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      <title>&quot;The Ugly Duckling&quot; and Social Lessons by </title>
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      <description>The original version of this story raises these questions among others: what should be socially acceptable/allowable to say to OTHER people about their children? For that matter, what should be socially acceptable and unacceptable for you to say to your own children? Where do we draw the line between what&#39;s polite and what&#39;s abusive &amp; rude? Talk out these components with your neighbors, and answer below--THOROUGHLY. Be sure to comment on your colleagues&#39; work for full credit, and to generate ideas for your own post. Please leave your name on the post!</description>
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      <pubDate>2022-02-16 12:51:06 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Victoria S.</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>There are certain things that are socially acceptable to say about people’s kids which would be whether someone’s child is disrespectful towards someone or something. However, it is never socially acceptable to question someone’s parenting tactics because it is not your business how someone decides to bring up their child.&nbsp;we draw the line of what is polite and rude with boundaries. knowledge of what behavior is acceptable and unacceptable.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 13:41:19 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>What is socially acceptable for you to say about other peoples children?</title>
         <author>stephanieh19</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel like the only thing that might be socially acceptable is to comment on their behavior, like if they are more of a trouble maker or if they're calm. But even in that respect, it depends on the way you describe them. Like you can say positive things about their child like "oh they're so well behaved!" as opposed to "he is a bad kid who never listens". Behind the parents back, though, you could get away with being more harsh as opposed to in front of the parents. People would frown upon you commenting on a child's look, for sure, or their intelligence; but for a select few, you could get away with in. I feel as if the general consensus, however, is to steer away from that as it is considered rude and disrespectful. In a way, I agree, I don't want someone to talk about how ugly my child is; but we should be able to comment on their behavior if they are especially disrespectful or misbehaved, but in a way that offers help or sympathy&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 13:42:14 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Jahliq</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050856100</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>The parents children should have some proper manors and that some parents don’t control their children. The reason is children with not manors can develop into a bad behavior can probably cause more issues in the future. The thing that socially acceptable to say to a child would be “be more appropriate to others because you don’t want it to happen to you”. Th dress on is figuring out when a child is rude or polite is based on their attitude towards others. This can show what personality the child shows towards other children.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 13:42:34 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Khan Muhammed Ferdous </title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050862354</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>In society someone shouldn't talk about other people children because it would be impolite. Also a lot of parents use other kids as an example on how they do well and compare them to their own child. This then causes their own child's confidence to drop as they are always being compared to someone that is better then them and causes them to do bad. If it is your own child then you are allowed to say whatever you want about them because well you made them and you decide everything they do. Not saying that is a good thing but that is someone you are allowed to do.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 13:45:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Simon Rafeek</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel that being able to comment on their intelligence and their morals, and most definitely behavior would be socially acceptable. And being able to speak positively of the child for example when they do something good you would praise them. I feel like like talking down to anyone is wrong especially to a child who is still growing. But also being able to criticize their behavior such as if they are bullying another kid or doing something destructive,&nbsp; people would expect you to correct the child in a respectful manner. The way you discipline the child is also important since beating your child is not socially acceptable and shouldn’t be.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 13:47:25 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>In the world we live in today talking about others family's or children it makes them feel that there family is just so perfect in many ways it hides the truth about what's going on within the walls of there home,but that then makes the parents put there kid in this place where they have to be perfect and the second they don't all of the horrible words come out now it's your not good for anything,now being rude some people can't hold in there feeling towards anything because they grow up with a parent that said everything that you take that on to,some people can be polite because they didn't have to deal with a parent that was rude about there comments on anything they did as a child-samyah<br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:08:42 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Amna Saifi</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Nothing is socially acceptable to say to your children or anyones children but for other people kids you don't know how they were raised or what they have been through for you to make a bad comment on them if you have sometime good to say the of course you can say it but nothing else. When it comes to your own child i get that dispalining them is okay but don't go so far to the point where you have mantel scared your own child you are their safe place and it is not right for you to call them ugly or stupid for no reason. Go ahead and make sure your child is safe but being a bit strict but don't mix that up with harsh, mean comments and bullying because those are 2 different things. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:18:40 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Ashley Morelo</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050957737</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>You should not talk about other peoples children since you are not the one raising the child and providing for them. it is the way they grew up and you should not be judgmental about people if you do not know anything about what happens behind the scenes, but talking about your own child is different because YOU are the one raising them and you can say as much as you want about them as long as it benefits them to be a better person in the future. In conclusion no one has the right to talk about your child nor do you to talk about another persons child.