Year 11 Blue House by Ms Kelly https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi PSHE- a shared safe space to discuss our ideas en-us 2018-08-21 02:33:42 UTC 2019-03-08 11:45:52 UTC hello@padlet.com Okay so like life is gonna be harder than being heterosexual but it will get better. I know you feel shy and don't know what to do but its gonna be fine. I mean if you wanna marry eventually, its gonna be hard depending on where you live but like its completely legal in US, Canada and a lot more other countries. But if you want to have a kid and do it by adopting, that might be a little tricky cause its only 26 countries that made it legal so far. But like chillll. This world is changing and its getting better so it might not even be the same in 20 years from now. And if you worried about sexual activities don't be cause you have as many options as heterosexual couples. Buttt you gotta worry about the health. Yah you cant get pregnant but you sure can get STD's so just clean yourself up after and before;) better to be safe than sorry. Hope this helped, im happy that you were able to tell me about this and it doesnt change the way i look at you or feel about you so dont worry. Text me abt anything. BAIIIII https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197732 2019-03-08 07:35:26 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197732 Hey, Is okay to feel confuessd, becasue everyone who is been to this stage they all had experince the same thing as you, you just have to keep going and keep fighting. It's going to be hard, really hard, espically when you start thinking about your future, but that's fine you know? cuz, in this century we live in they are way better than before and I'm pretty sure some poeple they have an open mind, they will definitely understand your sitiuation. Little advice for you about the sexual stuff, there are lots of different ways for people to have sex. People in same-sex relationships have as many options as people in opposite-sex relationships! For example, two women might choose to use a vibrator or other sex toy when they have sex, the most important thing is that the two people give their consent to have sex with each other and that they are happy to do what the other person wants to do. But remmebr one thing SAFETY first. Lastly for the marrige, is actually depend on where do you live in.... BYEEEE, XX https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197812 2019-03-08 07:35:54 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197812 https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197995 If I actually had to give advice id just say:
Don't worry man. It's not like im gonna stop being friends with you.  I'm sure you're gonna find many lesbians just like you later in life when you meet more people. Just remember that you're not the only one. In the US and Canada and many more European countries have become tolerant to gay marriage and if things go wrong where we live right now, you can just move to the 10+ countries that do accept it. All that matters is that you are in a loving, wholesome relationship with someone you really want to be with. And also, parenthood shouldn't really be a problem since you can choose to adopt pets and children that you want which in my opinion is even better. Also just make sure to use protection heheheheh

Well, I hope this makes you feel better. Text me if you have more issues.... see you tomorrow]]> 2019-03-08 07:36:58 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339197995 https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339198820 Hi don't stress about it so much. It is actually great being a lesbian. Being lesbian doesn't mean that you cannot have family. There are a lot of lesbian communities but it is going to be hard for you to find one. And also you have to bare in mind that not all people are going to understand you and you have to be careful. There are a lot of countries in this world who are ok with LGBTQAI+ people. No matter what you are going to have children and it doesn't matter that you're lesbian you're children are going to groe the same way as heterosexual people's children do. Don't stress about it and now that I'm always there for you. 

]]> 2019-03-08 07:41:11 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339198820 Hey Tamsin, You’re a really cool person and liking other girls doesn’t change that. I wish I could explain everything to you in this message, but there’s so much I don’t know yet as well. However, I do know that the online LGBTQAI+ community is the perfect place for people who are confused about their sexuality or afraid to come out. https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339199022
I'd recommend you to stick with the people who accept you for who you are, but please, please, please cut the toxic people out from your life.  If someone makes you uncomfortable or afraid, leave. It's not you, it's them.

Gay marriage is legal in a whole lot of countries today, so if you find a fellow lesbian you want to spend your life with- You're in luck!

Hopefully, more countries will allow gay couples to adopt, but until then, raising pets could potentially be a good preparation for parenthood.]]> 2019-03-08 07:42:22 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339199022 being lesbian is not bad. I wish you don't get stress about it. 21bsuah https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339199526 2019-03-08 07:44:43 UTC https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339199526 https://padlet.com/grace_kelly1/3hzpqjz7w2qi/wish/339199687
Hey,

I’ve receive your message and I  just want to tell you that don’t worry if you’re lesbian. I’m not going to end our friendship just because you like girls and I like boys. It’s 2019 now, we’re living in an open community, I think it’s even cool to be unique and live your life just the way you are. But life can be harder at the beginning. I understand you may feel shy when you have to talk to your parents or confess to your friends. I just want to let you know that there are much more people out there who's the same as you, will never be alone. People born to be different, we all can't have the same taste. Don't be afraid to be yourself, just live your life to the fullest. You can still change later if you bored, who knows 10 years later I can become a lesbian too hahah.


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