Asking for Help by Ms. Shim https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14 Why could it be difficult for us to ask for help? en-us 2025-01-14 18:02:06 UTC 2025-06-09 22:33:52 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f4ac.png shimw https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290901038 People might not ask for help because they are afraid of looking or sounding dumb.


]]> 2025-01-14 18:07:47 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290901038 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988418 People may feel uncomfortable asking for help because they may be shy or anxious and they are afraid of rejection.

]]> 2025-01-14 19:13:18 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988418 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988488 They may not know how to help you.

]]> 2025-01-14 19:13:22 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988488 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988668 people might feel like their a burden


]]> 2025-01-14 19:13:34 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988668 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988865 People might not ask for help for fear of the questions such as "you couldn't figure this out yourself?" "why can't you even do this simple task?" "isn't it obvious?" or other rude interjections etc from parents.

]]> 2025-01-14 19:13:44 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290988865 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989434 People might feel uncomfortable to ask for help because they might feel judged

]]> 2025-01-14 19:14:08 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989434 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989440 people may feel like they will be judged. they might even think that their question is self explanatory and just have to solve it themselves.

]]> 2025-01-14 19:14:09 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989440 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989586 People might not be comfortable with asking for help because they don't want to feel like a bother or afraid to be judged by asking for help or the situation

]]> 2025-01-14 19:14:18 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290989586 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290990536 They may feel embarrassed or feel like its not "acceptable" to ask another for help.


]]> 2025-01-14 19:15:00 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290990536 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290991142 People may feel like everyone has their own problems and don't want to add on to other people's issues

]]> 2025-01-14 19:15:33 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290991142 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290991739 They might be afraid of being judged for not knowing something or they might feel like they're bothering

]]> 2025-01-14 19:16:04 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3290991739 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291122827 They might not want to be judged. Maybe they think they look stupid for not knowing something or seeking help on a certain issue.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:21:09 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291122827 shimw https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123654 Being worried that they might be made fun of or that they should be “strong” enough to deal with it on their own.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:22:16 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123654 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123664 They might think they won’t care to help or you think there judging you

]]> 2025-01-14 21:22:17 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123664 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123833 Because they're having trouble thinking about something, or about to feel rejected.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:22:30 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291123833 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124054 People might feel that the person they’re asking for help might think of them as a dumb person, which might “ruin” their reputation in the eyes of that person.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:22:46 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124054 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124153 They might think their question is silly and fear that they may get judged by others. Also, they might worry that people could make fun of them.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:22:52 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124153 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124383 People sometimes feel uncomfortable because growing up, asking for help has been seen as negative.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:23:06 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124383 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124430 Or having negative responses

]]> 2025-01-14 21:23:11 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124430 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124862 People might be worried that others will think the question is dumb or that it makes them look stupid

]]> 2025-01-14 21:23:55 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124862 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124914 They might be afraid of people judging and making fun of them

]]> 2025-01-14 21:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291124914 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291125048 The person you ask may not give the best advice

]]> 2025-01-14 21:24:09 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291125048 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291125454 people might feel:

judged

stupid

not cared for

confutation

for asking a question

]]> 2025-01-14 21:24:31 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291125454 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126287 Some people may also feel worried because they are sometimes lonely or someone made an insult.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:25:20 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126287 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126294 they might think you're not serious or they

think they will judge you

]]> 2025-01-14 21:25:22 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126294 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126829 When someone is feeling lonely, you come over to cheer them up.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:26:04 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291126829 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291128587 It will help you improve and make more friends.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:28:31 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291128587 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291130032 Or cheer yourself up with some entertainment.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:30:28 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291130032 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291130277 Or make yourself intelligent by looking and guessing at quizzes on TV.

]]> 2025-01-14 21:30:47 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291130277 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291135309 Meditate

deep breathing

positive thinking

]]> 2025-01-14 21:37:15 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291135309 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291154863 People can be uncomfortable or nervous

]]> 2025-01-14 22:06:36 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291154863 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291155695 They might think that the opposite person won't care, having a fear of rejection. They might also think that the person would be annoyed.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:07:37 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291155695 srigorj https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291156496 The person needing help might think asking for help might change the way someone sees them.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:08:57 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291156496 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291156736 Maybe you may feel like a burden for putting your issue onto someone else; They might also believe that the other person may not be able to help.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:09:17 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291156736 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291157591 people may feel this way because they feel nervous to ask the other person, and they may feel afraid what others would think.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:10:31 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291157591 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291158817 For some people, asking for help can hurt their pride and make them feel vulnerable and weak.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:12:24 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291158817 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291159114 People might feel uncomfortable when asking for help as they might worry about what the other person is going to say. They might think the other person would comment and judge that question.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:12:54 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291159114 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291159168 asking for help could make someone uncomfortable because they don't want to bother others, or they can also be too shy.

]]> 2025-01-14 22:12:58 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291159168 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291164137 they dont want to bother people

]]> 2025-01-14 22:20:33 UTC https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291164137 https://padlet.com/BSDDigitalDiscovery/2y3h5xhzr4phku14/wish/3291165845 It matters who you ask for support. You need to count on people who you trust and people who can actually help you. Asking someone who you don't know isn't the best option as that person might not be interested and would carry on with his/her life.

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