Teen forum (11D6) by Rosy Lemon

Re: My broken promise!

oldymoony — 2021-10-13 09:04:18 UTC

By: Ngoc Quynh>> Tuesday, November 22nd, 2016 at 6:00 P.M.
Current mood: I'm so regretful!
My friend – Alisa confided a secret to me when we went out for a drink. She told me about her new boyfriend. He betrayed her and she got upset. Then, I went to another friend’s house – Emily. She asked me about Alisa’s new boyfriend and I told her the whole story. One day, Emily met Alisa and asked how she and her boyfriend were then. And Alisa got angry with me, she said I broke my promise and she broke up with me.

I tried to apologize to her but she did not accept my apology. She said she would never forgive me.

I wish I had not told her story for Emily. How can I make her forgive me?

Re: My imaginary friend

2021-10-14 10:32:53 UTC

By: Le Ngoc Linh>> Friday, October 14th, 2021 at 5:00 P.M
Current mood: I'm so depressed!
I've always been proud of having a best friend - her name is My since we were at secondary school. Everything went well until she entered grade 10th; unfortunately, she had to drop out of school due to her poor family
Now she is struggling to earn her livelihood by working for some food stores because her parents are not able to help her with financial support anymore. And what makes her feel most depressed is her missed me and many other friends at school, so she always dreams of being back to school someday.
As a best friend, I really hope that best wishes come to her or luckily she can receive some help from other good people.

Re: I have no best friend

lva231105 — 2021-10-14 15:32:26 UTC

By: Le Van Anh>>Thursday, October 14th, 2021 at 10:30 P.M
Current mood: I feel a little lonely...
I have a lot of friends from when I was just a little girl until now. And I also had some best friends in each phase of my life. But they always come and go. Now I've got a group of friends since secondary school. We often text together but rarely meet face-to-face. In spite of that, I still feel lonely. Everyone has at least one best friend to talk about many things in life, share feelings, memes, dramas, crushes, etc.. with each other. And I still have not found a real best friend to do it.
Sometimes, I wonder why I'm so strict about finding a close friend like that. But you know, nowadays there are a lot of toxic people around us. That's why I have to be careful. Besides, there are also many good people but unfortunately, they and I just aren't well-matched. So many times I feel sad, depressed, happy,...but I don't know who to share with. That makes me feel very lonely.
I hope one day I will meet my best friend who I look forward to.

Re: My mother' s being unreasonable

2021-10-15 08:19:39 UTC

By: Nghiêm Thị Tuyết Mai>> Friday, October 15th,2021, at 5:30 P.M
Current mood: I'm so upset !
I love listening to kpop music and I'm a big fan of band name is BTS. My mother also knows I like them. My mother didn't stop me at first but later she started to change her mind. My mother thinks that they bring me bad things because they elegant and fashionable, pierced, they are famous, have different languages and there is a big age gap. My mother told me them could be a bad influence on me and I should stop being like them. She said I should focus on studying, not spend my time on useless things like this. I think my mother is being unreasonable. She shouldn't judge my idol by their looks.They are perfect, talented people. They give me strength whenever I feel unhappy, their music is very good and contains a lot of meaning. They love their fans so much, and they inspire, positive messages to people through their music. I can't stop being love them just because my mother doesn't like them. I wish mom stopped judging other people by their appearances, change your mind about them,don't forbid me to admire them, lend a sympathetic ear to me . How can I make her understand this?

Re: My failed high school exam

2021-10-15 13:13:52 UTC

By: 19.Việt Hoàng>>
Friday, October 14th, 2021 at 8.00 p.m.
Current mood: I'm so disappointed!
About a year ago my high school exams took place. My family has high expectations on me. After the exam I was quite confident about my results in a specialized school. On July 31 of last year was the date of the end of the test scores. I was really surprised and disappointed when I lack 0.25 points to get into the school I wanted. My mother was extremely sad and disappointed. But fortunately, I still passed the Cau Giay school.
I try to study well to take it as an apology for those who have put their trust in me.
I wish I studied harder then to get into the school I wanted.

Re: my friend ignore me

2021-10-15 14:39:46 UTC

By Nguyễn Thị Nga Friday October 15th 2021 at 8.30
Current mood i was unhappy and shocked
When i was 14 years old i had a close friend who was lend a sympathetic ear and see eye to eye with me .we was always share with other about study family society...,however, we had a augment too. I adviced she to change her attitude when i told her about her mistake. But she was always following the beaten track . She said that i made a mountain out of a molehill . She stopped to play with me after that. I was also sad and cross , unbelievable. I wanna everything back to the way it was.

