I know you are not going to like this but I left my old job and started a brand new out of hours vet. I know you might seem shocked and that I am running my future but please hear me out. I am young and full of energy, excited to get a job and help the people around me yet my bosses were the complete opposite (a bit like you dad). Born and raised in this town they cared little about anyone else. All they wanted was to stay in the same situation as before. Never taking any risks or trying anything new. . They were stuck in their old ways and not ready to even explore my proposal. Furthermore, the work environment of my past job did not suit me at all. They complained about my piercings! When I did not respond or remove it they sent me a note with ‘no piercings’ highlights. It was almost like they were trying to change and manipulate my identity. They took part of my personality and made it illegal. That was one of the final straws. As I continued to work there it became clearer and clearer to me just how grey the bosses were. It infuriated me to no length. I gave them multiple reasons as to why it would be beneficial to the business and how we could grow our influence yet they did not listen at all. What is the point of me being there when they dont respect me, they don't listen to me and they look down on me only for being younger and more eager to help the place I live in.

I know you are not going to like this, but I also know that you are going to be convinced by my decision after you are done reading this letter. I have resigned from my previous job due to a series of unfortunate events that had happened to me. Basically, I was not respected by my colleagues at my previous job, as they did not listen to any of my ideas and did not include me in their discussions because they thought I was too immature. Whereas, they knew nothing about the world themselves as they were emotionless people who were unaware of the latest trends and current fashion, and hence saw me as the odd one out. You are aware of my accepting nature towards all cultures because of the exposure you both have provided me by funding my trips to all around the world. But, my colleagues were extremely spurning towards my lifestyle. They used to have obligations with my piercings and even my flip flops.  All of this made me feel that I had a lot of negative people around me, who expected me to change my identity which I was not ready for.

 I know you’re not going to like this, but its about time i explained why I quit my job and opened up the out-of-hours surgery. 

Well for starters, the place I worked in practiced old-fashioned vetinary. Now don’t get me wrong they’re perfectly fine, but it made me feel very uncomfortable and excluded due to my age and experience. My employers, who are significantly older than me, are loyal to the aged practices and refuse any other opinion. They lacked ambition, and I heavily disliked that. The out-of-hours service could have benefitted the company. Because, despite the number of veterinary practices in our area, there was little provision for out-of-hours services.  It was a really good opportunity with numerous benefits. However,I was unable to convince anyone of the benefits of this practice, being constantly shunned by my employers with unreasonable insults. So i took it upon myself to move on to greater heights and not let this mishap stop me from benefiting from this business opportunity.

I know that you are not going to like this, but I have made up my mind. I am aware that you probably do not approve of my career move, so I would appreciate it if you could hear me out first. I can assure you, though, that I am happy and at a stable position in my life. Staying at that vet was not very ideal for me. My colleagues went against my clothes, as if not accepting me for who I am. Flip flops and piercings are my style. I cannot help but feel that they do not accept my real identity. Building on from this, they did not even feel comfortable personally telling me about their problem with my piercings. I feel excluded in that working environment, that I do not belong with them. Furthermore, I noticed the other employees and I have different views. I am quite dissimilar from the people that I am working with, often making me feel uncomfortable with them, potentially reducing my work efficiency. The people whom I work with are older than I am, with different beliefs. The generation gap makes it harder and more challenging for me to adapt to the working environment. With a population of 150,000 people, I know there are plenty of opportunities for me. 

I know you are not going to like this, but I’m choosing to quit my job at the vet and start my own out-of-hours practice. Staying at the vet just wasn’t for me honestly. I know you expect more from me but just listen to what I have to say. 

The way that my other colleagues work compared to how I work is completely different and we have nothing in common. I get that I’m well-traveled and exposed but they don’t have the same mindset and ideas I do making the job exceptionally difficult and they have such a patronizing attitude towards me. They don’t understand me and vice versa. They’re also significantly older than me. I feel like every step I take they’re judging me. Like with my piercings, they left me an anonymous note which is so cowardly, and other dress code violations for flip flops. They’re making such petty criticisms over such small things which have no bearing on my ability to do the job. I felt so stuck and suffocated. I needed to leave.