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:24:27 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Quincy</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050960146</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>&nbsp;The ugly duckling is a great example . The right thing someone else is allowed to say is nothing but to be respectful to another child and not really based off of looks , they should be happy about a new soul on earth . Including those who parent there kids should even have more respect and comfortability around there own kids that they will take care of day- to- day&nbsp;.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:25:20 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Sarah Dasrath</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050966829</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that complimenting other people's children intelligence and giving small thoughts and opinions that can be used as advice is acceptable to say. However when it comes to your own child your own child you should be able to say anything but in a respectful matter.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:26:39 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Cory</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2050967421</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>In my opinion it’s not acceptable to be judging how other people are going to raise their kids. I think it draws the line when people start to criticize your parenting skills, and make rude comments about your kid. If someone gives constructive criticism, I think it is acceptable because it is just a positive opinion. Even if someone says something bad, should not affect your opinion on the person. Even if others call your son/daughter ugly, let their opinion be</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:26:53 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Ericka</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051046661</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>Parents should never be allowed to compare their children to others wether they’re comparing them to their sibling/s or towards other people’s children. That greatly affects a child’s mind and frankly it’s quite annoying. If I was the one comparing them to other parents I would’ve been beaten up and would be subjected to 4 hour long sermon and years of them bringing it up when I did something they didn’t like. If people wants to be respected then they should respect others. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 14:57:59 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Nicarah</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051071065</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>In my opinion, I believe that parents shouldn't talk bad on other people kids because that's very rude and impolite. Parents tend to compare their own children to others and that's very unfair because then the child confidence would drop. Complimenting other people's children on their knowledge and intelligence can be considered as an acceptable way to speak to someone's child.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:07:31 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Destini</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel that if people want to be respected they have to be respectful. so if your talking to your own child I feel that as the parent you should be able to say what you want, when you want but you have to at least be respectful if you expect the same from your child. when it comes to other peoples kids if your not saying anything nice just keep your opinions/thoughts to yourself. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:08:12 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Suraj Resal</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051079186</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>When speaking on the topic on what is okay to say to children it all depends on how the people commenting and the how the parents are raised. However I do believe that there is a certain line that shouldn't be crossed. I believe it's all about intention, if the person commenting intends to hurt the child then that is not acceptable, but if what is said is not meant to hurt the child but instead be used as constructive criticism I think it's okay. Wording of that criticism matters a lot more than people think, especially when trying to make a comparison between the child and something else.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:10:46 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>People should not say rude things about other people's children. Hearing things about our children would feel terrible so saying things to others would affect them as much. Though there are people who aren't capable to be parents become parents and are unable to provide a good environment for the child to become a good person with good values. People should maybe try to critic them more softly. In a way that won't harm the child emotionally or their self esteem. Even then there are a few things that will be unacceptable to ever say to anyone.&nbsp;<br>T.P.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:16:49 UTC</pubDate>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051103417</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>When speaking to other people about their children, it should be socially acceptable to talk about the way they manage their behaviors and how they interact with others. When it comes to speaking to their own children, parents should be able to speak on any topic that their child needs to improve on as long as they do not cause mental harm. The line between politeness and rudeness is crossed when the person’s intentions are to create harm rather than providing simple critique that leads to improvement.- Karen T.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:19:54 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Cameron</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051103929</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that being able to comment on another child's intelligence, behavior, or their morals should be socially accepted. This isn't coming off as rude in anyway. Instead it can be seen as you giving advice or just even leaving a good remark. People appreciate any form of a compliment or recognition so they know that even the people around them acknowledge their hard work for raising their child.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:20:07 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Alexandria Hall</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051107395</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that in our society w have to be mind full of what we say our who we say it t because even though alot of people say they would love the honest truth it doesn't mean you say the truth in an unpleasant way it can be done a nice manner.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 15:21:29 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Michael Reali</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051513438</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that people are allowed to speak about a child's intelligence and behavior. This is socially acceptable because it can be used as advice for a child and instead of being rude and making fun of a child's appearance, it can help a child's confidence if good things are said to a child. Being polite and complimenting a child on their abilities is socially acceptable, but it draws the line when appearance is involved and can be viewed as disrespectful.