What's Your Message? by Lauren Strickland https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u Are you a marigold or a walnut tree? en-us 2018-10-19 15:13:34 UTC 2018-11-26 19:31:55 UTC hello@padlet.com Marigold https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/295982684 I think we all strive to be marigolds. Do marigolds transition into walnut trees on a bad day? I hope that I can stay a marigold by focusing on the positives. Just like in chapter 10 (Everyone needs a Cheerleader), it is so much more rewarding to focus on the +2 than the -18.]]> 2018-10-23 14:42:30 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/295982684 You have to seek out positive mentorship in order to emulate it. The alternative always ends in poor results and negativity. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/295983412 2018-10-23 14:43:44 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/295983412 Walnut trees https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296032185 Stay away. ]]> 2018-10-23 15:55:47 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296032185 SHOW APPRECIATION https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296032263 Tell them by dropping them a note in their box or just telling them in he hallway you are appreciative.]]> 2018-10-23 15:55:53 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296032263 Walk Away or Turn it https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296033009 Walk away or try to turn it into a positive.]]> 2018-10-23 15:56:59 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296033009 Marigold https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296033670 Praise them. ]]> 2018-10-23 15:58:00 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296033670 negativity https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296063146 Avoid it and if there is no possible way to avoid it....don't fall into it.]]> 2018-10-23 16:45:06 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296063146 Appreciate https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296063643 Thank them for their positiveness and their glass half full attitude.]]> 2018-10-23 16:45:51 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296063643 Appreciation https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296546178 I really like to tell people when they do something I like or see as a positive. A quick comment or sometimes even a note is always a great way to let someone know you appreciate their positive outlook. ]]> 2018-10-24 16:26:37 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296546178 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296546872 I really try to keep myself insulated from negativity. It is easy to get sucked in, so I try to keep my distance and stay in my own lane.]]> 2018-10-24 16:27:39 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296546872 amandabjohnson https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296592895 It's as simple as leaving them a note on their desk or in their box. Better yet, let the, know in person! A compliment can make someone's day.]]> 2018-10-24 17:39:11 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296592895 amandabjohnson https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296593488 Although it's difficult, avoid these type of people the best you can. If it's unavoidable, don't feed into it and let it "go in one ear and out the other".]]> 2018-10-24 17:40:05 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296593488 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296635031 I send them a text message letting them know how great it is to have friends that listen and respond to questions!!! I try to make time to get together and let them know how much I appreciate them!]]> 2018-10-24 18:44:20 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296635031 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296635856 This is so hard!!! I try to tell people my motto, "If you can't work to fix it don't complain about it." I try to be as fair, nice, and honest as I can and spend as little time with negative people as possible. I also like to remind people that the grass isn't greener on the other side and to make the most of the situation you are in.]]> 2018-10-24 18:45:52 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296635856 lesliesmith2 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296666617 Most of the time I remove myself from the situation. If I am caught in a situation where I can not leave, I try to find the underlying problem and nip it in the bud. Using positive comments usually stops the negativity.]]> 2018-10-24 19:52:00 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296666617 Thankful margaritasimonetti https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296705645 Be thankful for those positive people in your lives. Thank them personally for always being a cheerleader. Let them know how much their positivity means and how it impacts others. ]]> 2018-10-24 22:13:40 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/296705645 I try to avoid being around negative people and if a situation turns negative, I usually walk way. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297234601 2018-10-26 01:21:25 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297234601 Thank you! https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297482613 Be thankful for those who celebrate you or send you a positive message. You could simple place a thank you note in their mailbox that you are thankful for them]]> 2018-10-26 16:43:27 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297482613 Avoid the Walnut Tree https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483340 Surround yourself with people that celebrate others successes. 

