Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships by Amarie Orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig What makes them healthy or not? en-us 2018-02-23 14:05:21 UTC 2025-11-03 10:34:35 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Hearts.png What should the partner be like in a healthy relationship? amarie_orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234686856 Your partner should be supportive and accepting of you, who you are, and what you do. Those are things that make you you, and it's a good thing if they respect that. 
They should be fine with you hanging out with other people that you are close to and is personally comfortable with being around them too - they shouldn't become overly jealous or possessive.
Your partner should genuinely care about you and never pressure you to do something you don't want to do - if you're not ready, they shouldn't shove you towards it.
They should be respectful and not overly negative.
Both of you should have an equal say in the relationship.]]> 2018-02-23 14:09:42 UTC https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234686856 How do you resolve conflict in a healthy relationship? amarie_orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234693853 In a healthy relationship, it's important to set boundaries. Make sure neither of you are throwing insults, and if it continues after trying to stop it, make sure to drop the argument so that you can both let out some steam and calm down.
Instead of arguing over the shallow part of the argument, try and find the heart of the issue to work it out more effectively. For example, don't argue about not washing the dishes, let them share their feelings about how they feel they do all the work in the house, and work it out from there.
Try to find a middle ground in your argument whenever possible, but if it isn't possible, simply agree to disagree and drop it.
You should consider all points in the argument to resolve it more efficiently.]]> 2018-02-23 14:22:42 UTC https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234693853 In an unhealthy relationship, what is your partner like? amarie_orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234693994 Your partner may not trust you, and may constantly accuse you of cheating on them.
They may be overly possessive, and will become upset if you spend some time with friends or family. 
They might put you down and speak negatively about your accomplishments, which will affect your self esteem.
They may pressure you to do something that you aren't ready for yet. 
Your partner may not accept you for who you are. 
They may subject you to verbal, physical, or sexual abuse.]]> 2018-02-23 14:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/234693994 How do you handle conflict in an unhealthy relationship? amarie_orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/235837763 In an unhealthy relationship, try to assess what the true problem is. 
Your partner may be upset with you for doing things that don't concern them, like going to practice or hanging out with friends. This shows possessive behavior, and needs to be resolved.
It's also possible that they're verbally abusing you in the argument. If you're not given a chance to speak and are scared of speaking back to them, it may be verbal abuse.
No matter what, you should not try to put down their self esteem as well, since that won't do anything to end the argument effectively.]]> 2018-02-27 13:14:00 UTC https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/235837763 amarie_orbeta https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/235842287 2018-02-27 13:23:40 UTC https://padlet.com/amarie_orbeta/3rd12ye8bnig/wish/235842287