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:04:14 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Timothy Espinal </title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051521094</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel like saying what you feel about other people kids and your own kid is acceptable because why don't you wan to believe the truth people rather hear a lie then the truth. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:07:45 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Satara Chin</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051524897</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I would say that people shouldn't comment if they have nothing nice to say but, it would not only be contradicting. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion whether it should be acceptable or not. One can not change the way one think but one can (If they choose/ want to) better themselves based on others' remarks. This goes for any age group.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:09:29 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Christian Brannigan</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that you shouldn't be saying anything about your children to other people that is not polite or appropriate because that is wrong and it can make your son or daughter have a bad relationship if they find out what has been said. A line would be crossed if what was said was totally out of line like saying I hate my son or daughter and I want to get rid of them. Something along those lines should be dealt with by talking to your child and instead of gossiping about it you should go&nbsp; and talk things out instead of saying unpolite things about your own children to someone else. On the other hand it is perfectly fine to say things that is good criticism about your child but nothing that should cross the line.</div>]]></description>
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         <title>Gurpreet Singh</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051528004</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>What should be socially acceptable to say to children is almost everything because there are few things that are socially unacceptable to to say to children. Think of what is socially acceptable and unacceptable to say to a normal person and apply that rule to children. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:10:55 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Satara Chin</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Part 2- In my opinion, everything should be acceptable to say to your own kids. However, I feel that some kids would disagree in the state that their parents always state that they have their best interest at mind, then proceed to not showing that they do. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:17:14 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Sean</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051557466</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that it is always unacceptable to ever insult anybody's child. The only time you should comment on a persons child is when your complementing them or if your giving constructive criticism.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:24:03 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Xavier Hedges </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The Ugly Duckling is a great example. I believe people should only have&nbsp; positive things to say to each other. i grew up with this saying that my grandmother use to say " if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all.&nbsp;Also you should be saying positive things to people nothing more nothing less you never know it could make they day, 9 times out of  10 they gon remember you.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:27:14 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Avery V</title>
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         <link>https://padlet.com/jonkolins/1lopqnguqfbrvu7g/wish/2051572765</link>
         <description><![CDATA[<div>in todays world i am constantly surprised by how impolite and rude people are to others, and the fact that they are completely okay with themselves after what just came out of their mouth. Children should not have to feel lower than their peers or feel like a burden, because children's feelings are more fragile than adults and teens, they simply cannot understand that this world is cruel. And so saying disrespectful and hurtful things to a child on purpose just gives them an intro early on to how society is, especially if you are a parent, because kids look up to their parents and are very influenced by them growing up which can interfere with that child's morals and alot more if that parent is constantly setting a bad example. i think the line is drawn when there is a bad comment on the appearance of the child or if someone is trying to make that child feel stupid or when the child seems negatively effected by what was said. On the other hand if this child needs discipline and there are comments on their behavior, morals or if they are just uninterested in learning then i think it is okay to talk about socially.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:29:29 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Andrew Nanan</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>i believe that people should only say positive things about other peoples kids as well as constructive criticism. Where the line draws is when they start talking about personal problems as a way to insults them. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 18:30:03 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Ariana Durgana</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong><em>I believe that in our society we have to be mindful of what we say. We shouldn't be talking about other people or other people kids. There are ways to speak to someone even your own kids. People may say "I'd rather hear the truth, than the lie" but it's how you say it, such as your tone of voice &amp; actions (body movements). Parents shouldn't be comparing their kids to other kids because it's not right and not everyone has the same mind/thoughts. Everyone thinks differently! Nobody should be talked about! Nobody should be compared to another person!</em></strong></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-16 22:08:17 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Hailey Rose&nbsp;<br>There is nothing socially acceptable to ever say about someone child unless your helping parent the child. If it’s negative in anyway then it is not acceptable even if you are the parent you should never make your child feel bad in any type of way.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-17 14:09:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Laurie</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>In my opinion, I find it unacceptable for anyone to be talking about any child in a disrespectful way. For example, nobody should be talking about how your own kids look or how their child is better than your own child. If you are willing to talk about anyone's child, it should come out good. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-17 18:16:47 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Mohammad Adrees</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>in my opinion i believe that its not acceptable at all to compare children with each other. i say this because i feel like this could start a rivalry which will make both children grow a hate towards each other. in addition i feel like other people have no right to be abusive/rude to your children because they should be worrying about there own children. however it could be nice if the other parent notifies you that theres a change in behavior with your child.