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  • Telling you that you never do anything right.
  •  Showing extreme jealousy of your friends or time spent away from them.
  • Preventing or discouraging you from spending time with friends, family members, or peers.
  • Insulting, demeaning, or shaming you, especially in front of other people
  • Preventing you from making your own decisions, including about working or attending school.
  • Controlling finances in the household without discussion, including taking your money or refusing to provide money for necessary expenses.
  • Pressuring you to have sex or perform sexual acts you’re not comfortable with.
  • Pressuring you to use drugs or alcohol.
  • Intimidating you through threatening looks or actions.
  • Insulting your parenting or threatening to harm or take away your children or pets.
  • Intimidating you with weapons like guns, knives, bats, or mace.
  • Destroying your belongings or your home. 
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  • Not judging their decisions and refusing to criticize them or guilt them over a choice they make.
  • Remembering that you cannot “rescue them,” and that decisions about their lives are up to them to make.
  • Not speaking poorly of the abusive partner.
  • Helping them create a safety plan.
  • Continuing to be supportive of them if they do end the relationship and are understandably lonely, upset, or return to their abusive partner.
  • Offering to go with them to any service provider or legal setting for moral support.

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  • Help them by storing important documents or a “to-go bag” in case of an emergency situation.
  • Encourage them to participate in activities outside of their relationship with friends and family, and be there to support them in such a capacity
  • Encourage them to talk to people who can provide further help and guidance, like The Hotline or their teen and young adult project love is respect.
  • If they give you permission, help document instances of domestic violence in their life, including pictures of injuries, exact transcripts of interactions, and notes on a calendar of dates that incidents of abuse occur.
  • Don’t post information about them on social media that could be used to identify them or where they spend time.
  • Help them learn about their formal legal rights through resources like Women’s Law, which provides information on domestic violence laws and procedures.
  • With their permission, ensure that others in the buildings where the survivor lives and works are aware of the situation, including what to do (and what not to do) during a moment of crisis or confrontation with an abusive partner.

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  • Low self-esteem
  • Low income
  • Low academic achievement/low verbal IQ
  • Young age
  • Aggressive or delinquent behavior as a youth
  • Heavy alcohol and drug use
  • Depression and suicide attempts
  • Anger and hostility
  • Lack of nonviolent social problem-solving skills
  • Antisocial personality traits and conduct problems
  • Poor behavioral control/impulsiveness
  • Traits associated with borderline personality disorder
  • History of being physically abusive
  • Having few friends and being isolated from other people
  • Unemployment
  • Emotional dependence and insecurity
  • Belief in strict gender roles (e.g., male dominance and aggression in relationships)
  • Desire for power and control in relationships
  • Hostility towards women
  • Attitudes accepting or justifying IPV
  • Being a victim of physical or psychological abuse (consistently one of the strongest predictors of perpetration)
  • Unplanned pregnancy

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  • Marital conflict–fights, tension, and other struggles
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  • Marital instability–divorces or separations
  • Dominance and control of the relationship by one partner over the other
  • Economic stress
  • Unhealthy family relationships and interactions
  • Association with antisocial and aggressive peers
  • Parents with less than a high-school education
  • Having few friends and being isolated from other people
  • Witnessing IPV between parents as a child
  • History of experiencing poor parenting as a child
  • History of experiencing physical discipline as a child

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  • Poverty and associated factors (for example, overcrowding, high unemployment rates)
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  • Poor neighborhood support and cohesion
  • Weak community sanctions against IPV (for example, unwillingness of neighbors to intervene in situations where they witness violence)
  • High density of places that sell alcohol

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  • Traditional gender norms and gender inequality (for example, the idea women should stay at home, not enter the workforce, and be submissive; men should support the family and make the decisions)
  • Cultural norms that support aggression toward others
  • Societal income inequality
  • Weak health, educational, economic, and social policies/laws

    • ]]>     2021-10-01 22:25:12 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785194260     lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785196059 Domestic abuse, also called "domestic violence" or "intimate partner violence", can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.

    Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure, or wound someone. 

    Domestic abuse can occur within a range of relationships including couples who are married, living together or dating. ]]>     2021-10-01 22:27:21 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785196059     Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, regardless of age, race, gender, sexual orientation, faith or class lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785196439 2021-10-01 22:27:53 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785196439 Do you... lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785197318
  • Sometimes feel scared of how your partner may behave?
  • Constantly make excuses to other people for your partner’s behaviour?
  • Believe that you can help your partner change if only you changed something about yourself?
  • Try not to do anything that would cause conflict or make your partner angry?
  • Always do what your partner wants you to do instead of what you want?
  • Stay with your partner because you are afraid of what your partner would do if you broke up?

    • ]]>     2021-10-01 22:29:00 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785197318     Emotional Abuse lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785210786 includes undermining a person's sense of self-worth through constant criticism; belittling one's abilities; name-calling or other verbal abuse; damaging a partner's relationship with the children; or not letting a partner see friends and family. You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:

    • Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
    • Does not trust you and acts in a jealous or possessive manner.
    • Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
    • Monitors where you go, whom you call and with whom you spend your time.
    • Does not want you to work.
    • Controls finances or refuses to share money.
    • Punishes you by withholding affection.
    • Expects you to ask permission.
    • Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
    • Humiliates you in any way.
    ]]>     2021-10-01 22:45:55 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785210786     Psychological Abuse lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785211523 involves causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner or children; destruction of pets and property; “mind games”; or forcing isolation from friends, family, school and/or work.]]> 2021-10-01 22:46:47 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785211523 Financial or Economic Abuse lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785211933 involves making or attempting to make a person financially dependent by maintaining total control over financial resources, withholding access to money, and/or forbidding attendance at school or employment.]]> 2021-10-01 22:47:19 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785211933 Physical Abuse lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212492 involves hurting or trying to hurt a partner by hitting, kicking, burning, grabbing, pinching, shoving, slapping, hair-pulling, biting, denying medical care or forcing alcohol and/or drug use, or using other physical force. You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner:

    • Damages property when angry (throws objects, punches walls, kicks doors, etc.).
    • Pushes, slaps, bites, kicks or chokes you.
    • Abandons you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
    • Scares you by driving recklessly.
    • Uses a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
    • Forces you to leave your home.
    • Traps you in your home or keeps you from leaving.
    • Prevents you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
    • Hurts your children.
    • Uses physical force in sexual situations.
    ]]>     2021-10-01 22:48:00 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212492     Sexual Abuse lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212685 involves forcing a partner to take part in a sex act when the partner does not consent. You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:

    • Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside relationships.
    • Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
    • Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
    • Has ever forced or manipulated you into having sex or performing sexual acts.
    • Holds you down during sex.
    • Demands sex when you are sick, tired or after beating you.
    • Hurts you with weapons or objects during sex.
    • Involves other people in sexual activities with you.
    • Ignores your feelings regarding sex.
    ]]>     2021-10-01 22:48:16 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212685     Stalking lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212991 involves any pattern of behavior that serves no legitimate purpose and is intended to harass, annoy, or terrorize the victim. Typical stalking activities include repeated telephone calls, unwelcome letters or gifts by mail, surveillance at work, home and other places that the victim is known to frequent. Stalking usually escalates.]]> 2021-10-01 22:48:38 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785212991 The Three C's in a Healthy Relationship lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785221824 - Communicate
    - Compromise 
    - Commit ]]>     2021-10-01 22:59:32 UTC https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785221824     5 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship lperino https://padlet.com/bmartinez2171/3iu22fhn962o5v6/wish/1785224464 https://www.phillyvoice.com/five-signs-unhealthy-relationship-059991/

    - Dishonesty 
    - Controlling behavior 
    - Avoidance 
    - Insecurity
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    YOU ARE ENOUGH
    YOU MATTER
    YOU ARE IMPORTANT

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