I know you’re not going to like this but I must tell you this now or never. Recently, I have resigned from my job as a surgeon. Before you get mad and call me a ‘disappointment’, hear me out! There are a range of reasons why I have chosen to resign from my job. Firstly, my colleagues would NEVER listen to me and my proposals. They were too closed-minded and I simply can’t work happily and effectively around such ignorant people. Secondly, the dress code in the surgeon's office is extremely strict. It feels like you must imprison yourself and as you know, many people in this world admire expressing themselves with clothing and by following their fashion style. Piercings are strictly forbidden. Thankfully, I knew how to prepare myself for potential struggles unlike all my other colleagues. This allowed me to not suffer and reach a potential midlife crisis. Colleagues here are just focused on themselves and on the good of things that benefit them. 

I know you are not going to like this.

After great thought and pontification i have come to the decision to quit my current working job and set up an after hours service at another clinic a bit down the road from the one i have been working at currently. There are a couple of reasons what i have decided to do this namely the fact that i'm not really accepted by my fellow colleagues since most of them are very set in their own ways and are very averse to any forward thinking ideas. Furthermore i have been shut down every time  try to bring up the subject of setting up an after hours center at my current clinic therefore i will be moving.

Another reason why i feel that my current clinic is not the place for me is the fact the cannot accept the clothes i wear, my footwear, and my piercings and to add to that i'm being borderline threatened by someone in my clinic since i have received a letter from an unknown person underlining the dress code.

At my previous job I had a constant income of money, but apart from that I was generally unhappy, this is mostly due to the fact I was never listened to, all my ideas were considered far fetched and childish. The company was old fashioned, meaning any propositions, ideas and change I would come up with would be turned down, explanatorily, my bosses were not open minded, they decide on how the company rolls and change scares them so they reject it, but I am not scared of it. I will make those changes if it means that I have to create my own company to do it. Following that, they are also not accustomed to the new trends. My dressing code and piercings were disregarded, constant objections from my coworker made me feel neglected, and uncomfortable, I couldn't be myself. In addition to the constant evil eyes and judgmental looks, I would receive complaint letters about my looks and clothes. I hope you understand how that encouraged me to resign and run a business of my own. 

I know you're not going to like this but I have decided to move from my previous job and am now pursuing my ambitions to start my own practice. I realised that the job was not a great fit for me. It was a very old fashioned firm with little intention to change or even listen to my out-of-hours idea as well as this they were all very judgemental of my individual style, which you both know I am very expressive with, they were not embracing anything I just felt judged. I was getting notes about my piercings and they had such a strong objection to flip flops which I still don't understand. It was boring. They had nothing to them. They were like mindless beings. I didn't fit in at all, I have travelled to many places and they were stuck in their own ways. I tried. I thought the age difference would make a difference but it did. I needed to leave. I will find a better job which will make me happy.

I know you are not going to like this, but I’ve decided to resign from the company I am working in.  The employers are adamant and old fashioned, they don’t consider new ideas or new thoughts that are shared with them.  I am confident that my idea will help our company grow, but they refuse to listen.They only seem to care about my piercings or the way I dress. It’s not only that, but we have nothing in common. They are not open minded and they lack my ambition.

I know you are not going to like this but I have decided to resign from my job at the local, old fashioned vet to pursue my career of starting my own out-of-hours service. My idea to expand my previous job into a business was something I couldn’t convince my employees to listen to. Instead, they rejected my ideas and they were not as forward thinking as me which I knew wasn’t a right fit for me. My colleagues were old which was probably why they lacked my enthusiasm and thought I was too immature for them. I also didn’t feel comfortable with being myself and felt judged. The strict dressing code that allowed no informal clothing and they even felt the need to send an anonymous message regarding my piercings! Sometimes, I question the many ways on how my clothes can possibly contribute to surgeries. It made it feel as if we had to all dress up a certain way which eliminated our sense of individuality.

