https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n en-us 2022-02-15 14:34:24 UTC 2022-02-16 14:35:54 UTC hello@padlet.com 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048720487 With my top value being Love and Connection, I personally feel like I need to be loved and to give out love. 

To people I love I show the utmost attention towards them, by giving out time and energy. I become nurturing and responsible.

Having this as my top need isn't surprising. When I care about a person I give my all into them. I become very empathetic and supportive towards these people. ]]> 2022-02-15 14:43:02 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048720487 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048735523 Growth is mainly learning focused and feeling the need to be learning. If I am losing sight of this I tend to be more detached and under value relationships. 

I am surprised about this also being my number 1, because learning never caught my eye. I was never the type of person to be excited to learn something new at school. The only time I enjoy learning is a life lesson or it is something I am truly interested in. 

What I am not surprised about is when the article said "developing my skills is important", because with sports and hobbies I really enjoy I want to be the best at. Therefore I will really put my time and effort into it. ]]> 2022-02-15 14:49:04 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048735523 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048750489 Contributing is needing to be able to help others. Feeling like you're unfulfilled and guilty if you are being unhelpful. Donating to charities, going beyond your needs and to be selfless for others. 

I am not surprised that this was in my top 3, because I tend to go out of my way to help people around me and if I don't I will feel guilty. Also it states that being like this can cause someone to be controlling, which is true. If I am not in control I tend to shut down. ]]> 2022-02-15 14:55:08 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2048750489 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050904404 Significance is when you feel like in order to be happy you need to be respected and important. 

I tend to be a perfectionist because I tend to fix myself in order to gain respect. I get annoyed or distressed when people try to disrupt my schedule on things and I don't like restrictions from my freedom.

I am surprised this isn't my number 2 or 3, because respect is such an important thing for me. If I am not respected or as respected as I should be in a situation I tend to get really angry. I also feel like I have a happy medium between this and love and connection. In the article it says "Sometimes love is more important than respect. It's difficult to love someone who has to feel important all the time." I feel as if I have a balance between them both.]]> 2022-02-16 14:03:35 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050904404 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050948558 Certainty is the feeling of security and safety. Needing to be in control of the moment and to not risk putting yourself in any danger. People with certainty higher up will avoid people and new experiences and will also have problems with full commitment.
 
I am not surprised this isn't as high up as the others, because  the future is untold and unpredictable. Everything happens for a reason, and I will drive myself insane trying to prevent things from happening. But, I also tend to need to be certain about things that I am in control of, like safety around me, I'm cautious. ]]> 2022-02-16 14:20:51 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050948558 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050968863 Uncertainty is wanting to try new challenges and to take emotional or physical risk. People with this need tend to lose sight of the balances between risk taking and not prioritizing stability and responsibility. 

I agree with this being at the bottom of my list, because I don't enjoy taking risk that I'm not sure of the outcome. I feel nervous and I end up not having fun. But also I do like taking fun, adventurous risk as long as it can't be dangerous. ]]> 2022-02-16 14:27:23 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050968863 05kstrewig https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050973987 I agree with both of my top two needs, because love and growing as a person is so important to me. Everyone deserves to be loved and they should give out love. Also growing as a person intellectually can really develop a person to who they are. If I went a week without giving love or receiving I would be unhappy. Growing as a person is important, because you need to train your mind to be open. Also in order to get better at something you need to train and grow as that player or student. ]]> 2022-02-16 14:29:26 UTC https://padlet.com/05kstrewig/3r7yuqrz2ba1ey9n/wish/2050973987