JFED: Early Memories And Conversations About Race by Jessica Ralli https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0 (Questions adapted from Beverly Daniel Tatum) Think about these questions to learn a little about what we already knew about race from a young age. en-us 2022-05-13 13:48:04 UTC 2022-05-23 17:53:05 UTC hello@padlet.com 25 years old https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190327943 2022-05-19 00:21:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190327943 No https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328142 2022-05-19 00:21:49 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328142 Happiness https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328210 2022-05-19 00:21:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328210 No because I was a grown up https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328562 2022-05-19 00:22:09 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328562 14 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328641 2022-05-19 00:22:13 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328641 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328788 No]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:21 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328788 yes https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328828 2022-05-19 00:22:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328828 6 - First Grade https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328841 2022-05-19 00:22:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328841 6 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328854 2022-05-19 00:22:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328854 yes, ten years old https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328941 2022-05-19 00:22:30 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328941 7 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328995 2022-05-19 00:22:33 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190328995 8 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329008 2022-05-19 00:22:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329008 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329147 Yes. I was probably 5 years old.]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329147 fear and sadness https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329217 2022-05-19 00:22:45 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329217 embarrassment https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329227 2022-05-19 00:22:45 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329227 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329231 4 or 5]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:46 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329231 discomfort, embarassement https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329378 2022-05-19 00:22:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329378 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329403 Confused]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329403 yes, young-ish https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329423 2022-05-19 00:22:54 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329423 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329476 10]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329476 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329477 No]]> 2022-05-19 00:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329477 scared https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329503 2022-05-19 00:22:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329503 Embarrassment https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329563 2022-05-19 00:23:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329563 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329593 Guilt.]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:03 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329593 My babysitter was black. I loved her and her family so much. We went to her house every day after school. I remember being surprised that her house (in a poorer section, more rundown) was in the same town as mine. I also used to think that I could stop every black person on the street and ask them if they knew "Brenda". https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329599 2022-05-19 00:23:04 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329599 confusion and sadness https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329620 2022-05-19 00:23:04 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329620 yes https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329630 2022-05-19 00:23:05 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329630 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329653 Early 20s]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329653 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329682 Yes. Confused ]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329682 No, I didn't know what to say https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329808 2022-05-19 00:23:13 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329808 no, didn't know what to say https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329874 2022-05-19 00:23:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329874 the emotions were shame and confusion https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329890 2022-05-19 00:23:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190329890 middle school https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330027 2022-05-19 00:23:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330027 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330055 Confused]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:22 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330055 At the time, there was no feelings attached. Now I feel shame. https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330138 2022-05-19 00:23:26 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330138 Yes. 12 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330141 2022-05-19 00:23:26 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330141 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330248 No, I didn’t have the words to express my feelings and I don’t think my feelings would have been ok to the grownups in my life at the time]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:31 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330248 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330321 Shame and hurt]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330321 yes, my parents. They were also involved in the situation. https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330362 2022-05-19 00:23:37 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330362 no, I never felt that I could share https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330375 2022-05-19 00:23:37 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330375 confused https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330402 2022-05-19 00:23:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330402 Embarrased , confused https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330429 2022-05-19 00:23:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330429 Yes, but I still wasn’t satisfied by the answer. I just accepted it for so long https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330556 2022-05-19 00:23:48 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330556 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330695 I did not talk to a grown up about it. I believe I embarrassed my brother.]]> 2022-05-19 00:23:55 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330695 I did not mention it. It felt taboo embarrassing. https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330792 2022-05-19 00:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330792 it was with a grown up, so I did not speak to another grown up about it. https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330907 2022-05-19 00:24:05 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330907 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330922 Yes- 4 or 5]]> 2022-05-19 00:24:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330922 Yes https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330952 2022-05-19 00:24:08 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190330952 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331094 No, i didn’t think there was anyone i could speak to about it]]> 2022-05-19 00:24:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331094 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331131 Curiousity]]> 2022-05-19 00:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331131 no. it was my grown up made a comment that made me feel embarrassed but i didn't know what to say https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331356 2022-05-19 00:24:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331356 https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331672 Yes, I spoke to my parents and asked a lot of questions.]]> 2022-05-19 00:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190331672 Didn't want to worry my parents. https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190332216 2022-05-19 00:25:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicaelsas/1jcc867v6862o0u0/wish/2190332216