How would you prevent it? by Chryssa Velissariou https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i Please, see the videos and answer the question! en-us 2021-03-12 01:50:54 UTC 2023-05-19 23:55:02 UTC hello@padlet.com velissariou1 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301014636 2021-03-12 02:00:35 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301014636 velissariou1 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301017592 2021-03-12 02:01:50 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301017592 velissariou1 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301020127 2021-03-12 02:02:55 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301020127 velissariou1 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301256226 2021-03-12 03:41:25 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1301256226 Responding to Some of these Comments https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404679310 Cyberbullying at my school is something that gets forwarded to the grade-level counselor and principal. With that, when these kind of comments come up in class (the "You're gay" is one that DEFINITELY has), I will keep the students involved after class and speak with them about the comments.]]> 2021-04-11 18:14:39 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404679310 Talks about more differences we have moreover than gender or sexuality. Education in fact. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404679964 2021-04-11 18:15:00 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404679964 The feelings are really deep, and boosted in Cyberbullying (All day long bullied) For my secondary students I explained Amanda Todd case to raise awareness. gmedranotic https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680113 This is one of the video results tht our students have developed. Students for students.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ljz3ZQDKQA&list=PLUy-4ie0CfgsxvCll1GiUQWxvqqHYjPPf&index=1]]> 2021-04-11 18:15:07 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680113 Talking with the parents ozguozturkk https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680222 2021-04-11 18:15:10 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680222 Oh, I liked the music :) ozguozturkk https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680506 If this was my daughter, I would send her to a martial arts course ]]> 2021-04-11 18:15:21 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404680506 Cyberbullying is very popular subject and I think that we all must put a lot of attention on that. In this situation we all should talk together teacher, student, parents videnovic_maja https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404681521 2021-04-11 18:15:52 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404681521 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404682526 Focus on making sure people are not alone, and create guidelines to make sure students know they can share. Mental health resources ]]> 2021-04-11 18:16:30 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404682526 Counselling ozguozturkk https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404684349 2021-04-11 18:17:33 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404684349 Acceptance and Support of Disabilities https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404685906 This is actually something my school does okay with I think. We just had our annual Disability Acceptance Week activities (very small, but very visible), which included a whole school hallway gauntlet to send our Special Olympics athletes off to their competition. In my own classroom, I do have to work with students when they use the word "retarded" or say "their slow," "I'm slow," or "I'm SPED" to coach them through why the way they use words is just as impactful as what words they are using.]]> 2021-04-11 18:18:25 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404685906 Focusing on ringleaders https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404686112 I'd conference with individually with students that appear to be leading the attacks. Also, with the student that is being victimized. 

]]> 2021-04-11 18:18:33 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404686112 Set standards from the beginning of the school year, policy updated by the school. Written document. Code of conduct and be available for everyone to see so it's known by all students and parents. Students should know who to turn to. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404687256
Training on bystanders - if you see something, say something. Instruct everyone about this. 

]]> 2021-04-11 18:19:02 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404687256 Juliet, Vanessa UY, Kristina, Jill, Aysen Georgia_Maneta https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404687335 The hardest case to be dealt with. When at school it is easier to "fight" it, when at school you dont' know where to start from. Parents should definitley be involved. Anonymity feature so need Tech experts to help you trach the cyber bullies down. Try to block access to some websites at school. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:19:04 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404687335 Labelling students is something so common among students. we should prevent this. gmedranotic https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404688569 2021-04-11 18:19:42 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404688569 Review the policy and consequences for Cyber Bullying with students and parents. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404688677 Drama works!]]> 2021-04-11 18:19:46 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404688677 cyberbullying is very common in my school, too. Maybe because of too much time students spend on social media. When they report it is easy to help but in many cases they try to deal themselves which leads to conflicts. vlodushi https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404689645 2021-04-11 18:20:22 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404689645 Our school is aware gmedranotic https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690031 We have many different nationalities, and this issue is decently controlled.]]> 2021-04-11 18:20:38 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690031 I agree with Georgia with this being difficult - easiest to remain anonymous and the bully can feel protected to be more aggressive . We do try to address this on a regular basis through part of our SEL work at my school. wwdaniel3 https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690374 2021-04-11 18:20:50 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690374 Not as "obvious" in my school https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690409 Racism is actually a trickier issue to deal with in my school because it is very diverse, especially for the state I am in. I have not witnessed any forms of racism or race-based bullying in my own class or in the hallway, but I also have found that "racist" and "racism" are words that some of my students will use very freely when an adult is not letting them do what they want.]]> 2021-04-11 18:20:51 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404690409 suzannegiacotto https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404691196 2021-04-11 18:21:19 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404691196 Violence requires action. If students don't tell- how would you know? https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404691890 The opportunities for student discussion circles may allow some aspects of this bullying to come out.
Building relationships with students is important for teachers so that students will feel comfortable 'snitching' to you!

School policy certainly determines student actions. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:21:46 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404691890 Juliet, Vanessa UY, Kristina, Jill, Aysen Georgia_Maneta https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404692435 During trips ask the students to stay togerher. Ask the students to get into another student's shoes and see how they would feel. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:22:02 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404692435 Bigger issues https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404692696 This sort of violence is often associated with early signs of gang activity. Meeting with aggressor's families and school admin. 
 ]]> 2021-04-11 18:22:11 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404692696 Upstanders suzannegiacotto https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404693303 At school we have a board where students can share news about each other standing up to bullying or inappropriate actions toward others.  

