https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v en-us 2018-10-23 01:29:22 UTC 2026-03-15 23:33:24 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Simplehouse.png tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295751734 2018-10-23 01:31:23 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295751734 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295751779 In a lot of hispanic households pursuing a higher education is not heavily stressed. However, that was the not case in mine growing up. Due to my parents lack of education and the hardship it caused them they stressed college very heavily on me and my siblings. So, I decided to use a picture of me and my dad at my college graduation. Since it was such a big deal to them it became a big deal to us as well. Now, my eldest sister is working on her PhD, my second eldest has her masters, and now I am working on mine. I think it definitely is a goal of ours to hopefully one day all have our PhD's. ]]> 2018-10-23 01:31:38 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295751779 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295752834 Celebrations are always done very big within my culture. However, it was not how big they were that was as important as us just being there. We were taught that it is very important to show up to family functions. Even now at 22 I would not dare miss any family events. Not because I am scared of getting in trouble but it feels disrespectful and I know it hurts my parents feelings. I chose a picture of a Thanksgiving table. I remember last Thanksgiving I was not going to be able to attend due to work and my dad threw the biggest fit. He had said I would have to quit my job if that was the case. I now make my schedule around holidays and birthday to avoid any type or argument or disappointment with my family.
 ]]> 2018-10-23 01:36:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295752834 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295753165 I chose this picture of a wife serving her husband food. My sister pointed out to me that every time we are at my grandmas she serves her husband his food. If not, she gets in trouble by my grandma. I do not have a husband of my own but I have had to serve my dad food before and one day I will serve my husband.]]> 2018-10-23 01:38:01 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295753165 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295753512 This story is kind of funny. So, I was talking to my sister the other night and I was like I would not say are family is super affectionate but we are huggers right? She then tried to hug me and I made the same face John Stamos is making in this picture. After some reflection, I realized my family is the opposite of affectionate. My parents never really showed a lot of physical affection or physical. I hate people touching me and hugs make me feel so awkward. Often times my friends complain because I am bad at hugging. When we were hurt my parentals were very "get over it" type of parents. I now have a hard time feeling bad for people when things do not go their way. We are all pretty good at sympathizing but have a hard time empathizing with people and different situations.]]> 2018-10-23 01:39:38 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295753512 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295754031 Growing up I heard lots of stories about my mom and my dads childhood. My moms in particular had a huge effect on how I view immigrants and that is why I chose this picture of her and myself. She is originally from Mexico and came to the states when she was little. When I was in high school she received her citizenship and it was a big day for her. When I hear what she went through as a kid and teenager just because she was not from here, hurts me. Now, when people have something to say about people speaking Spanish in America, or people from Mexico, I have something to say. I don't see immigrants as an annoyance but just as people who are seeking a better life.]]> 2018-10-23 01:42:10 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295754031 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295754154 Christianity has been a huge part of my life. While my parents were youth pastors and we did grow up in the church it was always our choice. I know there is a lot controversy on religion, so I am not going to go to in depth. However, it has definitely played the biggest role in my life. I chose this picture of me in Guatemala a couple of summers ago because through christianity I have found my ultimate passion, which is serving people. I particularly enjoy serving people in other countries who have way less than us but I enjoy serving anywhere necessary. Christianity has in no doubt shaped who I am, how I treat others, how I handle different situations and a lot of other things.]]> 2018-10-23 01:42:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295754154 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295755388 My siblings and myself all live in San Angelo with my parents only living an hour and a half away. Their parents both living in the same town as them. This is a picture from just the other day when my sister cooked for all of us. We were taught that family is everything, so to us staying close together and hanging out is very important. If I am doing anything in town I always make sure to invite my siblings. When I invite them it is not because I feel an obligation but because I also see them as my friends and I enjoy their company. Since, I have always been so close to them I never really see myself moving to far away. Maybe a different town but never another state.]]> 2018-10-23 01:48:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295755388 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295756066 This picture makes it seem like machismo is a bad thing which confuses me. My dad never forced my mom to clean or cook it was just her choice. He handled the money side of things and she handled the chores. Even though now my mom makes more money than my dad she still ask for money when she wants to buy something. I still do not know how I feel about that. I do know that because of that upbringing I also see it necessary than one day when I have a household of my own I clean and cook and handle the duties of a wife as my mom did.]]> 2018-10-23 01:52:19 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295756066 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295756359 This is a picture of me and my sister at one of my high school track meets. I chose this picture because this sport was my life all throughout high school. I was pushed to be the best and always strive for first place. Some parents raise their children on the concept of just trying and that win or lose everything just give your best effort. My parents raised us on the concept that you are either a winner or your the loser. I now find it hard to see the value in a lot of the things that I do unless I am the best.]]> 2018-10-23 01:53:55 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295756359 tollfreedial https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295757600 Both of my parents and grandparents have always been excellent role models in their work ethic. They are all very hard workers in everything that they do and they push us to be too. I have had a job since I was 15, even though it was not necessary for me to have one. This is a picture from one of my jobs right now, which is photography. Even though currently my parents pay all of my bills I still have three jobs because I enjoy working. There was once a time in college where I went one month without employment and it gave me so much anxiety.]]> 2018-10-23 02:00:12 UTC https://padlet.com/tollfreedial/18e344e3l33v/wish/295757600