Re: My group of friends talk less

2021-10-15 17:26:29 UTC

By: Trinh Linh Anh>> Saturday, October 16th, 2021 at 00:11 A.M
Current mood: I feel sad!
I have a group of friends from middle school. In middle school, we were very close and had a group chat. We share a lot of things with each other: dramas, boyfriend problems, crushes, family,... We also help each other in studying, its really fun.
But when we went to high school, everyone went to different schools, they had more new friends, so we didnt text each other less. Because of the epidemic, we cant hang out together. A friend of mine in the group also told me she was sad when we talked less.
I hope that by the end of this pandemic we can hang out and talk as much as we did in middle school.

Re: My parent never listen to me

nguyentrinhnhatduy05 — 2021-10-16 01:55:56 UTC

By: 13.Nhật Duy>>
Saturday, October 16th, 2021 at 8.00 am
Current mood: I'm feel very sad!
I used to have many arguments with my parents because of the difference point of view. When I have my favourite hairstyle, they told me to cut it because they think it won't sympathetic to the people around. Then, when I tried to study hard, they ignored it and asked me why I always watch tv but never study. I tried to explain but they thought I was trying to argue with them. And there were many things i can't understand because they usually don't understand me. I don't know what I have to do now?
I wish they could hear me more

Re: My best friend being too selfish

2021-10-16 06:13:58 UTC

By : Le Phuong Huyen>>Saturday,October 16th, 2021 at 1:08PM
Current mood: I don't know I should continue to be friend with her or not..
When I was 13 I have a best friend, we always share things and talk about our daily life and our emotions. But one day, I have to take care of my friends near my house, because she was sick and her parents are far away from home.
I already explained to her the reason why I rarely hang out and talk to her. But we did texting alot like a normal conversation. She accused me not take care of her and made her feel lonely. I don't understand why she did that to me. She just talk bad thing about me to my classmates behind my back, and everyone just think I'm a bad friend.
I need your advise for this situation. I really really don't know what to do..Help me..!

My bestfriend has a lover

2021-10-16 08:30:05 UTC

By: 11. Vu Minh Anh>>Saturday, October 16th, 2021 at 3:30PM
Current mood: I'm so upset!
My best friend and I were playing happily together when an incident happened to us. That's my best friend who has a lover. It's actually quite shocking and a bit sad. I still support my friend who has a lover because someone will take care of and care for my friend. But a sad thing happened, when my friend had a lover, she started to become alienated and didn't play with me. I was feeling extremely depressed and wondered why she had changed so much. Before, she and I always went out to eat, hang out, go to the movies together a lot and almost all week. When there is something sad, she came to me first to confide. But now it's different, everything has changed, she didn't see me as her best friend anymore because she already has someone else. How can people change so quickly? Right now, I don't know how to make our friendship as it was before. Can anyone give me advice?

Re: My self-depreciation

2021-10-17 08:59:33 UTC

By: 08 Phuong Anh>> Sunday, October 17th, 2021 at 3:00 pm.
Current mood: I'm so upset
When I was 5th, 6th grade, I learned taekwondo and I participated in a few tournaments. I had two awards, but I was very confident at this time. I was a monitor. I could stand in front of many people to express myself, stand on the platform to recieve award and be loved by everyone around me. I was so happy at time. And I wonder why my self-confidence has dropped so much. Probably because I quit taekwondo. Probably because I was in my puberty, the physical changes changed my personality a little bit. So I'm isolating myself in my own world that makes it difficult for me to make friends. When I was in 10th grade, it took me 3 weeks to be able to talk to my tablemate. Until now, I'm in 11th grade I still can't get along well with my classmate.
I'm still trying to refine myself and open my heart to being more comfortable with my friend and standing in front of the crowd. But what should I do now ?

12. Linh Chi

2021-10-17 14:00:38 UTC

Re: I become insensitive to the things around me

2021-10-18 12:31:48 UTC

By: 40 Nguyen Thi Minh Tam>>Tuesday Octorber 18th, 2021 at 7:30PM
Current mood: I'm so confused
I became uncontrollably in love with myself, I spent all my time, mind and thoughts to it. I even sometimes feel like my friends or the people around me become annoying. I always want to "imprison" myself in my own space.
I become negative and neglectful in relationships. I hate having someone come and go in my world, maybe all of this stems from my low self-esteem
I don't want to get close to anyone for fear that my flaws will be discovered, I think it's low self-esteem and selfishness. Help me!