]]> 2021-04-11 18:22:33 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404693303 Making sure that everyone have abilities to show their strengths so they can shine. Work on creating inclusive classroom through different activities. Sense of belonging and community for all. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404693880 2021-04-11 18:22:56 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404693880 Punishment ASAP. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404694609 2021-04-11 18:23:25 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404694609 There must be school policy about working with this kind of bullying videnovic_maja https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695353 2021-04-11 18:23:47 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695353 Juliet, Vanessa UY, Kristina, Jill, Aysen Georgia_Maneta https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695554 "Out of my mind" book could be a diving board for students to accept each other the way they are. Invite and allow each handicapped student's voice to be heard. Finding the similarities. "Best Buddies" programme thoughout the US. A good way to make students to feel connected to each other. "Sparkles Cheeleading" where cheerleaders get connecet to handicapped students. they are given uniforms, perform together etc.]]> 2021-04-11 18:23:55 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695554 Gender Board suzannegiacotto https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695973 Last year we had a 2nd grade board that showed gender sensitivity and promoted terms to promote tolerance. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:24:12 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404695973 Working with students in order to create inclusive school videnovic_maja https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404696483 2021-04-11 18:24:32 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404696483 Making joint activities videnovic_maja https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404699828 2021-04-11 18:26:36 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404699828 Give those students a voice in your class and let them tell their immigration story if they want to. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404700508
Using literature/videos to teach empathy, social emotional learning. Racism difficult to address in prevention. Discussion on stereotypes can be helpful. However, family dynamics that are not inclusive and may share harmful messages that "other" people may be difficult to address in school, mixed messages. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:27:02 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404700508 Juliet, Vanessa UY, Kristina, Jill, Aysen Georgia_Maneta https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404703258 Racism is prevalent in the US. After school meetings to help young students to understand what is happening. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:28:24 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404703258 Storytelling https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404703267 Give to the students the opportunity to share in anomin way their stories

]]> 2021-04-11 18:28:24 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404703267 Painful suzannegiacotto https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404705452 Understanding differences is key to preventing this cruel behavior.  

]]> 2021-04-11 18:29:45 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404705452 It is our job as teachers to carry a torch for inclusion ensuring to light the fire when and where ever needed. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404713704 2021-04-11 18:33:38 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404713704 Using the World as a teachable moment opens up the possibility of discussion about problem solving issues of race. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404719771 My neighborhood has a Monthly Zoom dialogue about issues of race. Most recently we discussed hiring practices that exclude teachers of color. Often students react to not seeing educators that look like them, thus the school becomes to them a window on society as a whole. Do we want to reflect what we see in society or change things for the better? If we see something do we say something or are we contributing to the veil of silence that surrounds racism ? I speak up and out! I teach my students the same! Melissa]]> 2021-04-11 18:37:10 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404719771 Chryssa's Group https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404721055 Importance of teaching children right from wrong.  Involving parents and upskilling parents.

]]> 2021-04-11 18:38:02 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404721055 Chryssa's Group https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404723646 Talk with students, set an example for students to show that it's not ok to solve problems with violence. Have a zero tolerance approach to violence.]]> 2021-04-11 18:39:16 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404723646 We talk with the students involved with the bullyingevent, the parents, then the class and finally the whole school. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404724451 2021-04-11 18:39:48 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404724451 Chryssa's Group https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404725660 Practice inclusion and have school supports in place for pupils. ]]> 2021-04-11 18:40:34 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404725660 Our school did a Theatre Group with a BLM theme and Cyberbullying and focused on kindness. the students liked it so much they want to share it with their parents. So we will share the video of the theatre with the parents. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404728977 2021-04-11 18:42:17 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404728977 At my school I have teenagers and I use a writing task to address physical bullying. I present a scenario and have then write an essay about the physical bullying. This opened up a very uncomfortable topic and many wrote about middle school and were able to show empath and the shame they felt. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404732537 2021-04-11 18:44:05 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404732537 Roots of Empathy https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404733677 We use this programme with our students and it is a very positive experience.]]> 2021-04-11 18:44:43 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404733677 I find it is important to build relationships so teenagers will share. I send home a game packet with dice and have a social even on Zoom from 2-3pm. I create breakout rooms and the students can talk in small groups. Also with the games I find the students recognize it is important for others to have someone to play with so they will join in a game with others. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404738771 2021-04-11 18:47:36 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404738771 I talk to my elementary students and let them know about the handicapped students behavior and encourage them to play with them. Often the handicapped student has an adult with them so it is really helpful to ask a sensitive student to play with the student. The adult does not always notice how to set this up so it is a relief for the adult to see the handicapped student engage in play. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404746476 2021-04-11 18:52:07 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404746476 It is important for the victim to speak up and tell an adult if they are physically bullyied. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404754675 2021-04-11 18:56:50 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404754675 We have a round table discussion to discuss why hate language is so harmful so kids understand. https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404765746 2021-04-11 19:03:04 UTC https://padlet.com/velissariou1/167gva5svj8igb8i/wish/1404765746