Wed-Sep24 SWH Practical #2 Wānanga -Weaving tūpuna parenting into these pēpi kōrero? by Tania Matautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr Thinking about these different topics that could come up with whānau of pēpi, how could you weave tūpuna parenting mātauranga to support these issues? en-us 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC 2025-02-18 21:37:52 UTC hello@padlet.com Connect taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492457 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492457 Tūpuna tāne were involved and loving parents and whānau taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492459 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492459 Our tūpuna responded to our pepi crying - those cries are their voice. They would've done what was needed to help pepi stop crying, such as feeding on demand. taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492461 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492461 For our tūpuna, the kāinga would support māmā and the whānau of pepi in many ways. Pēpi and tamariki were shared responsibility of the kāinga taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492462 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492462 Our tūpuna sang waiata during labour to help māmā taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492463 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492463 Our tūpuna had tikanga - rules - for all parts of life. As a whānau, you can define tikanga for your own whare to help make whānau life easier. taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492464 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492464 Our tūpuna believed we are born tapu and born with mana, and that anger or violence against us would violate that tapu and anger the atua. taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492465 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492465 Te tangi tō te tamaiti, he whakamā tō te pakeke - The child of the child is the shame of the adult. taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492466 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492466 Our tūpuna believed pēpi were born tapu, sacred and protected by the atua, and that they hold that tapu for their whole lives. That means everyone in the whānau is tapu and needs to be protected from harm. taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492467 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492467 The kāinga was often made up of extended whānau who all supported each other taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492468 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492468 Waiata oriori were sung to pēpi and tamariki at many occasions, but also to help them sleep taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492469 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492469 Pēpi were cared for by the wider whānau as well as māmā, making sure she and pāpā would get a break from their parenting duties taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492470 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492470 Our tūpuna would bury the whenua (placenta) and pito (cord stump) after birth, returning it to the whenua (land). taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492471 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492471 Te pīkau were used to keep pepi close and happy with their māmā or pāpā, whether to spend time or even have a moe (sleep). taniamatautia https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492472 2025-02-18 08:49:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3332492472 birth story https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3333322652 ante natal, haputanaga journey and how it was for them. Big part of whanaungatanga


Finding common ground

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]]> 2025-02-18 21:20:14 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3333325574 Whangai Tamariki https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/29xmafpn8i2axubr/wish/3333326782 Same age as eldest daughter. The care arrangement is undecided in terms of length of time. She has been immersed into the whanau, treated no differently, Acknowledging her Mana. The kainga raising Tamariki

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