 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580426851 I'm not very surprised by this because when you are young you are still trying to figure out how to be an adult and when you make a big commitment like this it wouldn't be a surprise to regret it later on in life.]]> 2021-06-02 18:30:09 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580426851 1828233 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580603117 2021-06-02 19:42:37 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580603117 1805121 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580819102 2021-06-02 21:42:48 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580819102 1805121 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580820842 I completely agree with this because love can't be bought.]]> 2021-06-02 21:44:07 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580820842 1805121 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580823067 2020 was a stressful year because no one knew what was going to happen or how long it was going to last.]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:50 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1580823067 1811691 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1582897905 I very much agree with this because I believe that having a good connection between your partner is most important and makes you happier.

]]> 2021-06-03 15:49:55 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1582897905 1811691 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1585844169 Getting married at the age of eighteen is too early, because it's such a big commitment that you may not have time to put in to, it may be stressful as well. You have other things to focus on such as, college, job, or family.

]]> 2021-06-04 17:20:04 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1585844169 1811691 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1585853211 I agree with this because if you spend money foolishly without your significant others agreement on it, they may be disappointed in you and might feel like you're wasting their money on something you didn't really need.]]> 2021-06-04 17:23:12 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1585853211 1805992 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586376420 This was suprising becuase i dint think divorces costed this much and i thought you had to sign a paper and thats that.]]> 2021-06-04 22:41:45 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586376420 1805992 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586377832 i agree with this statement becuase it makes sense and is very true becuase i think that happinesses isnt bought.]]> 2021-06-04 22:43:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586377832 1805992 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586379434 i agree with these topics becuase if u dont discuss this it can cause divorce.]]> 2021-06-04 22:44:53 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1586379434 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592126751 I agree with these facts because I think they are so important before making a huge life commitment.]]> 2021-06-08 06:41:39 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592126751 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592135055 This past year has been a stressful year and I can understand why people were getting divorces since money is the number 1 reason for divorces. With people loosing their jobs due to the lock down, they haven't been able to pay bills and other necessities.]]> 2021-06-08 06:45:24 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592135055 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592140308 I agree with this statement because money doesn't buy all your happiness it just helps relieve you stress form financial issues and that is why I think good quality time spent with your significant other is better than buying things for them to do.]]> 2021-06-08 06:47:51 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/44j7knnlmhobjb0s/wish/1592140308