Q4P3 Marriage Facts by Jodie Anttila https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e What surprised you? Have you seen this in your life with someone you know? Will you do anything different in dating because of one of these facts? What could be done to make sure you aren't a victim of this statistic? en-us 2021-06-02 04:43:14 UTC 2025-11-14 12:12:11 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f60d.png I agree (even though I have never been in a relationship), it's good to appreciate the things that money can't buy. It'll also relieve stress and give time to cool off. 1810078 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580667992 2021-06-02 20:14:04 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580667992 I agree. Communication and quality time is important. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580668273 2021-06-02 20:14:13 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580668273 Other topics that I think are important to discuss are morals and politics. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669023 2021-06-02 20:14:37 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669023 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669200 I absolutely agree with this! I hate how this generation likes online relationships when i rather have in person interaction.]]> 2021-06-02 20:14:42 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669200 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669606 I never knew this but damm that is a lot of money! ]]> 2021-06-02 20:14:55 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580669606 1817161 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580670199 I've always wondered why people would get married so fast, I would wait at the very least 3 years, but not if I'm younger than 26.]]> 2021-06-02 20:15:14 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580670199 1798431 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580670969 I have mixed emotions about this statistic because most of my tía's got married in their late teens. However, it's not that surprising that those who marry early in life end in divorce.]]> 2021-06-02 20:15:38 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580670969 I have to agree, because yeah I'd be pretty mad if my partner just spent money impulsively with no plan and/or reasoning whatsoever. If you wouldn't, then there's either something wrong or you're unbelievably rich. 1810078 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672071 2021-06-02 20:16:15 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672071 1802941 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672120 That's Insane I never knew it costed money to get a divorce. Just thought you split all the stuff you have then dip]]> 2021-06-02 20:16:16 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672120 I agree. Spending time with your significant other is really important 1798331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672326 2021-06-02 20:16:22 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672326 1817161 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672516 Dang that's a lot.]]> 2021-06-02 20:16:28 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672516 I didn't know that 2020 messed people up this much. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672672 2021-06-02 20:16:34 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672672 This is shocking but not surprising since last year was a tough year for everyone and therefore it caused people to reconsider relationships. 1813593 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672673 2021-06-02 20:16:34 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580672673 I think this is good to know because it is like a test to see that even after the "nerve growth factor" starts to fall over the years, and you're still happy with your partner, then it should be okay to get married. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580673114 2021-06-02 20:16:48 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580673114 I didn't even know you can get married at 18. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674058 2021-06-02 20:17:16 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674058 1817161 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674064 Yup a lot of people don't sit down and talk when they are dating that is part of what happened to my mom and old step-dad.]]> 2021-06-02 20:17:16 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674064 Jose Martinez https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674204 That’s true because if there is disagreement  between something and none of you try to address it it will become an even bigger problem and next thing you know your marriage is over]]> 2021-06-02 20:17:21 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674204 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674319 This is sad :( ]]> 2021-06-02 20:17:24 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580674319 If this is true, I'm gonna propose with a ring pop. Jokes aside, this is kind of surprising. Personally, I won't spend a fortune on a ring but I'll at least be generous with it if my partner likes it. 1810078 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675150 2021-06-02 20:17:51 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675150 I wonder how high it can go up though. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675471 2021-06-02 20:18:01 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675471 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675649 I have mixed feelings about this. I feel like it can be a discussion. ]]> 2021-06-02 20:18:05 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580675649 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580676772 I think I’ll be okay with my husband and I going on a small getaway rather than a wedding lol. ]]> 2021-06-02 20:18:35 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580676772 Jose Martinez https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580676931 I had a feeling that people would try tearing each other apart if they were to have to deal with each other and not come to a consensus for so long.]]> 2021-06-02 20:18:40 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580676931 Yeah i believe the reason that people have a higher chance of divorcing at a young age is because they're so young and they think that's what they want but wanting something is completely different from knowing that you're ready for that type of commitment 1798331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580679326 2021-06-02 20:19:38 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580679326 Jose Martinez https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580680069 Why does it take much more energy and resources to break apart from someone than to become something together]]> 2021-06-02 20:20:00 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580680069 I agree. Material items can be replaced but quality time with someone you love can't. https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580680576 2021-06-02 20:20:15 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580680576 This statistic makes me rethink relationships. 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580681351 2021-06-02 20:20:36 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580681351 I did not know this! Interesting. 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580682607 2021-06-02 20:21:11 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580682607 This statistic is pretty surprising for me because I thought the rate of divorce would go down if you got married more than once. 1874872 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580682843 2021-06-02 20:21:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580682843 1808741 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580683796 I believe this is true ! ]]> 2021-06-02 20:21:51 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580683796 1798431 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580684924 I agree 100%! My love language is quality time and there's is nothing I love more than to talk things out with people- in this case, my s/o. Building rapport in a relationship makes communication easier.]]> 2021-06-02 20:22:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580684924 Wow this fact is pretty surprising to me. I never realized divorce was this high. I know it was somewhat common but this exceeds my expectations. If most of it is money issues then I bet they wish they took Mrs. Anttila's class in high school. 1805942 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580686737 2021-06-02 20:23:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580686737 I feel like each others political views matter, and each others career goals. 