https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s Why does this happen? en-us 2022-05-04 14:09:50 UTC 2022-05-04 15:56:19 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170166232 We do this because we think it is the norm and want to be liked/included by the people around us. Easier to go with the grain than against the grain]]> 2022-05-04 15:53:54 UTC https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170166232 https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170167451 I think one of the most prominent reasons we go along with this is the hope that by going along with their ideals we might at some point be accepted. That if we play along long enough they will accept us or we can impact them and change their minds.]]> 2022-05-04 15:54:38 UTC https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170167451 https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170169203 Society has lulled us into believing that the actions of marginalization are okay and are even a necessary component of society. A lot of this has to do with power structures that try and keep the same people on top/in charge and prevent others from truly expressing their voices and opinions. ]]> 2022-05-04 15:55:44 UTC https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170169203 https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170170167 A likely reason for that would be that you believe that you will benefit from colluding with them. For instance, you are at a job interview and you really need the position or you just transferred to as new school. You are more than likely to tolerate anything to feel like you belong. ]]> 2022-05-04 15:56:19 UTC https://padlet.com/theresa_r_moore/3t9f16jygae12s4s/wish/2170170167