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-18 00:20:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>J.Jeffrey</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that a child should not be judged if he/she portrays any unmannerly behavior because you may never know what that child is dealing with in their household or how well they are coping with social standards. However, Instead of being judgmental, I believe that it's socially acceptable if you show the child the right way, by means of giving positive pieces of advice and a chance to let their voices be heard.<br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-18 00:52:32 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>alexander gumbs</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>in my opinion i think it is  acceptable to talk about how other parents raise their children so that your children wont follow or copy what the other children do  that is bad or poorly mannered .</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-18 14:12:52 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Malachi</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I believe that if you see something that you don't like just walk away. Don't go up nor gossip saying bad things about that person because that person has feelings and i, sure know for a fact that if it was your little sister, little brother or even your very own child you wouldn't want anyone gossiping bad things about them.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-24 19:24:59 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Nikhiel</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I find it unacceptable and disrespectful for anyone to be talking about any child in any way. you have always have something positive to say in any situation intend of hurting someone feelings. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-02-28 02:42:00 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Omario<br><br><br>I believe that its disrespectful to be talking about any child in anyway. I say this because children aren’t perfect and they make mistakes just like adults do as well. With that being said adult need to keep their composure when it comes to kids.<br><br><br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-01 15:07:42 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Monica P.</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>To judge a child in any way or form is the most disrespectful thing a person could ever do. children are going through a process that we have all been through and to compare a child with another child is horrible. That falls on the parents, in any way or form you shouldn't judge anyone at all</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-07 15:12:53 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>I feel like this is very rude to be speaking about a child like this. A child cannot defend themselves.</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-14 04:17:02 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>harnoor zaaldar</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I think that a child should never be judged if they are not behaving right, as you might not know what they are going through, and also because everyone has there own way to cope.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-14 05:29:59 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>harnoor zaildar</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>everyone should be respectful to another child, no matter what they look like, they should just be glad an another human came to the earth.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-14 05:33:10 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>harnoor zaildar</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I think that the most disrespectful thing you can do is compare one to another, this can cause a child a lot of stress and pressure which can be harmful in many ways including his/her daily life.</div>]]></description>
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         <title>harnoor zaildarr</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>everyone's feelings are valid and no one should ever be disrespected on the way they look or on the way they think about anything.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-14 05:36:12 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>i feel like you should always try to understand your children and communicate with them because you wouldn&#39;t want them to hide or feel as tho they cant speak to you about certain things  - maranda r</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-14 23:19:09 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>You should know the person before you judge them because you don&#39;t know what they are going through or who they are. You may think someone is one thing and you could be completely wrong.-om</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-16 00:14:35 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>everyone&#39;s feelings are valid and no one should ever be disrespected on the way they look or on the way they think about anything.</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-16 02:27:15 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Judgement is the true evil in this world. We find our selves giving the idea that we have the right to say what’s okay and what’s not so if it’s so bad can we feel guilt and it’s a yes. But we are so filt with guilt we have now obsessed over the feeling </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-16 14:12:11 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Tania </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>In &nbsp;my opinion i don't think it's right to say things that are not good about someone's kid. like your going to say something bad about them, it's better you don't say anything at all. when it comes on to being socially acceptable and unacceptable to say to your own children. I don't think their is a limit because it's your job to let them know every little and big thing.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-16 15:22:58 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>People should not say rude things about other people's children. Hearing things about our children would feel terrible so saying things to others would affect them as much. Though there are people who aren't capable to be parents become parents and are unable to provide a good environment for the child to become a good person with good values. People should maybe try to critic them more softly. In a way that won't harm the child emotionally or their self esteem. Even then there are a few things that will be unacceptable to ever say to anyone.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-18 23:01:34 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I feel like people should just say what they want to say but being rude that's a different story because why do you have to say something disrespectful for </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-19 20:07:24 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>If your children start being rude I believe you should understand that when kids get over-stimulated, they get stuck. So the first step in getting them unstuck is to avoid stimulating them by demanding things. Mohit Heerawat</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-20 17:49:28 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I think you don't say anything to a child that the parent doesn't say to them</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-03-22 02:11:43 UTC</pubDate>
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