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Questions about death

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When will I grow up?

Are you going to be dadi or Nani?

Why do I have to be a good person? I want to be a normal person?

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Curiosity toward same sex relationships

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1. How babies are born ?

2. Why my friend was rude to me ?

3. Will I die ? When will you die? Death of their pets ?

4. Who decides you are right ?

5. Why do i have to sleep at the time u decide?

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Consumption if alcohol - is it taboo or not?

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that’s a really good question let’s discuss it?

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Why you not talking to a certain person ?

Why is someone mean or not my friend ?

Why so many religions ?

Why so many languages ?

Why so and so person doesn’t have a parent ?

Why did the grand parent pass away ?

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1. F word

2. How and why are private parts different for boys and girls.

3. Death

4. When can I have a phone?

5. Why are rules different for adults and kids?

6. Why do we have to follow myths and traditions?

7. Poverty- why do people not have money?

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Questions around menstrual cycle in women

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Questions around menstrual cycle in women

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Bodily changes / what is puberty - when will it begin

Questions on life and death -

Questions on relationships, genders,

LGBTQ

Which behaviour is right or wrong and why. Why is it correct for you to behave in certain way and not for me?

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Owning gadgets as well as having gaming devices.

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what is the F word

Why do I not have a phone and when will I get one

Why does Papa have Coke and when can I have it

Can men marry other men

Why do boys have penises and women have vulvas

Why is it always your choice

How are babies born

Why can’t I watch cricket if sports are important

What is money

How much money do you have

What does it mean to be rich

What is business class

What is VIP

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Either I google ?

I don’t know beta? I will find out

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Simplify

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Does one have to be married to have babies?

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I am here I understand let me come back to it?

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how do gay people have children?

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1. Buy time - will answer it in the evening (time to research)

2. Don’t know let’s ask chat GPT

3. Age appropriate behaviour.

4. Ask the specialist - doctor, Play therapist

5. Adult responsibility of looking over a Child - the role of a parent

6. Acknowledge their feeling.

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where is it coming from?

Share stories of yourself

This isn’t the right age to know the meaning.

Ask them - What do you think?

Having a conversation- everything comes out

Read a book

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be honest or they will ask Alexa

Don’t invalidate the question

Ask for time to respond

Ask where is the question coming from

Trust your parents for some time

Different families do different things

Be inclusive in your answer

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First deep breath

Ask them why do you feel this ?

What happen to make you feel this ?

Where did you hear this ?

Give them factual information

Agree with their feeling and find proper terms to explain them

Keep asking them if they understanding the explanations and the responses

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Delayed reply strategies

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Take a minute to think about your answer

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Sometimes it’s important to ask why is it upsetting them ? Have you been hurt ? 

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Sometimes it’s important to ask why is it upsetting them ? Have you been hurt ? 

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Not over reacting to the questions

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-how to answer the questions related to sign languages such middle finger which elder kids spoke

-adult conversation wrt somebody passing away instead of suffering why we r happy for that

-death related questions

-complex relationship questions wrt friends of their liking and disliking

why you can get angry and I can get angry

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Answer the questions during the passing of the day and not during night where they can dwell on it

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1. Chant, breath work,

2. podcasts

3. therapist,

4. Google chat gpt

5. Find solutions which gives relief

6. Share my feeling w them

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Turning online for age appropriate answers

Throwing back the question to explore their current understanding and take it forward

Being honest if you don't known the answer but go back with answers asap

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I don’t know let’s find out together

Control your reaction

Take time to understand

Don’t overreact

Poker face

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why isn’t there a simpler way to get educated

Why do we go to school

Why is school so long

How does the foundation of the sea link stay strong

Why is someone born in a rich house and some kids asking for money on the road

What does F word mean

Why are the staff not sitting with us for meals: separate bed

Why does the soul go after you die

What is period

Questions on death and after life

Questions on sex (older kids)

At what point does fun become bullying and at their level how do you differentiate between innocent playful conversations vs onset of bullying

It’s identifying how to say no and when to say no

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Curiosity shouldnt be a license to experiment or try things out

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Height questions - we blame it on the genes

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Don’t make it a big deal

Take help from a partner to answer the questions

Be honest to tell them we will come back to the question and I don’t have the answer right now

Google the factual answers

Pause and remember to answer an age appropriate answer and not over indulge information

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1. Let me get back to you. Own up that we don’t have answers.

2. Make it funny

3. Sometimes puts us in a spot.

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It can be overwhelming but we usually try to conceal our fear and discomfort

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Ask them what they know

Where did they hear the questions from

I also don’t know the answer but I’ll think and let you know

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Why do you think you are always right ?

Will you also die once you grow up ?

Why/ when can’t I do this ?

Why am I short ?

Who invented the sigma words ?

What is SEX?

When will I grow , when can I use mobile ?

How should u react when some one hits me ?

Why teacher likes other child more than me ?

Why teachers are being biased ?

Why our telefilm says no non-veg and other gods allow to eat non veg ?

Why should we study ? Why do we do the revision ?

My friends travel to London frequently but why are we not ?

when will we travel first class and why don’t we travel first class?

comparisons - why another child is more privileged ?

Why girls have upper hands - gender biased

Why the boys get more shouting than the boys ?

Why did you give me birth if you don’t like me ?

Why do I have to give everything to my younger sister ?

Why do every one says that your sister is small do give her everything ?

Why can’t I have a sibling ?

Why do you like nani the most ?

How do you reposed to these questions ?

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Answer with honesty

If needed, ask for time…. But get back to them in 24hours

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We are open about not knowing and ask for more time to get back to them

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take a minute to breathe

Take a step back

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I am being honest - at times I dwell more kver questions than my own kid

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I sometimes go old school - I get back to my parents on the same questions and they guide me what or how to answer.