Community Aspirations [CATDC Antiracist Practices Workshop] by Rob Wasielewski https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23 en-us 2023-08-01 22:58:58 UTC 2023-08-10 17:25:46 UTC hello@padlet.com Speak for yourself. Use I-messages. Be aware of your own positionality. robjwas https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2654398381 2023-08-01 23:04:20 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2654398381 Blackwell: "Feeling is the work" https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659597824 2023-08-10 17:07:26 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659597824 Model vulnerability https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598089 2023-08-10 17:07:50 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598089 Be honest and willing to be vulnerable https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598143 2023-08-10 17:07:58 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598143 habits, agreements, actions https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598154 acknowledge that you don’t know what you don’t know]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:00 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598154 accept non-closure https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598229 2023-08-10 17:08:07 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598229 Gets in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598343 Time]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:15 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598343 What gets in the way of honest conversations: fear, shame, ego, silence. https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598375 2023-08-10 17:08:19 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598375 What gets in the way? https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598471 Ego, defensiveness, judgment, disassociation ]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:24 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598471 Discomfort does not mean unsafe. https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598527 2023-08-10 17:08:30 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598527 Gets in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598597 ego (both wanting to talk about yourself and not wanting to feel judged)]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:36 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598597 Things that get in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598720 Fear of being "wrong" or judged, feeling too "busy" with other things]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:46 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598720 the work is messy, mucky, swampy at times and it's okay to feel uncomfortable https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598721 2023-08-10 17:08:47 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598721 Gets in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598723 Not listening]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:47 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598723 What gets in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598787 Defensiveness, misunderstanding]]> 2023-08-10 17:08:56 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598787 "Be curious. Not judgmental." https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598816 2023-08-10 17:08:59 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598816 Blackwell https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598843 Naming somatic "moments" as they happen - can build trust and belonging since chances are someone else is physically feeling similarly]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:03 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598843 engaging, again and again https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598924 2023-08-10 17:09:13 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598924 habits, agreements, actions https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598936 Remember that it takes time to build trust and create a space where people feel comfortable to share vulnerable experiences and admit when they have caused harm.]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:15 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659598936 From Kelsey Blackwell... https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599020 Some way, somehow, be present.]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:24 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599020 Habit: start with an embodiment practice to create space for vulnerability. https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599023 2023-08-10 17:09:24 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599023 Gets in the way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599027 Distractions]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:25 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599027 what gets in the way: not wanting to it wrong, say the wrong thing, cause more harm https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599046 2023-08-10 17:09:27 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599046 What gets in the way: https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599095 Jockeying, need to be right, hierarchies, anticipated backlash to antiracist work, schedule/calendar, turnover, gender roles/expectations]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:34 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599095 Habit: https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599175 Be a scientist, not a judge.]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:43 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599175 Step up and step back davis185 https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599187 Reflect on when it is important to speak up and when to provide space for others.]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:44 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599187 Habits, agreements, actions https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599269 Being present & minimizing distractions]]> 2023-08-10 17:09:54 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599269 habits, agreements, actions https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599373 Listen, think. Don't always "chime in" with your own experience.]]> 2023-08-10 17:10:03 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599373 What gets in the way? https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599383 Looking outwardly for people (maybe at your institution) to blame rather than focusing on those in the room and the present conversation]]> 2023-08-10 17:10:04 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599383 Agreements that might support our work: Recommendations, models, listening, asking questions, drawing from lived experience, acknowledging privilege, being present, self-awareness https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599384 2023-08-10 17:10:04 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599384 Gets in the way: the need to show "proof" that the work is being done https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599415 2023-08-10 17:10:09 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599415 acknowledging and honoring body responses, recognizing their impact and insight https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599417 2023-08-10 17:10:10 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599417 Blackwell https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599478 Intentionality and centering bodies]]> 2023-08-10 17:10:15 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599478 Habits and actions https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599558 Commitment to listening, commitment to relationships]]> 2023-08-10 17:10:21 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599558 What gets in the way of honest conversations: Fear https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599692 2023-08-10 17:10:35 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599692 Gets in the way: perfectionism and anxiety https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599881 2023-08-10 17:10:55 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659599881 gets in way https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659600641 being vulnerable in a work environment ]]> 2023-08-10 17:12:11 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659600641 things to keep in mind https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659601428 emphasis on behavior: external presentation, acting in social situations, but also focus on interiority: beliefs, feelings, etc]]> 2023-08-10 17:13:25 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659601428 Habits: Slow down, reflect https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659601677 2023-08-10 17:13:49 UTC https://padlet.com/robjwas/catdc23/wish/2659601677