1874872 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580687102 2021-06-02 20:23:41 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580687102 This is surprising! I personally have never heard of this statistic. On the contrary I would have thought it was the other way around. 1813593 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580687293 2021-06-02 20:23:46 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580687293 This is of course a sad thing, but look on the bright side: Maybe the pandemic made people realize they weren't meant to be in each other's lives. That is perfectly okay! https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580688553 2021-06-02 20:24:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580688553 1798331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580688773 I feel like most ended because of the lack of communication. Talking to your partner about how you feel in the relationship is key to keep one. Specially since 2020 was a really hard year.]]> 2021-06-02 20:24:37 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580688773 This statistic makes sense to me, because I think people wouldn't want to be with someone who spends to much money because of potential debt and it's very mature to go around spending money senselessly. 1874872 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580693975 2021-06-02 20:27:27 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580693975 1797722 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580694253 I did not know that 2020 is being the worst year for relationships, that’s kinda shockingly crazy]]> 2021-06-02 20:27:37 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580694253 1797722 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695092 why is it so much money??!]]> 2021-06-02 20:27:58 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695092 1798431 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695950 This is outrageous. I had no idea that it cost money to file for a divorce. With that being said, I think it's crazy how much money people are willing to spend to separate from their partner.]]> 2021-06-02 20:28:26 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695950 1797722 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695984 Yeah I am never gonna get married.]]> 2021-06-02 20:28:27 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580695984 This is not surprising to me as divorce is something that is very common in my extended family. But looking at these statistics, it makes me rethink marriage. 1813593 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580699986 2021-06-02 20:30:37 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580699986 I never understood why a divorce would cost so much, only if the lawyers were expensive. 1874872 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580701121 2021-06-02 20:31:15 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580701121 I honest think that l won't married, but if I were to change my mind I would wait about 3-5 years. 1874872 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580703830 2021-06-02 20:32:41 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580703830 1816934 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580713292 People in their teens make impulsive decisions sometimes and divorce is expensive so I’ll be sure to wait to see if I’ll get married after 23 ]]> 2021-06-02 20:37:42 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580713292 1816934 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580714888 Money can’t buy happiness and if that’s what grounds you’re relationship with your significant other it’s a dangerous game of debt to play]]> 2021-06-02 20:38:25 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580714888 1816934 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580716465 I wouldn’t get married the 3rd time after the 2 other divorces that you financially went through ]]> 2021-06-02 20:39:09 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580716465 1802941 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580758103 That's definitely going to affect how long I date to marry. I think you should wait 5+ years to know if they are truly your lover.]]> 2021-06-02 21:03:27 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580758103 I agree, If you don't want to spend time with your partner then whats the point. 1802941 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580763774 2021-06-02 21:06:59 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1580763774 1810578 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581483157 This is shocking I didn't know that at all.]]> 2021-06-03 03:51:06 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581483157 1810578 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581486596 Spending that much money is ridicules.]]> 2021-06-03 03:53:11 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581486596 1810578 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581493859 That is a good to note and an explanation why people get married so fast.]]> 2021-06-03 03:57:59 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1581493859 1809165 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1583063253 I think it's an absurdity to spend so much money on only a divorce. What if people don't have that kind of money to spend on a divorce what happens then? I just don't understand it.]]> 2021-06-03 16:41:21 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1583063253 1809165 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1583188034 I really do think the one topic that should always be a factor in relationships is politics. Its such a sensitive topic that can either break or make a couple.]]> 2021-06-03 17:20:25 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1583188034 1838921 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585635931 I think 50-50 is partly right but also partly wrong because not everyone is the same]]> 2021-06-04 16:03:25 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585635931 1838921 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585641059 I strongly agree with these 5 topics because it is very reasonable, before getting married we need to discuss those topics a lot to have a good married life.]]> 2021-06-04 16:05:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585641059 1838921 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585666616 I agree with this, in marriage I think both parties should have control over each other's money so that they can spend money on a reasonable plan and have the smartest plan.]]> 2021-06-04 16:14:34 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1585666616 1836211 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1586180480 I totally agree. spending some much money will lead more problems besides divorce like debt if not careful.]]> 2021-06-04 19:58:24 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1586180480 1834382 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589258086 I  never knew this, that is really crazy.]]> 2021-06-07 07:02:46 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589258086 1834382 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589261445 I completely agree money can't by happiness there's many things you could do without spending money.]]> 2021-06-07 07:04:44 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589261445 1834382 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589267499 that is so upsetting but I could think why many reasons there was many divorces.]]> 2021-06-07 07:07:53 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1589267499 1809151 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591145728 I already knew this and it is expected because most young people who marry early in life just do it without thinking about long term or maybe they do but it just doesn't end up working out .]]> 2021-06-07 21:30:05 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591145728 1809151 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591148541 I agree, it is very important to focus on your partners needs and vise versa. it is very important to communicate and show they your love towards them by their love language. ]]> 2021-06-07 21:32:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591148541 1809151 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591151040 I will definitely be waiting more than a year to get married and do things that married couples do such as go on vacation where we would be with each other all the time for several days and see how it is. It's also very important to keep that spark alive forever because that's one of the reasons why one person falls out of love. ]]> 2021-06-07 21:34:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/3oz9ofajfptuif4e/wish/1591151040