]]> 2018-10-26 16:45:05 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483340 Celebrate Them! https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483763 I am so thankful for all the marigolds in my life! I think it is important to celebrate them as well. ALL people need recognition and praise. ]]> 2018-10-26 16:45:55 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483763 I make sure to thank them for their positivity. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483947 2018-10-26 16:46:21 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297483947 Give Credit Where Credit is Due erinmcgowen https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484292 I try to give credit where credit is due. I do this by when I am complicated and it was not my idea I always give credit and a shout out to the person who's idea it was. I also love to celebrate the little and big small moments in a person's professional and personal life. ]]> 2018-10-26 16:47:00 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484292 Sometimes I need to just walk away or redirect the conversation by having them see the positive side. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484437 2018-10-26 16:47:17 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484437 Celebrate https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484742 You can send them a positive note and complement them on good and bad days! Build them up too!]]> 2018-10-26 16:47:57 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297484742 Marigold erinmcgowen https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297485656 I try to be a Marigold by pointing out the positive in a person's complain. ]]> 2018-10-26 16:49:42 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297485656 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297486675 Try to look for the positive and turn the negativity into a positive.]]> 2018-10-26 16:51:54 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297486675 I would clearly like to view myself as a marigold, but I definitely have some walnut tree days. I am lucky to have a team teacher who is always a marigold. She is positive and uplifting and her smiles are contagious. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297487221 2018-10-26 16:52:58 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297487221 I tend to be a walnut tree, because marigolds have so much energy, and too much energy sometimes makes me nervous. However, I must say that I am incredibly appreciative for the many, many marigolds that surround me. They help me to stay focused on the positive things, and support me during my walnut tree days. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297488438 2018-10-26 16:55:22 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297488438 Thank you notes https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297490697 I like to send thank you notes and messages thanking them for being positive and uplifting. ]]> 2018-10-26 16:59:42 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297490697 Positive People https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297491824 Surround yourself with people that are positive. If I am stuck in a conversation, I try to change the subject to something more positive. ]]> 2018-10-26 17:02:11 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297491824 A quick note reminding them that you appreciate their positivity. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297507412 2018-10-26 17:31:39 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297507412 Turn the other direction https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297507705 2018-10-26 17:32:12 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297507705 I always try to compliment people on what they are doing positive! There are so many awesome people at my work that do so many things they don't have to do and go the extra mile. I try and let them know it is noticed. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297511750

]]> 2018-10-26 17:40:05 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297511750 I usually pretend like I am busy and move on. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297512155

]]> 2018-10-26 17:40:51 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297512155 Tell them how much I appreciate them and how much their encouragement means to me. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297647510 2018-10-27 13:41:57 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297647510 Don't contribute to negative conversation. Walk away if necessary or add a positive spin to the situation. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297648261 2018-10-27 13:50:08 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297648261 Celebrate Marigolds https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297698562 I tell people when they are a marigold to me.

]]> 2018-10-27 23:48:28 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297698562 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297698638 I try to turn negativity into positivity


]]> 2018-10-27 23:49:35 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297698638 Walnutgold https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297786456 Pretty sure we’re all a mix. Your identity cycles. It’s hard when you try to pull someone out of a walnut time, but you’re pushed away. I’m desperate to have my friend back...]]> 2018-10-28 18:34:18 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297786456 Marigolds https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297803804 It’s easy to be a marigold and even easier to get caught into the web of a walnut tree!  I feel it's important to praise everyone. Yes we all make mistakes but we also all have successes.  We should help one another focus on the good and not the bad.  Kind words,  quick notes left on a desk or even a smile can go a long way.]]> 2018-10-28 20:43:02 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297803804 Walnut trees https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297804642 When confronted by a Walnut tree! Hum well you can attempt to spread some sunshine on their cloudy attitude.  However, that can cause you to get tangled into a web.  Sometimes you just need to walk away and look for a marigold to keep you on track!]]> 2018-10-28 20:50:20 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297804642 Send them a note thanking them specifically for how they have helped you and/or made a difference in your life. kelleystanley https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297827831 2018-10-28 23:53:33 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297827831 It is best to surround yourself with positive people. When someone is being negative it is best to not add or comment to what the person is being negative about. There are always going to be negative people but you have to know when to walk away and spend more time with the marigolds. kelleystanley https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297828054 2018-10-28 23:55:27 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/297828054 Marigolds anitaaiken https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298274653 Thank them for being positive and for lifting your mood when you are feeling down. ]]> 2018-10-29 21:12:47 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298274653 Negativity anitaaiken https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298274827 I try to avoid people who are negative. It is depressing. I do think we all can have a bad day. Some days we just need to admit it and go back to the car! ]]> 2018-10-29 21:13:36 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298274827 Thank them~ https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298319686 Thank those who you have identified as a Marigold. I think we all want to be a Marigold but have those days we aren't. Find those who work extra hard to always be positive and thank them!]]> 2018-10-30 01:10:46 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298319686 Avoid https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298320027 Try to avoid the negative talk. It can be hard especially if you are having a bad day, but try to stay away from negative talk.]]> 2018-10-30 01:12:26 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298320027 Celebration https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298788974 I love to celebrate my team members in PLC's.

