"Our Deportment, or the Manners, Conduct, and Dress of Refined Society” Chapter 18: Home Life and Etiquette by John H. Young by Ms. Driscoll https://padlet.com/driscoan/young Which expectations do you agree with? Which expectations do you disagree with? Include the names of your group in your post for credit! en-us 2017-09-12 19:54:47 UTC 2026-01-24 02:39:39 UTC hello@padlet.com Kaitlyn, Shay, Ozzani https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417591 Agree: 1.Home is the woman's kingdom, and there she reigns supreme.
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While he should give his wife his perfect confidence in her faithfulness, trusting implicitly to her honor at all times and in all places, he should, on his part, remain faithful and constant to her, and give her no cause of complaint.

Disagree: 1.Men In fact he ought not to attend a social gathering unless accompanied by his wife, nor go to an evening entertainment without her.
2.She should consult the disposition and tastes of her husband, and endeavor to lead him to high and noble thoughts, lofty aims, and temporal comfort; be ever ready to welcome him home, and in his companionship draw his thoughts from business and lead him to the enjoyment of home comforts and happiness.

]]> 2017-09-20 16:30:55 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417591 Lois, Emily, and Mia https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417622 As a group, none of us agree with the expectations of women. We believe that women should be treated equally to men. We also disagree with Young's thoughts on men. Although we agree that men should be respectful to their wives, all of the extra rules were over the top, and unnecessary. ]]> 2017-09-20 16:30:58 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417622 Aaryanna ,Balin,Andrew https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417633 we as a whole like that both parties are  committed , and these are not restrictions to what the men and women are able to do. These are meant to tell people to provide for each other. we disagree that they have to go out every where together ]]> 2017-09-20 16:30:59 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417633 Alexis Adam Winston https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417701 We disagree with "It is his duty and should be his pleasure to accompany her to church, to social gatherings, to lectures and such places of entertainment as they both mutually enjoy and appreciate." We agree with "His constant duty to his wife is to be ever kind and attentive, to love her as he loves himself, even sacrificing his own personal comfort for her happiness."]]> 2017-09-20 16:31:08 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417701 Dante, Olivia, Shameara https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417722 We agree with the women having control of the children and home being her kingdom.
We disagree with women not having a job and always having to stay home.

We also agree that men have to be kind to their wife and to love her as he loves himself.
We disagree that men have to take their wife wherever they go.]]> 2017-09-20 16:31:12 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417722 Kerron, Ashley, Will https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417816 Disagree with husband "owning" his wife. 
Agree:  Women having to be honorable and having to help husband by knowing expenses and keeping track of what they do spend.]]> 2017-09-20 16:31:23 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417816 Nicole, Saleighia, Madisen https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417891 We agree that the men shouldn't interfere with the wives authority, we also believe that men and women should be treated as equals. 
We disagree that men shouldn't attend social gatherings without his wife. ]]> 2017-09-20 16:31:30 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189417891 Josh, Anthony, Kendall https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189419257 Agree:  The husband, in fact, should act toward his wife as becomes a perfect gentleman, regarding her as the “best lady in the land,” to whom, above all other earthly beings, he owes paramount allegiance.
~She should consult the disposition and tastes of her husband, and endeavor to lead him to high and noble thoughts, lofty aims, and temporal comfort; be ever ready to welcome him home, and in his companionship draw his thoughts from business and lead him to the enjoyment of home comforts and happiness.
Disagree: She should, above all things, study to learn the disposition of her husband, and if, perchance, she finds herself united to a man of quick and violent temper, the utmost discretion, as well as perfect equanimity on her own part is required...
~ To embellish that home, to make happy the lives of her husband and the dear ones committed to her trust, is the honored task which it is the wife's province to perform.]]> 2017-09-20 16:34:01 UTC https://padlet.com/driscoan/young/wish/189419257