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Assertive honest

950404 — 2025-01-17 00:43:39 UTC

Harvey and Cobalt are in a band and have just landed a spot at a big venue. During the performance, however, Harvey messes up costing them a song. Afterward, Harvey is assertive and apologizes to Cobalt for his mishap, the two forgive each other and Harvey promises to rock out the show at their next performance.

Assertive respectful

950404 — 2025-01-17 01:00:12 UTC

Harvey had previously borrowed Cobalt's guitar pick. He ended up misplacing it and found it multiple days later. After seeing it he calls Cobalt and apologizes and says he will return it as soon as possible. Cobalt is still a little hurt because it's his favorite guitar pick, nevertheless, he agrees to pick it back up and they make up when Harvey returns it.

Assertive direct

950404 — 2025-01-17 01:14:58 UTC

Harvey and Cobalt are playing in the snow when Cobalt pushes Harvey in. Harvey is direct and tells Cobalt he doesn't like being forced into the snow. Cobalt apologizes and they spend the rest of the day playing in the snow.

Assertive appropriate

950404 — 2025-01-17 01:22:07 UTC

Harvey and Cobalt are going out to eat when Harvey takes a wrong turn and they get lost. Cobalt then takes the initiative and directs Harvey to the restaurant from where they are. Harvey thanks cobalt and they arrive safely.

Listening skills: Eye contact

950404 — 2025-01-17 01:45:15 UTC

While Harvey and Cobalt are having dinner Harvey is actively practicing good eye contact to feel more confident talking to people.

950404 — 2025-01-17 01:52:21 UTC

While Harvey and Cobalt are having coffee Cobalt comes clean and apologizes to Harvey about Drinking his favorite drink he left in the fridge, he admits he was lazy and unmotivated to get one of his own so he drank Harvey's. In the end, Harvey forgives him and Cobalt buys Harvey a pack of his favorite drink that they share together.

Active listening remove distractions

950404 — 2025-01-17 02:00:30 UTC

Cobalt and Harvey are sitting on the couch relaxing, having a conversation when Harvey pulls out his phone to check something, but he quickly remembers his prior engagement with Cobalt and puts it away after remembering there shouldn't be distractions in a good conversation.

Conflict resolution: Avoid escalating

950404 — 2025-01-17 02:04:48 UTC

Harvey and Cobalt are talking when things get a little heated. Both say some things they shouldn't have but avoid getting physical to maintain their relationship.

Conflict resolution: Look at the deeper problem

950404 — 2025-01-17 02:25:36 UTC

One day Cobalt decides to steal Harvey's catnip and apologizes thinking all should be forgiven without a second thought. But Harvey looks at the deeper problem and realizes Cobalt thinks its okay to do things that violate trust. He then addresses this issue with Cobalt and they try their best to rebuild the relationship and set boundaries.

Apologizing, not doing it again and accepting actions

950404 — 2025-01-17 02:42:38 UTC

After Harvey hurt Cobalt's feelings he realized he made a mistake and owned up and apologized to Cobalt. He asked if there was anything he could do to make it better and cobalt said not right now. Harvey again apologized and took responsibility for his actions. in the end, Cobalt forgave Harvey.

Thinking trap: Defensiveness

950404 — 2025-01-17 02:47:17 UTC

While biking around Cobalt brings up something Harvey did in the past that he didn't like. Harvey then got a little offended and started to get defensive in response. Cobalt told Harvey to calm down and he didn't mean anything by it, Harvey said sorry and then took the criticism positively.