Re: I can't control my anxiety

nph050605 — 2021-10-19 03:02:40 UTC

By: 22. Ng P Huyền>> Tuesday, October 19th, 2021 at 9:40 a.m
Current mood: I'm confused!
I used to be an innocent and active girl when I was a lot younger. I didn't care about what had happened or what would happen to me because I wasn't aware of toxic things around us. But until the moment my puberty started, I became more sensitive. I have a tendency to worry about my outlook, my scores at school, my relationships and worse, what others think about me. Although my friends all tell me to relax, explain that nobody is perfect and just be the way I am, I still cannot stop being anxious and overthinking about the smallest mistake I've made. This issue has been following me for 4 years and has affected my lifestyle real bad. I tried to stop my negative flow by playing games, listening to music, cooking but nothing helped. I wish I could get away from this. What should I do?

Re: I have new friends

2021-10-19 06:27:21 UTC

By: Tran Huong Giang>>September 14th 2020, at 8.30 a.m. I'm so happy!
My family moved to a new city last week and today was my first day in my new school. Everything was new: new classrooms, new teachers and new classmates. At first, I felt very lonely because I knew nobody here. I just stood on my own and my new classmates were looking at me curiously. I didn’t know what to say to break the ice. I felt miserable.
But then everything changed when the teacher introduced me to the whole class and asked the class monitor to help me to get to know my classmates and the school rules. She took the initiative to show me around the school. She also helped me to make friends with other students. She made sure I was never alone on my first day in my new school.

Although I still miss my old friends, I like my new school and classmates. I hope I can make lots of good friends here.

Re: I almost lost my bff

2021-10-19 06:45:02 UTC

By: Trần Quỳnh Như>> Tuesday, October 19th, 2021 at 1:12 pm.
Current mood: I'm regretful.
For bout 5 years together, me and my bff been through many things. We fought a lot, and one time, she almost broke up with me. Starting with a tiny problem, we were too selfish and didn't think bout the other's feeling. So we gave each other the silent treatment. Then, I saw she with her new friend, I thought our friendship was over. But after a week, suddenly we were friend again. I didn't know how, maybe it was friendship magic. Then she told me that, turn out, her ''new friend'' was just some random girl asked her the way to the library.
I'm the one who was wrong in the first time but I didn't say sorry to her, i tried but too scared. I wish I said the word sorry sooner!

Re: My father have changed his mind

nguyenngoclinh111205 — 2021-10-19 09:31:07 UTC

By: Nguyen Ngoc Linh>>Tuesday, October 19th,2021 at 4:00PM
Current mood :I'm so happy
My father used to be very harsh, whenever I said something contrary to his thoughts, my father would react strongly. Again, my body is also stupid, the reaction is even stronger, the duel is always terrible, and the father and son quarreled a lot. Then suddenly I read somewhere, that two people yelling at each other is because their hearts are too far apart, they can't hear each other, so they have to raise their voices. Since then, whenever my father yelled at me, I would calm down. If it's trivial, I won't say it anymore. If it's important, I'll choose to say it. If my father is too harsh, I save it, wait for him to calm down and continue talking, or wait for another time to bring it up again. Dad kept snapping that I stopped, there are many times that, there's no rush. Gradually the conflict also decreased, I began to accept my thoughts, although I still do not like to think that way.
I have a story I often tell my parents. What I plan to do often tell and say why I do it. If there is objection, I will let the next time speak. Besides, parents need time to think. Like when I said I would bleach my hair dyed gray smoke, talking was also scary, shaking. Gradually every day I talk a little, about a month later my parents calm down, I am also surprised! When my parents approved, I went to dye it, I don't want to dye it right away during a fight, it's like I don't take my parents' words seriously.

re:i have a best friend of the opposite sex

2021-10-19 11:39:19 UTC

by:Nguyen Thanh Thu>> tuesday,october 19th,2021 at 6:30pm
current mood:t don't know :D
I used to have a friend of the opposite sex who was really close, what can I tell him, he knows everything about me and me. The two of us just stopped at the level of best friends because we weren't. each other's objects. whether it's sad or happy, but when I need him, he's always ready to listen even though he's busy. At that time, I really appreciated him, but one day neither of us was willing to start a conversation first. Since then, cx It's been 3 months and we haven't texted each other. One day I texted him and he just replied, which made me quite sad.
but that's okay because now he and I can say we've made up, the other day I fell in a car with a friend, he asked me and asked "where am I?" he will come to pick me up. it warms my heart

