constant conflict - many arguments without resolution indicate poor communication and incompatibility.

manipulation - one person tries to control the others actions, decisions, or relationships.

lack of trust - suspicious, jealousy, and insecurity erode the foundation of a healthy bond.

disrespect - insults, belittling, disregard for the feelings are unacceptable.

unequal effort - one person consistently puts in more effort to maintain the relationship.

isolation - one partner is isolated from friends and family, often a sign of control.

physical or emotional abuse - any form of abuse is unacceptable and dangerous.

walking on eggshells - constantly fearing your partners reactions creates anxiety and tension.

ignoring your needs - your needs and wants are consistently minimized or ignored.

feeling drained, not supported - a healthy relationship should energize you and uplift you, not leave you feeling depleted.

mutual respect - you value each others opinions, feelings, and boundaries, even when you disagree

open communication - you can talk openly and honestly about anything, big and small.

trust and honesty - you feel secure and confident in the relationship, without suspicion or doubt.

support and encouragement - you celebrate eachothers success and offer comfort during challenges.

healthy conflict resolution - you address disagreements constructively, seeking solutions rather than placing blame.

quality time together - you prioritize spending meaningful time together, nurturing your connection.

individuality and space - you maintain your own interests and identities while still enjoying a strong partnership.

physical and emotional intimacy - you share a deep connection that encompasses both physical and emotional closeness.

shared values and goals - you have compatible life goals and values, creating a sense of shared purpose.

laughter and fun - you enjoy each others company and find joy in everyday moments.