I know you're not going to like this but I have decided that it would be best if  I quit my current job as an out of hours vet. I know it may seem like I'm ruining my future but please hear me out. There are many reasons for my decision but the most important being that my colleagues lack the ambition that I have. On top of that their refusal to hear my opinions and ideas genuinely frustrates me. Not to mention the significant age gap between me and my colleagues. Furthermore, they seem rather determined to strip me of my identity. They only care about my piercings! Whether I did my job well or not, they only seemed to care about earrings and the type of shoes I wore. 

I know you are not going to like this but I've decided to leave my current job. I really hope the both of you can understand where I'm coming from and support my decision. I felt as if I didn't fit in, as the employees and I had nothing in common, they are so unwelcoming and old fashioned it’s driving me crazy, i hate it so much. Firstly, they made a dress code with objections to piercings and flip flops, and even highlighted the words “no piercings”. This made me feel super uncomfortable, as i was targeted anonymously adn

I know you are not going to like this and I hope you understand my decision but, my current job as an out of hours vet was not a right fit for me. staying at the company brought me nothing but dread. The way they did things was old fashioned and my ideas were often rejected, which caused me to lack opportunities and not utilise my skills and potential. They were uncomfortable with my shoes and piercings, not letting me express myself. They were like old copies of each other with all the colour drained out and no ambition. 

I am aware of your concerns however I assure you it will work out. For eight years I know I have shown a lack of commitment for previous jobs, however that was only due to the fact that they'd never listen to my ideas and stuck to their ancient ways of running a business. This would also help with my poor time management that you always complain about as I'll be more compelled to go to work everyday. Secondly, an out of hours vet may seem obscure to you as they aren't as popular as normal vets, but I am positive that it will slowly grow over time as there aren't many around. You may not believe what I have said as you me consider me a dreamer with unrealistic plans, but that only makes me more ambitious and hard working to achieve my high goals. 

I know you are not going to like this but I have left my current job to pursue my dream. Staying at the company wasn’t the best move for my career; my employers were very stuck in their ways and leaked my ambition. With a 2 legged population of 150,000, I knew there were many opportunities out there for me. I feel that this will help in seeing the right options for me and my ambition will be set right. I felt like an outcast, different from others and my enjoyment wasn't always at its maximum. I have many reasons for why I have left. Firstly, it was not always my true ambition to be a vet. I never enjoyed the job, especially with the cruel environment around me. My employer abused their power against me. They were very boring people with no sense of happiness or fun. Secondly, everyone hates me for who I was. I felt lost as the way I dressed was not good enough for a workplace environment. I like to express myself with my flip flops and piercings. No one liked me for my identity and it created a problem for which I can’t be who I am.

I know you must be concerned about my new job. I appreciate your concern but I would like to let you know what I’m capable of and how I can manage my life. Firstly, I know you guys see me as having a ‘cinematic fantasy’ which by that you mean that I am not a realistic dreamer and my dreams are too big for you that it’s as if they didn’t match with reality or any possibilities at all. In the past 8 years, I’ve had 5 different jobs. All of them didn’t appeal to me, so I quit all of them one by one. I am a very ambitious and persistent person and I will not let more failures stop me from achieving my dream that I had ever since I was a child. I prefer working by myself and for myself and not being dictated to by other people who don’t value me and force me to work besides ignorant people. I just can’t take this anymore and I know you guys feel I won’t be able to manage my business myself but one thing is for sure. I will not let you down by any chance. I am a very punctual person when it comes to things I’m interested in. For example, I had many late calls in my previous jobs simply because I was not interested in them and I didn’t care about those.

I know you are not going to like this, but I quit my job as a surgeon. I felt a lack of ambition across the staff, and there were little opportunities for promotions. They refused to adapt their business from  their old fashion ways, denying any new innovative ideas. They didn’t like the cloths I wanted to wear every day, not being able to express myself. All of my colleges are older than me, making me feel alienated and not belong.