Re: My wounded heart

2021-10-19 13:42:17 UTC

By : Le Thi Thuong>> Tuesday October 19th,2021 at 8pm
Current mood: I'm so grieved!
Sometimes in this normal life has some little things make you unhappy,right? That happended to me. My friend - Ngan is one of my friends that i love and respect so much. When we also went to the same middle school, there are so many good and happy memories that i cherish deeply. I thought that this beautiful friendship would be unbreakable. But i was wrong. When she went to her new high school ,everything seems cold and there is a distance between us. She hang out with new friends and chats with them often but i don't. Hmm maybe i did something wrong with her? I thought about this a lot and also tried to support and usually text her but may be not better like past. She stills text me sometimes but i think it's because she tries.I knew this was going to happen but i'm disappointed anyway. What should i do? I hope I still hope we're still friends , even though we may be not be close friends in the future.

2021-10-19 13:49:40 UTC

Re: My parents are too strict.
By: Quynh>> Tuesday, October 19, 2021 at 18:00 pm
Current mood: I'm so sad!
My parents decided the time for me to go home in the evening. They expect me to be home at 9 o'clock. I asked them to give me a curfew after that because I wanted to spend more time with my friends but they didn't agree.
Last night, I went out to my friend's house. My parents were very upset and they kept calling me. I asked permission from them to allow me to stay there for a while. However, they said that if I didn't go home right away, they wouldn't let me in.
I'm really embarrassed to say goodbye to my friends but I have no choice.
I wish that my parents would allow me to stay out until 10 o’clock in the evening.

Re:Toxic Relationships

embeiu1625 — 2021-10-19 14:43:12 UTC

By: 45. Nguyen Quynh Trang>>Tuesday,October19th,2021 at 21:22 PM
Current mood: Can everyone stop being so toxic?
I love meeting new people and making new friends. I can easily talk to new people without feeling awkward at all. Everyone love to be friends with me too but I only truly believe my circle which includes my close friends. We've been friends since middle school and now I still make close contact with some people. But I feel like when I grow up and go to high school things become so much more complicated. Everyone keep playing fake with each other, no one dare to express their true feelings or their real emotions. Some of them even become so selfish and toxic. And that happen to my ex friends. It's not only once time but I have been betrayed,insulted or left out for 5 times. I don't even know what I've done wrong and I totally know I deserve ways better. People keep treating me like I don't exist or being rude to me even if I ask them but I have no answers back. Please all I want to do is being a good friend and finding someone that can truly share my secrets without afraid of anything. That affected badly to my mental health, I'm always shy and it stopped me from doing stuff I used to be crazy about.
But now I have changed and relized that all I care and have to love is MYSELF and the ones that love me. I don't have to rely on anyone and no one can stop me from LOVING MYSELF. Thanks to my self that I have been so strong and could go through that hard time to become me now. Right now I'm focusing on my spiritual and improving my mental health.
Life has been so good lately<3

Re: My parents are too strict

tranthuthuy02102005 — 2021-10-19 16:54:48 UTC

By: Tran Thu Thuy>> Tuesday, October 19th, 2021 at 11:27 P.M
Current mood: I'm so annoyed!
My parents always make things more complicated than it is. Whenever I wanted to hang out with my friends, my parents wouldn't let me go until I gave them the contact number of at least 3 friends who went out with me on that day. Also, I only allowed to come to my friend's house to study if my parents have come to their house and have a conservation with their parents first. What's an annoying situation!
Maybe my parents just want to make sure that I will be safe. However, I'm 16 now! I believe I can make my own decision, as well as knowing what will have bad influence on me. I wish that my parents could understand my feelings. What should I do?

Re: I used to have bad friends

2021-10-19 17:07:35 UTC

By: Vu Bich Ngoc>> Wednesday, October 20th, 2021 at 00:10 AM
Current mood: I feel regret!
When I was in middle school, I didn't have many real friends and that made me feel quite out of place in the classroom. Then I was asked by a group of friends to play with me, so I was very happy. Because I was immature at that time, I played with them and I was dragged into making my studies worse at that time.
After realizing that playing with them was not good and negatively affected my studies, I stopped playing with them and focused again on studying and improving my grades.
Now that I think about it, I wonder why I played with them to let my score drop and I will use that as an experience for my future actions.