]]> 2018-10-30 23:50:44 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298788974 Ignore https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298789044 Unfortunately, there are a lot more walnuts than there are marigolds. While its tempting to join in on vent sessions, I just listen and don't engage back in negative conversation.

]]> 2018-10-30 23:51:07 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298789044 I try to thank them as often as I can. I often don't thank them enough but I am very grateful for the times they are there to pick me up or help put a positive spin on things and help me laugh paulaparker https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298814185 2018-10-31 01:58:30 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298814185 paulaparker https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298814493 I try to listen and process what is being said. Then I decide if it is something that I really need to hold onto or if I can let it go!]]> 2018-10-31 02:00:23 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/298814493 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299143450 I always make sure to thank them and show my appreciation in some way, shape, or form. It can make the biggest difference in someones day and they need to know how it had an impact on someone. ]]> 2018-10-31 18:51:38 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299143450 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299143474 One of the best ways to recognize someone that sends a positive message is to either thank them for what they did or said, or by leaving them a little note. You could also put a special little treat in their box just as a surprise to make their day better. The important part is to make sure to always pay that positivity forward and let it spread.]]> 2018-10-31 18:51:41 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299143474 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299144687 I try to surround myself with people who uplift and support me. I can sometimes be negative without even realizing it so it helps to recognize that about yourself and make sure you have marigolds as your mentors/friends. 

]]> 2018-10-31 18:54:24 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299144687 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299144899 No matter if it's negative, I will always have an ear that will listen. I think that everyone needs to have someone that they can vent to. However, so that I don't get sucked into it, I just remind myself that I am there to be supportive and that I don't have to carry negative emotions around with me because of it. ]]> 2018-10-31 18:54:54 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299144899 Be a Cheerleader karenwood https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299583289 Everyone needs a cheerleader!
We need to always support and build each other up!]]> 2018-11-01 20:24:43 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299583289 Be a Cheerleader karenwood https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299585011 I try very hard to overlook negative attitudes.  I try to focus on the positive.  I try also to see where the problem is with the attitude to offer help.
Be a Cheerleader!]]> 2018-11-01 20:26:59 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299585011 Make sure they know they are special and very much appreciated. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299668977 2018-11-02 04:38:19 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299668977 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299669080

i just try to avoid all the negativity. It can be really hard some days but we always need to have that positive outlook..

]]> 2018-11-02 04:39:22 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299669080 Always trying to be a Marigold.. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299881070 everyone needs marigold in their lives....I want my students to blossom and grow stronger everyday!]]> 2018-11-02 16:34:28 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299881070 If someone is saying something negative about someone I usually say something positive about that person and the complainer usually stops. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299961634 2018-11-02 19:17:41 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/299961634 I am a Marigold(most of the time-nobody's perfect) https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/300240682 I try my very best to always see the good in everyone and every situation. Some days, I do not always succeed, but I do learn from my mistakes. ]]> 2018-11-04 20:18:57 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/300240682 Tell them that they are doing that and how grateful you are to share in their positivity. https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/300241087 2018-11-04 20:21:33 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/300241087 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/305415184 Stay away from negativity and find positive people to surround you! 

]]> 2018-11-16 19:07:30 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/305415184 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/305415478 Praise them and show thanks! ]]> 2018-11-16 19:08:07 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/305415478 Tell them that you appreciate their enthusiasm and positive attitude. Let them know that you enjoy their positive attitude and notice how positive they are! joyecallaghan https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307341480 2018-11-23 22:11:31 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307341480 I try to point out the positive in situations and make positive comments about situations joyecallaghan https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307341676 2018-11-23 22:14:07 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307341676 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307981876 Letting people know how much you appreciate their positive message and influence they have on others and our school. ]]> 2018-11-26 19:30:11 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307981876 https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307982405 When someone is being a walnut tree and spreading negative messages, counter with a positive comment; don't get sucked into responding in a negative manner.]]> 2018-11-26 19:31:05 UTC https://padlet.com/laurenstrickland/3mzcutot1i2u/wish/307982405