When do you remember first hearing the phrase “be a man” or “act like a lady?” How did this affect you? by Laura Harrington https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa en-us 2018-05-31 14:14:32 UTC 2022-04-09 04:09:56 UTC hello@padlet.com SomeONE I want to learn more about https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135064993 Joe Ehrmann]]> 2022-04-07 17:48:39 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135064993 I think i have never hear that in person, i have heard it in movies or shows for sure and i think is a way to extremely stereotype everything https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135066627 2022-04-07 17:49:40 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135066627 Something I want to know more about https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135067347 I would like to know how much guys truly talk about s*x with each other

]]> 2022-04-07 17:50:06 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135067347 Agree: Men are taught that the only way to be a real man is to be athletic, buff, rich, etc. Disagree: Gender is a biological thing Thing to learn more amount: how the brain is affected by gender Person to learn more about: Ashinia Branch https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068015 2022-04-07 17:50:31 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068015 agree with- nortonli22 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068317 we/young children bully and harass others for something that we fear seeing in ourselves (ect. being gay and therefor using slurs against other men.)]]> 2022-04-07 17:50:42 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068317 Men should not feel trapped with their emotions. Society is never happy "men don't cry" "women cry too much" and this creates toxic standards https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068407 2022-04-07 17:50:46 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135068407 Something I agree with https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135070511 - sports coaches can do a lot of good but a lot of bad for men and women
- school is a training ground for masculinity
- men are driven by pressures from others to succeed]]> 2022-04-07 17:52:06 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135070511 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135070743 Men are expected to be a certain way or traditional and whenever they break that society code they get criticized. Society expects all men to act to act and be standard or normal instead of themselves.]]> 2022-04-07 17:52:14 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135070743 I want to know more about something- nortonli22 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135071004 How are children as young as 13 getting their hands on drugs and alc? Where are the parents/guardians who are supposed to protect their kids and who is supplying them which addictive substances?]]> 2022-04-07 17:52:24 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135071004 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072502 I wish there wasn’t as much of a stigma around men going to therapy or showing their emotions because the world would be a much healthier place if they weren’t taught to keep everything to themselves. ]]> 2022-04-07 17:53:23 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072502 All of my "Agree with" https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072527 -People expect boys to fit into all "masculine" things
-Gender is a social construct
-Brains are malleable
-People encourage boys not to cry (I experienced that)
-Kids are sensitive
-A good parent is an inquisitive & allows their kid to emote
-Queer guys get singled out usually
-Boys are more racist in their actions
-Boys favor friends & share secrets with said friends]]> 2022-04-07 17:53:24 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072527 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072724 When hearing the phrase “be a man”, as a woman it doesn’t effect me as much hearing it but from a male standpoint I feel they are always pressured to act as this tough, non-emotional man that society views them as but most men don’t feel like they can open up as something more than just the person they are viewed by as society. The phrase “act like a lady” I can relate to from being a girl in the world of 2022. In today’s society females are advertised as the object for a male, and weak without someone by there side. For me being a lady means being strong and independent by myself and standing up for my position and place in the world today. ]]> 2022-04-07 17:53:32 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135072724 Someone I want to know more about https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135074748 survivors of sexual assault who spoke about what happened ad how they were perceived because of it- either man or woman but since women are commonly talked about when the topic of sexual assault, how was a man perceived?]]> 2022-04-07 17:54:42 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135074748 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135074886 I recall hearing the phrase "act like a lady" for the first time in first grade. I wanted to play knockout with the boys instead of sitting on the side with all the girls. And the boys don't want me to play, so they've called me a variety of names and told my teacher about it. 
My male teacher advised me to "act lady like  and just sit out." If anything that made me want to play more out of spite and I ended up winning the game.
]]> 2022-04-07 17:54:48 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135074886 Something I agree with https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135076112 As a man myself, I agree that men talk too little about their feelings with one another. I find myself only talking about my feelings to my female friends. To be honest, before watching this video, I never realized that I did this, and I think that talking to some of my male friends about emotions would give me another perspective.]]> 2022-04-07 17:55:32 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135076112 agree with https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135077552 -society has latched onto anger as the sole acceptable masculine emotion.
-intimacy is feminized and for a man to be considered “a man” he cannot be feminine. 
-Excelling at and having an interest in sports is often assumed to be the default position of being a man in America
]]> 2022-04-07 17:56:23 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135077552 All of my "Disagree With" https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135078362 -That a mommy's boy is soft
-That a soft guy is a bad thing
-That a mother's touch is bad
-Masculinity is bragging over drugs, even projected masculinity
-That we have feminized empathy, this society only changed how guys are taught to show it & when to show certain parts of it
-Modern/New video game characters are not 2-D killing machines, they are now emotional
-P*rnography is okay, but only as long as the viewer realizes that it is not really actual in any sense at all.]]> 2022-04-07 17:56:56 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135078362 disagree w/ https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135078433 -It portrays frat guy behavior as normal male behavior. It is not the norm, it is an exception]]> 2022-04-07 17:56:59 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135078433 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135081352 Men and boys who come from broken homes and hostile environments are used to bolster the narrative that masculinity is indeed synonymous with hatred, violence, rape, murder]]> 2022-04-07 17:58:47 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135081352 https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135085263 I think that men are seen as unemotional or insensitive because of society’s push for men to not show those emotions and conceal them. If they were to express those emotions they’d be seen as weak or feminine. Something I also noticed is that women are stereotyped as too emotional but men have these emotions as well, just told to keep it to themselves. Is it possible that women are stereotyped this way because they actually express themselves? Would men also be said to be too emotional if they weren’t told to conceal how they feel? ]]> 2022-04-07 18:01:21 UTC https://padlet.com/harringtonl4/28fzwnrv4yqa/wish/2135085263